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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:25 AM Original message |
Calling adult females "girls" |
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Armstead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:27 AM Response to Original message |
1. Sheilas? |
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catabryna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:55 AM Response to Reply #1 |
28. Ah yes... |
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mr_hat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:05 AM Response to Reply #28 |
32. I thought Sheila was the Aussie distaff of Bruce. |
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catabryna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:52 AM Response to Reply #32 |
59. Well, since Australia eventually... |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 08:25 PM Response to Reply #59 |
265. Well we weren't the penal colony for Ireland... |
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catabryna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 09:14 AM Response to Reply #265 |
272. I do realize that... |
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Armstead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:55 PM Response to Reply #32 |
234. "What? Name's not Bruce? That's going to take some explaining." |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:24 PM Response to Reply #1 |
175. Sheilas |
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Sapphocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 07:01 PM Response to Reply #1 |
258. Oy! |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 08:23 PM Response to Reply #258 |
264. I don't like it... |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:48 PM Response to Reply #258 |
267. Exactly! |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 10:08 AM Response to Reply #267 |
278. THANK YOU! 'Ladies' associate with 'gentlemen'... |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:22 PM Response to Reply #267 |
287. It aggravates me when women's sports teams are referred to as |
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tuvor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:27 AM Response to Original message |
2. The women I know use the term as least as often as the men. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:36 AM Response to Reply #2 |
11. Using it in that sort of context is one thing, |
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tuvor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:40 AM Original message |
Actually, in my experience, men are referred to singly as a "guy". |
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catabryna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
26. And, to add to that... |
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formernaderite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:56 PM Response to Reply #11 |
197. the whole of society seems to be longing to stay |
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Loonman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
3. I prefer the asexual "you guys" |
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mattclearing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:35 AM Response to Reply #3 |
10. Not holding the door is just rude. n/t |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:43 AM Response to Reply #10 |
88. Holding the door open is chauvenistic. |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:47 AM Response to Reply #88 |
90. Chauvinistic my ass! |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:22 PM Response to Reply #90 |
110. I agree |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:32 PM Response to Reply #110 |
122. Well, I'm over 50 and I'd be grateful ... |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:36 PM Response to Reply #122 |
126. LOL |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:59 PM Response to Reply #110 |
154. In Russia, it's the opposite. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:29 PM Response to Reply #110 |
223. Maybe a definition is in order |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:31 PM Response to Reply #90 |
121. I think RagingInMiami was just kidding there dbaker41 |
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ticapnews (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:33 PM Response to Reply #90 |
123. The previous post was sarcasm |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:39 PM Response to Reply #123 |
128. As a woman, I DON'T understand those women who get offended, I mean |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:53 PM Response to Reply #128 |
147. I don't get that either. |
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ticapnews (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:53 PM Response to Reply #128 |
148. As RiM said... |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #148 |
179. I'm glad that you're a polite young man :) |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:51 PM Response to Reply #179 |
268. So, everybody hold doors open for everybody else |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:46 PM Response to Reply #148 |
231. It's getting to the point where you can't do anything nice for anyone |
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rman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 08:16 PM Response to Reply #231 |
263. Can't even say "happy holidays" |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:38 PM Response to Reply #90 |
127. I hold the door open for men and women alike, |
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Dulcinea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:34 PM Response to Reply #127 |
184. Same here. |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:46 PM Response to Reply #90 |
139. Courtesy is asexual. |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:35 PM Response to Reply #90 |
186. I hold the door open for men if they're close behind. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:16 PM Response to Reply #90 |
218. It's good manners, and so is thanking a person for doing it for you |
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mrhopeforwes (230 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #88 |
99. you just proved dave chappelle's point about chivalry being dead... |
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mattclearing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:26 PM Response to Reply #88 |
114. Yeah, and who said anything about holding it for women? |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:30 PM Response to Reply #114 |
119. same with me |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:34 PM Response to Reply #119 |
124. Yep. I'm compulsive about checking behind me ... |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:31 PM Response to Reply #114 |
