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Many people I speak hear about this issue think this lady's just sleeping with a tube in her stomache...that somehow she's awaken and walk off into that golden ray in the heavens. They assume she is cognizant, can see, hear, feel, thing. They've never dealt with a person in that situation (and I hope few ever do) where a person's body totally shuts down and what is left is a prisoner inside a pod of little use.
While I know this sounds cruel, sometimes the best medicine tastes the worst. I'd suggest someone bring a camera into her room...show the world what this woman CURRENTLY looks like...not some old "how she was" photo or ones that were taken years ago when she was a lot more alert. From what I've read, she hasn't really communicated with others in years and her movements are to sounds and stimulai rather than any true recognition. The example best explained to me is like the moments we are born, our bodies go through the extreme shock of temperature, sound, light...our bodies shut down and slowly restart...in her case, there's no reset button.
I had a mother who spent her last life on a feeding tube. In the end I also had to decide to have that tube removed in her last days as she her condition was deteriorating and the feeding was actually making things worse...iritating her stomache and creating uncomfort. The decission was made, and while she lingered longer than we expected, she was at peace and went naturally. I have no regrets and I can completely sympathise with Mr. Schiavo...a man who has remained silent in light of all of this piling of of his own personal hell. Shame on those bastards...especially the ones who don't care about this family and are only using this issue for their own personal, political gain.
There's not enough bandwidth on DU for me to go into how the Insurance companies are already playing god with many elderly in this country...deciding who gets treated and where...denying coverage for their bottom line...especially when it comes to preventitive procedures...but another rant for another day.
How ironic for those who claim to be for the rights of the individual to trample all over Mr. Schaivo's (and I believe Terri as well) rights and pain for their own goofy, selfish purposes. What do they expect to come from this? A miracle? Are they paying the costs for her treatment or the pain and suffering this man continues to endure as this folly continues.
Dying, and it's process, are the hardest for humans to deal with. They don't realize this is a part of the cycle of nature and that much of what people do during those times are about their own pain and grieving rather than for the loved one who is passing away. While my hearts were once with Terri's parents, I can see they've been used ala Paula Jones and others by right wing hypocrites with purely selfish, arrogant motives. It'd be sweet if this side could be exposed as well.
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