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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:26 PM Original message |
Poll question: Is it a good idea to encourage 12, 13, 15 year-olds to "come out"? |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
1. It's different for every kid. |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:33 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. CL, I just noticed your avatar! |
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Cuban_Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:35 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Heh. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:31 PM Original message |
No..I think we should leave them crammed in the closet and let them |
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Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
2. "for life" |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:43 PM Response to Reply #2 |
15. "Coming Out" meaning announcing to friends and family... |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #15 |
59. Thanks for sharing that... You make valid points. |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
3. What "groups" are you talking about specifically? |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. I think most GLBT advocacy groups favor it, if tacitly. |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:37 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. to me it sounds like you're baiting |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:51 PM Response to Reply #8 |
70. which ones? please tell me which GLBT advocacy |
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Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
4. "It's different for every kid." |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
5. Oh good lord... |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:32 PM Response to Reply #5 |
62. it's a part of the "gay agenda" |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
9. You really do have a hard time with gay people, don't you? n/t |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:44 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. A lot of bisexual people do. |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:46 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Wow..that's telling |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:52 PM Response to Reply #18 |
25. No, what's telling is... |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:57 PM Response to Reply #25 |
36. Bullfuckingshit..you don't even KNOW most gays and straights |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:04 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. All right, fair enough |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #17 |
45. especially when those bisexuals engage in heterosexual |
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nothingshocksmeanymore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:10 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. The gay community can be unaccepting of everybody at times |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:13 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. Since when do all bisexuals oppose same-sex marriage? |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #17 |
69. Oh... W H A T E V E R !! |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:03 PM Response to Reply #17 |
71. That's kind of a generalization |
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ProgressiveConn (820 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
10. Other: Gay, Straight... Who cares? nt |
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jdj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
12. I didn't vote. I think it's good for kids to express how they feel regard |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
13. How many approve of straight kids insisting that they are straight? |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:47 PM Response to Reply #13 |
20. "TURNING KIDS GAY and STOPPING THEIR AVENUES" |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:15 PM Response to Reply #20 |
52. You know, you're pretty presumptuous. |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:20 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. Of course it's not. |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
14. Well, I don't know what its like, but are many kids able to recognize |
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Democrats_win (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:51 PM Response to Reply #14 |
24. Many say they knew by 12. |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:55 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Not me. I was turned on by pics of nekkid ladies at 8 |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:53 PM Response to Reply #14 |
26. Yes, I'd say nearly all are. |
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Lone Pawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:44 PM Response to Original message |
16. It's not like they can't go back. |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:49 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. Come on, please. Once you're out, you're out. |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:57 PM Response to Reply #22 |
35. Mmmm, it's not that simple. |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:07 PM Response to Reply #35 |
44. Yeah, I knew people like that... |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:59 PM Response to Reply #16 |
38. But then your mom gets to say, "told you so." |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
19. hows about a poll... |
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quinnox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
21. my opinion |
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Democrats_win (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:55 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Okay. But that's not reality. Ever see someone hold hands....ok bad |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:00 PM Response to Reply #21 |
39. Where is sexuality a private matter? |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:05 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. The business world. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:08 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. I guess |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:12 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. I have pics of my wife and kids in my office but I'm not "straight" |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:14 PM Response to Reply #46 |
51. You spend a ton of time with people who aren't in YOUR business. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:16 PM Response to Reply #43 |
53. Yeah, no need to get married in the business world. |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:20 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. I don't ask for age or marital status. I ask for a check. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
23. How about letting the kid decide? |
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coffeenap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
27. I would like my kid to come out to me, his mom, so I could help |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #27 |
32. That's pretty much what I would do. |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #27 |
33. You would always want your kid to be able to come to you |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
29. Let them keep quiet and have guilty, furtive and dangerous sex like I did |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:56 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. ROFL |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #29 |
40. I hated sports and liked art and music, wasn't aggressive in high school |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:11 PM Response to Reply #40 |
48. Now that I look at the original post-- |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
34. What about the 14 year olds? |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
37. Just encourage kids to be who they are. |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:02 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Is orientation more or less troubling than activity? |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #41 |
63. Oh, shoot, orientation is not an issue with me. |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:19 PM Response to Original message |
54. Obviously it's different for every kid |
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CoolOnion (860 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
57. I knew I was hetero as soon as I had consciousness |
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Mondon (244 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
58. I can see the RW headlines now-- |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. They already say that anyway. |
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Mondon (244 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:38 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Of course it's not about recruiting |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
61. Kids should be encouraged to be who they are |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:35 PM Response to Original message |
64. Not to be callous |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. the post seems to imply that by coming out at an early age as gay |
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Mich Otter (887 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
67. At any age... |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
68. There's a huge difference between "coming out" and deciding for life... |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 06:04 PM Response to Original message |
72. Locking |
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