120. If I had a nickel for every time a woman ever held the door for me ... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:51 PM Response to Reply #120 |
145. Follow me, and the door will be held for you. |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:55 PM Response to Reply #114 |
235. Same here. Young, old, man, woman, whoever |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:29 AM Response to Reply #3 |
45. Women can be 'guys' in plural form. |
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Ron Green (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:39 AM Response to Reply #3 |
87. "You guys" is just awful. |
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johnaries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:22 PM Response to Reply #87 |
111. Ah, but some women will assume that you are not talking to them but |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:25 PM Response to Reply #87 |
113. In the north, women use it as the plural all the time. |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:34 PM Response to Reply #113 |
125. In the South, people use the term girls and honey and Darlin' |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:40 PM Response to Reply #125 |
131. And blacks will call you 'baby'. It's kind of neat. |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:47 PM Response to Reply #131 |
141. I like the term baby, it's sweet |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:57 PM Response to Reply #113 |
237. As a native Michigander, I can confirm that. |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:14 PM Response to Reply #87 |
162. I'm pretty sure this is a generational thing |
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smirkymonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:46 PM Response to Reply #87 |
190. But it's not nearly as bad as "Youse Guys" |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:33 PM Response to Reply #87 |
226. I have a New Jersey friend... |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
116. I LIKE having the door held open, and I ALSO hold the door open for men |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:41 PM Response to Reply #116 |
133. You just keep openin' doors darlin'. I do the same. |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:50 PM Response to Reply #133 |
144. Yep, and you know, it costs nothing to be polite and courteous |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:39 PM Response to Reply #3 |
130. I prefer the asexual "fellows" ... |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
4. In social situations, among friends, it's perfectly OK. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:59 AM Response to Reply #4 |
63. Well said. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
5. Women who get giddy and encourage it annoy me even more. |
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hopeisaplace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:37 AM Response to Reply #5 |
14. My pet-peeve from guys my age |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:37 PM Response to Reply #5 |
215. I HATE it when grownups say. "Goin' to the Little Boys/Girls Room" |
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Gato Moteado (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:30 AM Response to Original message |
6. here in CR, they are chicas, ticas and guapas..... |
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hopeisaplace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
7. I as a female will call a |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:43 PM Response to Reply #7 |
137. Keep doing it! They're your 'girls'. nt |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:33 AM Response to Original message |
8. A woman in my office calls out "good night, boys" every night n/t |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
9. Relax |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:43 AM Response to Reply #9 |
19. See my post #11. |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:15 AM Response to Reply #19 |
72. I saw your post |
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enlightenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:47 AM Response to Reply #9 |
22. At work? |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:17 AM Response to Reply #22 |
74. I most certainly do |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:54 AM Response to Reply #74 |
93. Oooooooooh, SNAP! |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #93 |
100. Given the context, |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:56 PM Response to Reply #100 |
207. You know what though? |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:27 PM Response to Reply #207 |
214. You know what? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:38 PM Response to Reply #214 |
228. Thanks OLL |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:43 PM Response to Reply #228 |
229. Back atcha, cc |
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enlightenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:29 PM Response to Reply #74 |
266. Well, sugar, despite the fact that you've drawn at least one |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:14 PM Response to Reply #22 |
106. there's a problem with 'ma'am' |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:16 PM Response to Reply #106 |
169. many young women now take "ma'am" as hurtful |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #169 |
191. you illustrate the problems |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:12 PM Response to Reply #191 |
284. younger women feel it's a crack abt their age |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:51 PM Response to Reply #169 |
196. 'Madam' and 'miss' inherently refer to marital status, not age. |
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AspenRose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:06 PM Response to Reply #196 |
210. Around here I had been referred to as "senora" instead of "senorita" |
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One_Life_To_Give (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 05:52 PM Response to Reply #196 |
244. Military uses ma'am I beleive. |
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nemo137 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:33 PM Response to Reply #106 |
202. I use it when being polite to an older woman or one in a position |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:40 PM Response to Reply #202 |
203. I agree with being polite |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #202 |
243. That's a good strategy. I'm from the military community and I do the... |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:57 PM Response to Reply #202 |
269. My parents taught me to always say ma'am and sir |
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enlightenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:48 PM Response to Reply #106 |
