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Toots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:31 AM Original message |
Ok why shouldn't parents be notified before their child undergoes surgery |
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rodeodance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
1. --a loss of long long lonnnnnnnnnnng mile |
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Not_Giving_Up (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
2. Picture this |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:35 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. We're on the same page here re: the father's role. |
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warrens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:35 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. What if daddy is a violent fundie? |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:40 AM Response to Reply #6 |
12. But hey, doesn't the Bible tells you to stone disobedient children? |
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Toots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:46 AM Response to Reply #2 |
17. You and everyone else has mentioned the father but never the mother |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:53 AM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Because some mothers are just plain nuts |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:06 AM Response to Reply #17 |
36. Read up about the dynamics of sexual abuse |
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skypilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:12 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. My question is this: |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:16 AM Response to Reply #38 |
41. Yes and no |
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skypilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:25 AM Response to Reply #41 |
44. "...rejected because you must first have parental consent." |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:39 AM Response to Reply #44 |
50. The doctor has a legal duty to report abuse to CPS |
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skypilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:46 AM Response to Reply #50 |
53. Thanks. |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #50 |
83. One has to wonder whether, if Bush and Frist and Rove have their way |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:05 PM Response to Reply #44 |
62. We're assuming the girl would TELL the doctor that the father |
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skypilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:14 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. Yes, I am assuming that because... |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:17 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. So how are you going to force girls to tell? |
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skypilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:19 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. I'm not suggesting forcing girls to tell. |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 02:51 PM Response to Reply #66 |
85. Girl could be too scared to tell, if she still lives with the molester |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:10 PM Response to Reply #44 |
64. I would think that no matter what the girl told the doctor |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:19 AM Response to Reply #38 |
43. Sadly, most sexual abuse goes unreported |
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skypilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:27 AM Response to Reply #43 |
45. fathers RARELY charged. |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:14 AM Response to Reply #36 |
39. Exactly. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
3. What if the girl's father got her pregnant? |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
4. What if sexual abuse by a parent caused the pregnancy in the first place? |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:04 AM Response to Reply #4 |
31. self delete |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
7. Most states have provisions for parents to be notified about ABORTIONS. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
8. I can think of a couple of reasons: |
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in_cog_ni_to (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
9. What if she is pregnant because her dad raped her? n/t |
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Finder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
10. Not all abortions are surgery. |
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Caution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
11. Just a few reasons |
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chelsea0011 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
13. well, there really isn't anything "wrong" with notification but |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
14. One would need to ask why the child feels they cannot |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:01 AM Response to Reply #14 |
29. Good point! |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:17 AM Response to Reply #14 |
42. Great point |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:03 PM Response to Reply #14 |
60. Great point. |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:33 PM Response to Reply #60 |
70. Thank you for sharing your and your daughter's personal |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:44 AM Response to Original message |
15. In summary: The teenager who DOESN'T tell her parents ... |
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mcar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #15 |
26. Agreed |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:44 AM Response to Original message |
16. Teens have a right to health care |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
18. Hmm, A Post In Favor Of Ending the Fillibuster And Another That's |
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Toots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:56 AM Response to Reply #18 |
25. Afraid of questions are you? |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. LOL! |
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Toots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:37 AM Response to Reply #27 |
48. Your sig line is quite appropriate |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:39 AM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Yeah, Throw Idiotic Bible Verses at Me |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:02 AM Response to Reply #18 |
30. Please, attack the message, not the messenger |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:05 AM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Feh! |
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seemslikeadream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
19. There are always difficult situations |
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insane_cratic_gal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
20. What if Mom and Dad are |
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bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
21. Parents wouldn't be notified |
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Love Bug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
22. As a parent I understand where you are coming from, but |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #22 |
46. But the parents are not responsible for the dependent teens child! |
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Love Bug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:48 PM Response to Reply #46 |
71. Oh, I agree with you |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 03:00 PM Response to Reply #46 |
87. You have to wonder how many RWers have witnesses |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
24. To say that abortion is a form of "surgery" really is disingenuous |
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truebrit71 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
28. What if the pregnancy is a result of parental molestation? |
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markus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
33. OK, let's just discuss surgery |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
34. It's for the safety of the girl |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:14 AM Response to Reply #34 |
40. Yes |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
35. The Kids Are Just Plain Scared |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
37. Here's a MOM story: |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:33 PM Response to Reply #37 |
69. OMFG! |
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sandybeach (3 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:02 PM Response to Reply #37 |
72. Can this mother be aborted? |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:40 PM Response to Reply #37 |
79. Very good point |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
47. sure. Let's also give abusive husbands directions to the women's shelter.. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
49. You have to look at the bigger picture |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
52. toots i have a tough time with this too. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
54. If a dad knocks his little girl up, you really think she wants him to |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
55. I do think parents should be notified. |
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insane_cratic_gal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
56. How many babies are dumped |
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Logansquare (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
57. Look, you started a controversial thread |
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Coexist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
58. because teens who are scared to tell their parents end up doing stuff like |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
59. If you're daughter has a safe, legal abortion, she probably will |
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Bouncy Ball (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
61. I never got pregnant before I had my daughter when I was 24 |
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Coexist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:10 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. wow - so sorry |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:02 PM Response to Reply #61 |
73. I hear you, BB. We have to make sure girls have unconditionally |
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Wind Dancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:45 PM Response to Reply #61 |
81. Bouncy Ball, so sorry this happened to you. |
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Baconfoot (653 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
65. never confuse an "ought" with an "ought to be legally required to" n/t |
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kenny blankenship (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
74. Under what possible circumstances would it OK for parents to veto |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:29 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Yup. THAT is the $64,000 question. I wonder when will the OP be back again |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
75. my personal opinion (others will probably disagree with me): |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
77. Back street abortions don't require parental notification. |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:41 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. Exactly |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
78. A girl with any kind of decent family |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
82. I note you said "notification," not consent |
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kenny blankenship (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #82 |
84. Oh it's about NOTIFICATION is it? Then,... |
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theboss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-05 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
86. I think there should be notification laws but no consent laws |
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