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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:23 PM Original message |
Spanking kids- yes or no? |
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CO Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
1. We'd Be Better Off Spanking James Dobson |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
2. No. It indicates you're out of ideas. |
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jayfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:32 PM Response to Reply #2 |
12. I Would Say Rarely. |
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Worst Username Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
3. Yes |
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BurtWorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
4. No. |
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saltpoint (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:29 PM Original message |
No. |
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Dutch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
5. No |
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BOSSHOG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
6. I don't have children but |
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meatloaf (605 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
7. Absolutely not. A terrible shame that a supposedly civilized society |
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luvLLB (394 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:55 PM Response to Reply #7 |
37. but did you do it again? (whatever caused the spanking?) |
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meatloaf (605 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:04 PM Response to Reply #37 |
45. Many times, I just learned not to get caught, or lied like the Dickens |
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Mistress Quickly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:30 PM Original message |
Yes I was spanked |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
18. Yes. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
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lolamio (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
9. No. I don't hit my children n/t |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
10. I got whupped every once in a long while |
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:34 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. Abuse is a very different animal |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
11. Never was spanked, but my mom |
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Modem Butterfly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:40 PM Response to Reply #11 |
20. Some things just call for spankings, in my book |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:59 PM Response to Reply #20 |
41. Well, as I said above |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:44 PM Response to Reply #20 |
59. that would be the thing my parents spank for.....wow |
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seemslikeadream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
13. No |
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Ian David (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
15. Only if it's other people's kids and their parents aren't looking |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
16. Funny the difference in judgemental attitudes between the two |
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UdoKier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
17. I was spanked very rarely. I think it works when used very sparingly. |
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TalkingDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
19. Extreme emergencies only |
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keithjx (758 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
21. Yes. Hitting my kid's butt is necessary sometimes. |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
22. I agree with spanking, but I think we disagree with what spanking is. |
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Mistress Quickly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:50 PM Response to Reply #22 |
34. I agree with the older |
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meatloaf (605 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
23. If hitting is such an effective disciplinary tool, why aren't we allowed |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:46 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. we are |
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meatloaf (605 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:12 PM Response to Reply #30 |
47. Bondage club is consenting adults. Not many children I know consent to |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 11:17 PM Response to Reply #23 |
81. why arent we allowed to ground an adult? n/t |
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rene moon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
24. I was and I am ok |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:01 PM Response to Reply #24 |
42. I think you misunderstand the purpose of timeouts |
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enki23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
25. i'd do it for certain extreme circumstances |
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ObaMania (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
26. Yes. |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:30 PM Response to Reply #26 |
57. Spanking is not the only way to give consequences for a child's actions. n |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
27. I was spanked but only rarely. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
28. yes i was spanked with belt, every once in a great while |
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A Brand New World (803 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
29. I was spanked as a child I'm sure but honestly I don't remember |
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In_The_Wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
31. It's barbaric ! |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
32. No. No hitting kids PLEASE! |
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NewHampshireDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
33. Yes I was and No I don't |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
35. It's easier just not have any of the little thugs. |
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American Tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:02 PM Response to Reply #35 |
43. It's funny, every day I stumble upon more reasons not to reproduce. |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:15 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Cats are easier to herd and they listen better. |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:42 PM Response to Reply #35 |
58. Actually, the big secret is |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 09:41 PM Response to Reply #58 |
75. I agree. My kids are so cool and I love being with them. |
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American Tragedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
36. No. My parents never hit me, and I would never hit my own, if I had any |
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scarlett1 (427 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
38. No, I once smacked my dog on the nose |
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luvLLB (394 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
39. I was, and I did with my kids. Ya gotta do what works with your own |
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wideopen (563 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
40. Yes.sometimes |
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warrens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
44. No |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
46. I was spanked. I don't spank my kids. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
48. this is how i see it, kinda like kerry and abortion |
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Balbus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:48 PM Response to Reply #48 |
60. Well said! |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
50. NO! |
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Amaya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
51. it depends |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:20 PM Response to Original message |
52. I don't think it's a black and white issue |
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meatloaf (605 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
53. Lets put it simply. The only reason anyone does spank is because they |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:25 PM Response to Reply #53 |
56. Very good points! |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 09:38 PM Response to Reply #53 |
74. Spanking is an adult having a tantrum, my friend used to say. |
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Kosmos Mariner (276 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
54. YES |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
55. No. I was spanked. I do not spank. |
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stanwyck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
61. This is what happened when my son got spanked |
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_TJ_ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 05:01 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. You are a smart cookie |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 07:58 PM Response to Original message |
63. Well, I used to get spanked, well, bruised up more like it |
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sonicx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 08:02 PM Response to Original message |
64. I was spanked and I did not appreciate it at all. |
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bunkerbuster1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
65. More people should spank their monkeys |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
66. So was I. |
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katsy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
67. From an exhausted parent... |
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Kablooie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
68. I don't believe in spanking ... |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
69. I was spanked |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
70. Spanking is okay only if your neighbor can come over and hit you for not |
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ChaoticSilly (367 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
71. Depends on the kid |
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vcrtime1 (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
72. looks like a 50/50 split |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
73. Absolutely not. The first hit should only ever be directed at someone big |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
76. In general no, |
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GodHelpUsAll2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
77. Yes |
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DanCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
78. Nuanced here |
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XOKCowboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 11:10 PM Response to Original message |
79. Yes.. |
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XOKCowboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 11:13 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. Also... |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 11:28 PM Response to Original message |
82. Spanking is an option, not a rule. |
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Eloriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-27-05 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
83. No. It's humiliating, and abusive. Period. How do I know? |
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