232. I'm a military brat -- the language works for me. nt. |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:49 AM Response to Reply #9 |
24. Same Here About "Boys" |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:18 AM Response to Reply #24 |
75. It doesn't bother my husband, either, |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:27 AM Response to Reply #75 |
79. Good Point |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:54 PM Response to Reply #75 |
149. Ah think you and ah...are refering to the SAME thing here re. "the boys" |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:58 PM Response to Reply #149 |
153. I learned that one just recently in a novel I read. |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:14 PM Response to Reply #153 |
164. See? SEE HOW IT WORKS? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:28 PM Response to Reply #164 |
177. I learned that one on Queer Eye and have since noticed it ... |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:32 PM Response to Reply #177 |
183. Really? |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:15 PM Response to Reply #153 |
167. Yes, his were "the boys" and mine were "the girls"...we used to |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:12 PM Response to Reply #149 |
160. Who doesn't? |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:19 PM Response to Reply #160 |
173. Heck |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:01 AM Response to Reply #9 |
30. I do it all the time, despite the flack I got on ONE occasion. |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:22 AM Response to Reply #30 |
76. Well, well, well, |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:39 PM Response to Reply #30 |
129. I'm in Connecticut... |
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kliljedahl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:11 PM Response to Reply #30 |
248. Explain this one |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:19 PM Response to Reply #248 |
253. Way'at Mistah Keith! |
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kliljedahl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:30 PM Response to Reply #253 |
255. Damnit, I don't want to be an "Elder" |
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King Coal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:32 AM Response to Reply #9 |
46. Hey ol' Lefty, how does "Haybag" grab you? |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:12 AM Response to Reply #46 |
71. Grab this bag, you old troublemaker....... |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
12. It depends.... |
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LizW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:36 AM Response to Original message |
13. Sometimes |
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hopeisaplace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:40 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. IMO - "ladies", is the nicest term to use |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:33 AM Response to Reply #16 |
49. Yes, but it is an earned title. And has been misused by advertisers... |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:28 PM Response to Reply #49 |
115. Ladies |
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hopeisaplace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:47 PM Response to Reply #49 |
257. I've never thought of the term |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:41 AM Response to Reply #13 |
18. Here in the South, "Ma'am" is often used when addressing one "lady" |
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quiet.american (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:48 AM Response to Reply #13 |
23. Yes, thank you -- I'm with your mom! |
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Individualist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:05 PM Response to Reply #23 |
103. Same here |
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iconoclastNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #13 |
101. Doesn't Lady mean |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:28 PM Response to Reply #101 |
117. 'Lady' has been miss used for so long. "HEY Lady, move your car!" etc. |
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iconoclastNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:41 PM Response to Reply #117 |
134. Well LADY is really illustrative of the complexities of language |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:44 PM Response to Reply #134 |
138. Wikepedia is total crap written by the last person to read the entry. |
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iconoclastNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:54 PM Response to Reply #138 |
150. You don't know much about WIKIPEDIA |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:00 PM Response to Reply #150 |
155. No, in many contexts entries get dominated by cliques. nt |
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iconoclastNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 07:24 PM Response to Reply #155 |
260. Vague. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:20 PM Response to Reply #117 |
174. yes, "lady" is definitely used by rude people |
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Spinzonner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
15. With all due respect |
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dolo amber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:41 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. ... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:45 AM Response to Reply #15 |
20. with all due respect |
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Spinzonner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:53 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. With all due respect |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:33 AM Response to Reply #20 |
48. I'm a female and I use the term "girls", I don't think there's anything |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:50 AM Response to Reply #48 |
57. It's an informal/diminutive term. It's not always appropriate. |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:17 AM Response to Reply #57 |
73. Well I don't use it to put anybody down |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:23 AM Response to Reply #48 |
77. GIRLFRIEND!!! |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:42 PM Response to Reply #77 |
136. Aw shucks, don't mind if I do :) |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:45 AM Response to Original message |
21. Yes, and as in English, it can be a put down AND it can be |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:49 AM Response to Reply #21 |
56. Yes. nt |
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neebob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
25. Well, I'm a 45-year-old girl |
