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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 06:54 PM Original message |
Are we heading back toward large extended families living together? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
1. I hope so. |
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eleny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:00 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Good for you!!! |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:03 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Oh, man, I hear you. |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
48. Oh eleny |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:06 PM Response to Reply #1 |
11. I can see it being a good thing in many cases. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:15 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. I haven't read it, but I would be interested in reading it. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:16 PM Response to Reply #11 |
18. Our present culture |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:43 PM Response to Reply #18 |
30. This is true. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:58 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. Good question! |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 08:28 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. The general societal attitude toward elders grieves me so. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 08:34 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. I agree ..... |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:49 PM Response to Reply #38 |
49. Is it true |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 11:38 AM Response to Reply #49 |
77. My understanding is that they have been on the rise... |
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eleny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:45 PM Response to Reply #11 |
31. I saw the movie |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
28. You're lucky |
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all.of.me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 11:08 PM Response to Reply #28 |
55. this would be the case with my parents and brother, too |
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anitar1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 01:39 AM Response to Reply #28 |
68. Respect for one another is the key. |
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expatriate (853 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 01:49 AM Response to Reply #28 |
69. Excellent point. There are toxic families. |
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Donailin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:46 PM Response to Reply #1 |
46. same here and most cultures in the world have always been this way |
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evlbstrd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
2. We've had various family members in and out of our house |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
3. Yes, in large part .... |
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rzemanfl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
4. Going back to this style of living would require major changes, |
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eleny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. I don't think it would get that harsh |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 09:31 PM Response to Reply #4 |
83. Your changes are pretty drastic. Here are a few that |
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DemocracyInaction (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
6. Wait until they make people legally responsible for their parents |
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Theres-a (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:30 PM Response to Reply #6 |
23. Damn. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
9. Or 'communes', for lack of better title... |
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Sydnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:40 PM Response to Reply #9 |
27. That's how I live right now |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
10. I grew up with relatives coming for a "visit" and staying for months |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
12. it should be a choice, not a necessity |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
13. Can my sister and I move in with one of your families then? |
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Spinzonner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:12 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. Well, you could pretend you're southerners and ... |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:26 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. I'm sorry, I wish I had a family you could move in with. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
14. It has already happened |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:16 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Yes...and also, caring for parents and children at the same time... |
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Samurai_Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 11:10 PM Response to Reply #14 |
56. My son is living with my mom right now... |
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caligirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:12 PM Response to Original message |
15. In the bay area it is. two families on my street alone,(short street) |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:16 PM Response to Original message |
19. Yes. I think the economic necessities will force it. Perhaps it will have |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
21. Err, not unless you have a large extended house to |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:33 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I've known immigrant families living 8-12 people to an apt. or townhouse |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:41 PM Response to Reply #25 |
29. Depends on the country. |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:54 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. That is so sad. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:09 PM Response to Reply #32 |
42. No I haven't. |
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nittygritty (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 12:22 PM Response to Reply #21 |
79. This is what I have worked towards for years |
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HeeBGBz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:32 PM Response to Original message |
24. I'm moving in with my daughter and grandson |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
26. I think so |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:53 PM Response to Reply #26 |
53. No way could I live with my mother |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
33. "Sandwich generation" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
34. no, No, nO, NNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOO |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 08:17 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. LOL, seabeyond |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 09:47 PM Response to Reply #37 |
85. I would actually love to have one of the |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-14-05 10:39 PM Response to Reply #85 |
90. i think they are nifty too |
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Ranec (336 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
36. Aren't the forces of sprawl and surbanization |
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Ladyhawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
39. I hope not. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
40. This will not effect me since my family will never live with me. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
43. I really hope not |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
44. The Intention Of The Republican Party Leadership, Ma'am |
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KT2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
45. McMansions now have a use! |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 12:13 AM Response to Reply #45 |
60. LOL! |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
47. I have two kids in their 20s |
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Donailin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:52 PM Response to Reply #47 |
52. I can't imagine minding if my kids hang around for awhile |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 09:08 AM Response to Reply #52 |
73. I want the older one to leave |
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Jack_DeLeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
50. I dont see anything wrong with it per se... |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
51. We're Already There |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 12:17 AM Response to Reply #51 |
61. That is not really a new trend among poorer populations |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 01:12 AM Response to Reply #61 |
65. That May be True |
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understandinglife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
54. A Fristian dream come true. Lot's of slaves and fodder for perpetual war .. |
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BlueStateGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
57. Both of my brothers recently moved back home, with their children |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
58. Already there |
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Liberty Belle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-12-05 11:51 PM Response to Original message |
59. No, we'll lose our houses in bankruptcies & become street people first, |
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Singular73 (999 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 12:19 AM Response to Original message |
62. Two things. 1) Don't live off of your parents 2) Its part of the plan |
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tedoll78 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 12:32 AM Response to Original message |
63. I see it happening. |
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nashville_brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
64. notice how folks who already share are upbeat |
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nittygritty (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 01:19 PM Response to Reply #64 |
81. it is great to have family around. |
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anitar1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
66. My Family Is Not There Yet, But |
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kineneb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 01:31 AM Response to Original message |
67. Only if I get to choose the members of my "family" |
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sleipnir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 02:16 AM Response to Original message |
70. I hope not! |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 02:17 AM Response to Original message |
71. two thoughts |
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bluedonkey (644 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 02:41 AM Response to Original message |
72. I grew up |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 09:20 AM Response to Original message |
74. Oh how I miss those hippy communes! |
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wildflower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 11:17 AM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Did you live on one? Are any still around today? |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 11:50 AM Response to Reply #75 |
78. Yes one of sorts.... It was a real "gas"... LOL |
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nittygritty (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 12:37 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. yes they are sprouting up all over again |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 11:19 AM Response to Original message |
76. My Neighborhood has MANY 3 generation households |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
82. I already am. We live in a four generation |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
84. As much as I'd like to build a small house, I'm thinking |
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Jose Diablo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
86. Social adaptability of humans |
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Media_Lies_Daily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-13-05 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
87. It's already started....take a good close look at where you live. |
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nittygritty (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-14-05 09:42 PM Response to Reply #87 |
88. . |
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Geek_Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-14-05 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
89. When My mother stops taking care of my grandmother |
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