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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:27 AM
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What is a man? What is a woman? Gay marriage amendments
Edited on Wed Nov-10-04 10:36 AM by ProfessorPlum
I heard on the radio last night that the legal challenges on the 11 state ballot initiatives to limit a marriage between a "man" and a "woman" have started.

I don't know what legal arguments will be used against them, but I think they can be thrown out rather easily by pointing out that either they A) create a class of people who can never legally be married or B) necessitate the states being able to define precisely who is a man and who is a woman for every single person, and that is impossible.

Because nature is wild and varied and doesn't allow itself to be constrained by our mental constructs. There are women who have X and Y chromosomes - they are genetically male, but don't develop as men because of genetic variations that prevent expression, or detection, of testosterone, for example. Would people like that never be allowed to marry? Or would they be allowed to marry either gender? (And doesn't that present a special case for them?) Other chromosomal variants exist as well, for example, XXY men. Who could they marry? And what about transgender people? Would they be allowed to get married only before they had a sex-change operation? Or only after? And would their change of sex "invalidate" any pre-operative marriages? For that matter, would a person who had a sex-change operation be allowed to stay married to the same person? Would this "marriage protection" amendment force that couple to get divorced? There are also people who display hermaphroditic phenotypes - would they be barred from ever marrying? If not, could they marry either a man or a woman? (and if it is allowed for them, why not all people?)

The varied physical biology of the problem just scratches the surface, however, for our social definitions of "men" and "women" vary just as much. What about a person who has lived their whole life as a woman, but has the genotype and phenotype of a man? Are they allowed to marry? Whom? And vice versa - what about the cases of people like Teena Brandon/Brandon Teena, who are female, but dress and act as men. Can they, should they be stopped from marrying?

And obviously, a legal definition of men and women won't lead us into issues of being able to have children, for where does that leave all of the couples who are childless, either by choice or through a vast range of infertility conditions?

Are they going to institute genetic testing and crotch inspections for every marriage license issued? Sure, the vast majority of people in the world can be put rather effortlessly into the categories of "men" and "women", based on normal physiological development and social norms. But there are huge numbers of people who can't be categorized so easily. Lawyers will be left like the Nazis who had to put themselves through enormously twisted hoops trying to legally define what a "Jew" is. But without such language, these amendments will be legal documents that make no sense - and I can't imagine they would hold up in court. The amendment would make it such that some people would not have the right to marry anyone - and that kind of discrimination would surely not hold up in any court following any kind of equal protection under the law.

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xultar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:30 AM
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1. OK, I'm a Gay man trapped inside a woman's body. If I marry a Man is
that a gay marriage.

What if I marry one of my openly gay male friends. Is that a gay marriage or is it just a marriage?

I love men, their bodies, their muskles, their stubble...etc. I really feel as though I'm a gay man. I could just eat them all up. DEEE-LISH!


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gratuitous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:31 AM
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2. Uh oh, Gary marriage?
We all have to marry someone named Gary? Not that fairy Bauer, I hope! Ish.
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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:34 AM
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3. Thanks, fixed it
"Gary marriages" LOL
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gratuitous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:36 AM
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4. Phew! I was worried there for a second
I don't know very many guys named Gary, and the ones I do know didn't really seem like marriage material. Mrs. gratuitous probably wouldn't have liked it very much, either.
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LizW Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:52 AM
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8. Oh, shoot, was that a typo?
My husband is named Gary. I thought for once I was in the mainstream! ;)

The op's comment makes me think of the SNL character "Pat". I guess the wedding license clerks will be trying to figure it out like in those skits. :evilgrin:
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 02:10 PM
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19. So gary marriages would work. One of the partners just needs to
legally change his/her name to gary, that is easy enough! Keep it at gary marriage.
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NV Whino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:42 AM
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5. This is wonderful
Great filibuster material. It could keep a filibuster going for a looooong time with all the details and variations. Please present it to anyone who has the cojones (or chromozones?) to fight the proposed amendment.
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gator_in_Ontario Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:43 AM
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6. I was wondering the same thing
how they define "male" and "female". If it is appearances...can a butch lesbian marry only a femme?
The genetics thing is beyond their comprehension I think...
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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 10:51 AM
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7. Exactly
Is it just appearances?

The genetics thing is probably beyond what most people would want to worry about (though they have presented those kinds of cases on popular TV shows for a long time now, like ER, etc.)

But there really are hermaphrodites, and people have heard of them. What about hermaphrodites? Do they get to marry someone based upon how they "act" (either male or female)? How is that a fair law?
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 11:12 AM
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9. i've never understood it on the basis of paying taxes
that alone seems to me to include most working adults in just about everything.
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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 01:38 PM
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10. kick
more discussion?
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UdoKier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 01:42 PM
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11. Interesting question.
When a person gets gender reassignment surgery, does his/her LEGAL gender change?

Never had thought of it.
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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 01:50 PM
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15. Right - and this is one of the few places where that would matter
They are in the process of having to get the government involved in deciding what people's genders are.

Again, it should be a matter of choice - what could be more personal than that?
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Toucano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 01:45 PM
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12. I doubt they'll be easily swayed by this reasoning.
I expect something extremely black and white like XX is female XY is male. If there are extra chromosomes, we'll go by the nads.

No nuance, no shades or grey.

Those whose genitals don't match their chromosomes? Screw 'em. We've got a mandate.

If people don't care about the gay and lesbian men and women they see everyday, why should they care about the rights of hermaphroditic phenotypes?
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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 01:49 PM
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13. Some men have an XX genotype
But they have a very tiny peice of the Y chromosome - that little bit is enough to engage the switch that makes them developmentally male.

So simple definitions will not work.

But what about people who have changed their sex?

I just don't think there is any way around the fact that marriages are entered into by couples, by their own choice . . . and it would be hellishly hard to legislate who should be "allowed" to do it.
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Toucano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 01:57 PM
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16. Professor, we're dealing with people who
consider the Geneva Conventions "quaint".

What you regard as hellishly hard will be devilishly simple for the missionaries.

Do you think anyone will mind if transgendered people are prevented from marrying? Yeah, people will storm the courts to demand fair and equitable treatment for all. Right!

ROFL!

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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 02:00 PM
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17. Hmmm. That certainly is an even more cynical view than my own
But I think that these amendments, like Shylock's pound of flesh, are going to be legally indefensible, because of issues like this.
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Toucano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 02:05 PM
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18. I DO hope you are right, of course.
But I'm not going to be suprised if it goes down like I describe.

I think we have reached a point in this country where REASON is the most precious commodity. You are probably worth your weight in gold!

"The country has gone utterly nutball. I feel like H.L. Mencken sitting at the Scopes trial and listening to Warren Harding and Calvin Coolidge give press conferences." -- Dr. Walter Hixson
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kostya Donating Member (769 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 01:50 PM
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14. Just having these amendments force these issues out in
the open is about the only upside, but a really good one! I suppose the simpleton retort will be whatever gender got put on the person's birth certificate. Although, whenever I run across those forms that say "Sex?" I just answer "YES!". - K
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ProfessorPlum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-10-04 09:49 PM
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20. one last kick for the night shift
kick
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