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rockymountaindem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
29. I'd like to speak for the young males |
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vonslagle (100 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
31. It's indicative of age: |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:33 AM Response to Reply #31 |
83. Welcome to DU, vonslagle |
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vonslagle (100 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #83 |
180. Thank You |
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...of J.Temperance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:12 PM Response to Reply #31 |
158. I'm 27 in three weeks, so I'm young and I use the term "girl" |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:16 PM Response to Reply #158 |
168. 27? |
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vonslagle (100 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:40 PM Response to Reply #158 |
189. You Go Girl! |
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2bfree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
33. I'm not crazy about it either. |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
34. Womyn just wanna have fun |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:02 AM Response to Reply #34 |
68. . |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:51 PM Response to Reply #68 |
195. You go, girl |
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JHB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
35. I think it depends on a few factors... |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
36. The Irish in my family do it all the time - I've been refered to as a |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:48 PM Response to Reply #36 |
142. In your family it makes sense. |
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momisold (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
37. I'm a 50 year old girl |
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hiaasenrocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
38. I can see we're addressing the critical issues here. |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:34 AM Response to Reply #38 |
84. Yes, yes, |
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StellaBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:21 AM Response to Original message |
39. I think this is more prevalent (and acceptable) in the South |
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momisold (148 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:23 AM Response to Reply #39 |
40. You could be right. |
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hiaasenrocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:26 AM Response to Reply #39 |
42. I live in South Carolina and the two "girls" I know |
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stanwyck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:38 AM Response to Reply #39 |
86. As a transplanted Midwesterner |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
41. I hate how people say "utilize" when "use" is sufficient. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #41 |
62. 'Use' and 'utilize' have not been used to establish hierarchies. nt |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:16 PM Response to Reply #62 |
213. Pet peeves have to qualify now? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 05:23 PM Response to Reply #213 |
238. Calling a 'woman' a 'girl' is a means to reinforce hierarchies. nt |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:07 PM Response to Reply #238 |
247. Breathing is a means to commit murder. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:14 PM Response to Reply #247 |
250. Do you think it's okay to call black men 'boy'? nt |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:22 PM Response to Reply #250 |
254. Sure, if the person saying it is willing to face the consequences... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 10:13 AM Response to Reply #213 |
279. Well 'I' is used instead of 'me' to sound more sophisticated. |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:22 PM Response to Reply #279 |
288. That's largely your opinion. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
43. Referring to 'women' as 'females' implies something less than human. nt |
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hiaasenrocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:28 AM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Same for "male" I guess. n/t |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:32 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Correct! I live in the military community where 'women' are often... |
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hiaasenrocks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:34 AM Response to Reply #47 |
50. How about "chicks"? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:48 AM Response to Reply #50 |
55. In the right setting, by your friends, it's certainly okay! nt |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 05:38 PM Response to Reply #55 |
241. Hmmm ok by what standards? |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:31 PM Response to Reply #50 |
181. I was with a GIRLfriend one time and a waiter asked me |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
51. Notice when in one sentence a man is called man & a woman is called girl |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
52. Yes, and we speak English here in Canada ;-) |
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Talismom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:47 AM Response to Reply #52 |
54. That's the kind of thing I was just about to post... |
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Quixote1818 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
53. I am 36 and I still say "girls" unless they look old |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:37 AM Response to Reply #53 |
85. Oh, honey |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:18 PM Response to Reply #53 |
252. 36 is young |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
58. Personally, I'm offended by any term which defines gender at all. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #58 |
61. Good suggestion. :-) nt |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:00 AM Response to Reply #58 |
65. Labels do not make people "completely equal" nt |
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HardWorkingDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:27 AM Response to Reply #58 |
80. But then..... |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
60. "Females" was used everytime a human resources |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 10:59 AM Response to Reply #60 |
64. That's really interesting. nt |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:57 AM Response to Reply #60 |
