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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:28 PM Original message |
if a heterosexual couple goes before a justice of the peace |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
1. We SHOULD Say They Have A Civil Union. That Is The Point. |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:37 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I get your point |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:49 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. But There's A Difference Between Sacred Ceremony/Ritual & Legal Contract |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:10 PM Response to Reply #6 |
26. but it creates a de facto "other" |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:13 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. The Church And State ARE Different. And Our Country Has Legal Means |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:17 PM Response to Reply #27 |
32. and yet a non-church marriage/union is no less a rite of passage |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 04:37 PM Response to Reply #32 |
76. For Some Secularists, Union IS Purely A Legal Thing. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 06:12 PM Response to Reply #76 |
83. Who cares what it is to *some* non-religious people? |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-02-05 12:50 AM Response to Reply #27 |
89. the church didn't invent marriage |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:30 PM Response to Reply #26 |
50. There is no "other", at least where the government is concerned. |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:33 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. so why call them different things? |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:31 PM Response to Reply #51 |
64. Easy: |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 06:23 PM Response to Reply #51 |
85. So that bigots can discriminate against gay people and athiests |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:35 PM Response to Reply #50 |
53. as long as you're here, |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:36 PM Response to Reply #53 |
66. Sure thing. |
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foreigncorrespondent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-02-05 09:18 AM Response to Reply #66 |
93. Sooooo... |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:26 PM Response to Reply #6 |
44. But if one religion decides to marry gay couples... |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:34 PM Response to Reply #44 |
52. That would be up to them. |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:56 PM Response to Reply #2 |
13. Why impute any kind of religious frame onto the arrangment? |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:09 PM Response to Reply #2 |
62. The perfect is the enemy of the good. |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:14 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. ah, of course. it's the pragmatism. |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:44 PM Response to Reply #63 |
67. I don't see how it isn't equal. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
3. Kulongoski |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:14 PM Response to Reply #3 |
30. I think you're overstating the issue. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:45 PM Response to Reply #30 |
55. Fine then |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:49 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. how on earth would you support ending Jim Crow without |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:58 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Won't answer the question, interesting |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:05 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. interesting how? it was a leading question. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:34 PM Response to Reply #61 |
65. BRO doesn't think so |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
4. Of course it is. |
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JackintheGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
5. It depends on the couple |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:52 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. This Is A Very Real Difference Between The State Issuing Legal Contracts |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:54 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. "Baptism" and "Last Rites" are religious words |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:56 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. And I'll add |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. All Religions Have Ceremonies For Rites Of Passage. And Marriage |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Have you ever researched the etymology of the word marriage? |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:15 PM Response to Reply #21 |
31. I Researched Marriage And Found You Have To Go Back To Ancient |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:25 PM Response to Reply #31 |
43. Whose ideal? and why do you capitalize "Ideal" ? |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:44 PM Response to Reply #31 |
68. You just proved the opposite of your point. |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-02-05 12:53 AM Response to Reply #14 |
90. sorry you're wrong |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 04:02 PM Response to Reply #11 |
73. You can call it whatever you want. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:56 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Marriage Traditionally Does Have Religious Connotations & WAS |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:00 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Why would you take that to mean marriage was religious? |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:20 PM Response to Reply #17 |
34. Simply, Because That's How Americans See The Word Used Today |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:27 PM Response to Reply #34 |
47. I'm American and I don't see it that way. |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:47 PM Response to Reply #34 |
70. Because Americans see it that way, the origin of the word changes? |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:45 PM Response to Reply #17 |
69. "Wishful thinking" would be my guess. |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:03 PM Original message |
One deals with legal relationships, the other with spiritual. |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #8 |
20. One deals with legal relationships, the other with spiritual. |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
7. A justice of the peace is supposed to be a civil priest. When you get.... |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:53 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Thanks AP, Can We Call The Justice Of Peace A Civil Officiant Rather |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. My point is we don't even need a JoP wasting 2 hours of our time with a |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:01 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Ohhhhhhhh. Hey, You Just Got Your Point Across To Me!!!! |
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More Than A Feeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
16. Here we go again |
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johnaries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:05 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. How do you win? Exact number or closest? |
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More Than A Feeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. Closest. The winner gets to be the first witness at the Bush impeachment |
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johnaries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:13 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Then I'm DEFINITELY in! |
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johnaries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. Oh, and no fair hitting the ALERT when it gets to your number! |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:20 PM Response to Reply #16 |
35. Why Should This Discussion Get Locked? You Must Not Be Following It. |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:41 PM Response to Reply #16 |
54. I don't understand why the other post was locked and I complained |
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More Than A Feeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. I know, I was just happy I guessed |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
19. Face it |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:22 PM Response to Reply #19 |
38. No, The Subtext Is Society Has Evolved. We Now Seperate Church & State |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:57 PM Response to Reply #38 |
59. Legal marriages vs. Church marriage ceremonies |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:52 PM Response to Reply #59 |
71. Yep, the fact is that marriage is not a religious institution. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 04:11 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. It's SUCH a non-issue all puffed up into hysteria... |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 04:27 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Honestly? A feeling of superiority. |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #71 |
79. I disagree. |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 06:41 PM Response to Reply #79 |
86. You don't disagree. |
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Charon (321 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-02-05 09:02 AM Response to Reply #59 |
92. Legally Binding |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:24 PM Response to Reply #19 |
41. Yup - they reek of faux moral superiority |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:27 PM Response to Reply #41 |
48. Yep, the religious "elite" |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:48 PM Response to Reply #41 |
57. I haven't seen a single person suggest that gay marriage could |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 04:59 PM Response to Reply #57 |
78. Why would I concern myself with what other doctrines believe? |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 05:21 PM Response to Reply #78 |
80. But I clearly stated that I was referring to the religious institution... |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 05:30 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. Also, I never stated that gays should "content themselves" with anything. |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:29 PM Response to Reply #19 |
49. Religion is the main source for their entire belief system |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
25. i am a compromising find a solution kinda person, civiled unioned |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:21 PM Response to Reply #25 |
36. I think it's more apt to think of it this way: you were civily unionized.. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:22 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. works for me and sounds so ....... |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:24 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Agreed, AP Really Managed To Nail It Rhetorically. |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
46. do most people even work that way? |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-02-05 12:45 AM Response to Reply #46 |
87. It's your choice if you need something spiritual. |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 03:55 PM Response to Reply #36 |
72. Nice, but those who wrongly think marriage is a religious creation... |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 04:53 PM Response to Reply #72 |
77. That is why they should make their sacred covenent in a church |
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Zhade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 06:04 PM Response to Reply #77 |
82. Are you talking about the government dropping the word "marriage"? |
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AP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-02-05 12:50 AM Response to Reply #72 |
88. Then let them go to a church. And also ask them what's so sacred about |
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justgamma (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
28. Hubby and I have been civil unionized for 36 years. n/t |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:19 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. ok, most of us then. |
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Ravy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
39. My thread was not about what we do, it is what we SHOULD do.. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:26 PM Response to Reply #39 |
45. Your Message Was Well Taken And Stated. Your Thread Was Unfairly Locked |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 06:20 PM Response to Reply #39 |
84. Ravy, I agree with you |
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libodem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-01-05 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
40. Do they have to sign |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-02-05 02:23 AM Response to Original message |
91. (marriage smarriage) i say anyone who wants to risk getting married |
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