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Dangerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:35 PM
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My mom is NUTS!
She says that ALL Muslims should be tortured before they terrorists and if I make any of them, she said, they will chop my head off!

Somebody send her a written letter about the truth about Muslims, that not ALL Muslims are evil.

PM me if you are interested in mailer her so I can give your my address.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:36 PM
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1. why dont you talk to her...and reason with her?
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NYC Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:37 PM
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3. Honestly, I don't think there's any reasoning with a person
with that mindset.
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Zebulon Donating Member (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:51 PM
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7. Re: why dont you talk to her...and reason with her?
You can't reason somebody out of a position they didn't reason themselves into.
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Spinzonner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:37 PM
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2. That's an obscenely bad and dangerous idea

Try and educate her, disagree with her if you must but don't invite strangers into the process.

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ultraist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 05:01 PM
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9. Good advice spinnozzer
Edited on Tue Jan-25-05 05:02 PM by ultraist
I would try to talk to her and ask her why she feels it is ethical to torture another human being. Walking someone through their *rationale* sometimes can lead them to see the fallacy in their thinking.

I would suggest being calm and understanding when you talk to her. Use reflective listening skills (repeat what she says but not condescendingly). Ask questions and reframe what she says in such a way it becomes apparent that racism and hatred are fueling her emotional position.

If she fails to see how illogical she is being, at least recommend to her to keep those thoughts private so not to embarrass herself or insult others.
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bobbyboucher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:37 PM
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4. She needs therapy.
Edited on Tue Jan-25-05 04:38 PM by bobbyboucher
You should recommend it and then walk.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:38 PM
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5. Really, bad idea
If you can't reason with her, strangers can't. Each piece of junk mail will make her dig in farther. Just point out that she is not thinking rationally and let it go.
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illflem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:38 PM
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6. Give her an axe
and a one way ticket to Baghdad
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quiet.american Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 04:53 PM
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8. Please don't give out mum's address over the net!
Not very safe, even through PM!
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Moderator DU Moderator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-25-05 05:11 PM
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10. Locking.
We don't believe it's a good idea to encourage complete strangers to start e-mailing your mom. Thank you for understanding.
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