96. I hate the term "females" when used in that fashion. Far more offensive |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:30 PM Response to Reply #96 |
118. Exactly. It implies something less than human. nt |
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moriverrat (80 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:52 PM Response to Reply #60 |
146. The species was part of his job title |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:40 PM Response to Reply #146 |
204. I dunno. I always preferred "Personnel" myself, |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
66. The problem with these things is.. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
67. one of my pet peeves |
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Quixote1818 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:07 AM Response to Reply #67 |
70. I am with you on that |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:23 AM Response to Reply #67 |
78. If you spent a good chunk of your life being referred to as a child... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #78 |
81. Thank you. nt |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:52 PM Response to Reply #78 |
206. I'm frequently referred to as "boy" or one of the "boys" |
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Err (887 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:48 AM Response to Reply #67 |
91. That's one of mine, also. |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
69. A few months ago I was having breakfast at a local coffee shop... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:33 AM Response to Reply #69 |
82. Exactly, KansDem. nt |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
89. So, if I say "I'm going out with the boys" it's OK if they're all white? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:19 PM Response to Reply #89 |
107. Context is everything. Gotcha. nt |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
92. Let me guess |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:42 PM Response to Reply #92 |
205. Nope. Over 40. nt |
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RagingInMiami (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
94. Girls is better than "ho's" |
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bicentennial_baby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:55 AM Response to Reply #94 |
95. um, wow... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:21 PM Response to Reply #95 |
108. Men can't be 'gentlemen' until 50? Or women ladies? |
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iconoclastNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
97. Gay men call each other boys all the time |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:04 PM Response to Reply #97 |
102. Gosh, you sure come across as authoritarian. |
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iconoclastNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:13 PM Response to Reply #102 |
105. It was a parody of your OP |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:47 PM Response to Reply #105 |
140. You have trivialized other people's concerns. |
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iconoclastNYC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:56 PM Response to Reply #140 |
151. Well i think it is trivial to order people |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:14 PM Response to Reply #151 |
163. Context is important. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:15 PM Response to Reply #151 |
166. See my post # 11. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:21 PM Response to Reply #97 |
109. In the workplace it matters. nt |
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mrhopeforwes (230 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
98. for what it's worth... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:06 PM Response to Reply #98 |
104. See my post # 11. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:23 PM Response to Reply #98 |
112. Those terms seem perfectly appropriate for the situation. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:40 PM Response to Original message |
132. I HATE "Guys" for women!! |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
135. I agree. |
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entanglement (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
143. Nice thread |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 12:57 PM Response to Reply #143 |
152. I know, it's a hassle, isn't it? |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:17 PM Response to Reply #143 |
170. And, you just know that |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:29 PM Response to Reply #170 |
178. All right, game's up, you made me laugh! nt |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:34 PM Response to Reply #178 |
185. heh heh heh |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:35 PM Response to Reply #170 |
187. Do you remember a protest group in the Reagan time |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:39 PM Response to Reply #187 |
188. I never heard of them, but |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:47 PM Response to Reply #188 |
192. Someone posted a picture of them on DU one time |
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OldLeftieLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:02 PM Response to Reply #192 |
198. Not pathetic at all |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:13 PM Response to Reply #198 |
201. O yes, I remember them. |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:40 PM Response to Reply #187 |
256. I remember them |
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VaYallaDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
156. I work with a female colleague who has a client that's always saying |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 09:33 AM Response to Reply #156 |
277. Yeah, I do think "girl" as used as a substitute for "assistant" ... |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
157. You know what I hate? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
159. it is not the equivalent of calling black adult males "boys" |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:13 PM Response to Original message |
161. Why not just call people by their names? |
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Seedersandleechers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:18 PM Response to Reply #161 |
171. Exactly. This AM my landlord's rep. kept calling me sweetie. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:25 PM Response to Reply #161 |
176. because you don't always know the name |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
165. I think you're going to have to get at least a majority of your fellow |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 09:22 AM Response to Reply #165 |
274. Signs or a bracelet sounds like a good idea :-) nt |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 09:24 AM Response to Reply #165 |
275. Dupe. nt |
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sniffa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
172. but i Love my girLs |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
182. The girls go |
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cassiepriam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
193. LOL I used to agree with you, but when I hit 50 I liked being called |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 01:49 PM Response to Original message |
194. Actually, I'm more offended by "ladies". I don't know why. |
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incapsulated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:15 PM Response to Reply #194 |
212. I agree |
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Zuni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
199. some people get offended by anything |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
200. never used the term girls, I use gals. As in guys and gals. n/t |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:18 PM Response to Reply #200 |
219. GAL!!!!!!!!!1111!!!!!!!!! |
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incapsulated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:30 PM Response to Reply #219 |
225. Are you dissing me? |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:46 PM Response to Reply #225 |
230. Ah what? |
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incapsulated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 08:07 PM Response to Reply #230 |
262. It was a *joke* (not directed at you) |
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evirus (782 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
208. i do it |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
209. I guess I'm old fashioned |
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incapsulated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
211. Any female under 25 is a girl to me |
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carolinalady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
216. My husband called me a "young girl" a little while back when |
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mwooldri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
217. It maybe a pet peeve but there can be political correctness gone overboard |
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incapsulated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:26 PM Response to Reply #217 |
221. "pleasing to my eyes"?! |
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mwooldri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:06 PM Response to Reply #221 |
283. lol :) - there of course is the politically _incorrect_ way: |
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JAbuchan08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
220. I can call older women "women," but when it comes to women my own age |
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incapsulated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:28 PM Response to Reply #220 |
222. Because you're probably still... |
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JAbuchan08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:14 PM Response to Reply #222 |
251. I'm actually a 23 year old "boy," does that still count? |
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incapsulated (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 08:05 PM Response to Reply #251 |
261. lol, yeah... |
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JAbuchan08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 12:14 AM Response to Reply #261 |
271. Maybe I should have just said: "that's probably it" |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
224. How about girlies? Is girlies all right? n/t |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
227. I think it's petty to worry about it |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 05:26 PM Response to Reply #227 |
240. That's great. We're talking about terminology used in public settings... |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:06 PM Response to Reply #240 |
246. That's what I'm saying |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
233. This is the sort of thing that makes progressives look silly. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
236. Some people are afraid to call women "woman"-- afraid of the power of it |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 05:38 PM Response to Reply #236 |
242. the issue |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 09:18 AM Response to Reply #242 |
273. Thank you, Bloom. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 05:26 PM Response to Original message |
239. Depends on the context. An Accepted Definition is as an informal reference |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
245. Even worse than being called "girls" is when a male boss |
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Yollam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
249. Of all the things to get annoyed about... |
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Nobody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-01-05 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
259. I'd rather be referred to as a "girl" than "man" |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
270. I hate ALL speech |
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DrunkenMaster (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
276. It is NOT equal to calling black men "boy" |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 10:16 AM Response to Reply #276 |
280. A man calling another man a 'boy' in a work setting... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 12:37 PM Response to Reply #276 |
281. Calling women "girl" is common slang frequently in demeaning sexist usage |
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DrunkenMaster (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:18 PM Response to Reply #281 |
286. Admitted! |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:25 PM Response to Reply #286 |
289. There's a range of use and acknowledgement of problematic usage |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 04:57 PM Response to Reply #281 |
291. Yes, Omega... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 05:21 PM Response to Reply #291 |
292. Surprising, isn't it? |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
282. I'm not offended by "girl", but then I'm 41, so it's a compliment |
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booley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
285. so can I still call adult men "Girls"? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-02-05 03:49 PM Response to Reply #285 |
290. A male friend of mine often uses that phrase, "between us girls"... |
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