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MsAnthropy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:36 PM
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Denial...Anger...Bargaining...Depression...Acceptance
We are all mourning and we are all at different stages. Can we all cut each other some slack? We'll get through this together.
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UCLA Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:36 PM
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1. i think i'm in the depression stage.
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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:37 PM
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2. I'm processing the stages of grief over and over at lightening speed
Cycling like a marathon
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stellanoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:58 PM
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19. ditto here
Yet when acceptance glimmers the deluded optimist in me is somewhat relieved for Kerry.

That * will ultimately be held accountable for his misdeeds, misleadership, mean spiritedness, and gross malfeasance is a foregone conclusion.

He may not be held accountable by a Repuke Congress or Legislature.

He will ultimately be held accountable by the world.

The sooner the better.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:22 PM
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24. I totally agree and glad you said this
like Bill Maher said, "he'll finally have to clean something up." I so sad and depressed that such a good man has been robbed of this election, but I with you on the relief and optimism--alot of shit is going to his the fan in this next 4 years.
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:38 PM
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3. I've raced right into depression
Wow, that was quick.
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MsAnthropy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:40 PM
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8. Me too
time heals all wounds and wounds all heels
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AmandaRuth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:40 PM
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9. anger and rage for me
but at least WA went for Kerry, my only saving grace
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cindyw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:39 PM
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4. Stuck at anger
n/t
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short bus president Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:39 PM
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5. Oy. Thanks fer posting those.
Been wanting to look 'em up since 3 weeks ago today, when my sweetie took the kids and left me. To sorta be able to figger out what's coming next, you know? I hit depression this morning, I think. "Bargaining" was a deceitful bitch. Acceptance ain't coming easy. I'll prolly have to sleep some first.

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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:59 PM
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20. Hey sorry to hear this short bus
your sig. always made me smile.
PEACE AND LOW STRESS.
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quispquake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:39 PM
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6. Don't forget after Acceptance...
That "Anger" can certainly reappear again (that's where I am at). I will NOT despair...I will do what I can to win the big fight, otherwise, what will my 12 year old son have when he grows up???
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MsAnthropy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:41 PM
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11. Anger is a great motivator
at least for me. When I'm mad enough, I usually take action.
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cmf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:01 PM
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22. That's where I am
This has only made me more motivated.
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Ducks In A Row Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:40 PM
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7. I'm in the "fuck them all" stage
and I just had to turn AAR off. I refuse to listen to that fuckhead Mark Luthor.

If I wrote what I was thinking about him, I'd get arrested

Fuck Al Franken. We did NOT need to have salt rubbed into the wound.


FUCK AL FRANKEN AND MARK LUTHOR!!!!!!
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ramapo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:41 PM
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10. I'm in the resignation stage
It will be a long, long time to right the wrongs from eight years of this guy. I truly feel I will not live to see this country with policies that would make me proud.
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HysteryDiagnosis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:18 PM
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23. I've passed the suicide stage and I am waiting for resurrection... n/t
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cally Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:43 PM
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12. Thanks for posting this
We all need to process this the best we can. I woke up at 5:30 and spent several hours deleting election emails and putting election stuff into recycling. I saved nothing. It helped to just clear it out and try to move on to the next phase. I live in a liberal bastion and worked on local GOTV. We had a successful election on local issues. Disaster nationally, but won all the local campaigns.

Yes, I would trade the local success for national success if I could.
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eris Donating Member (29 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:43 PM
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13. I woke up in bargaining
but quickly moved to depression. I expect to enter acceptance Nov. 4, 2008 when Bush is gone. heh. :headbang:
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chelaque liberal Donating Member (981 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:46 PM
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14. Disbelief, sorrow, RAGE. NO ACCEPTANCE! NEVER
I have always considered myself a pacifist but right now I believe I know how "the insurgents" feel!
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catmandu57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:46 PM
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15. I'm bouncing between anger and depression
there isn't any bargaining in me, I get mad as hell, then go completely bipolar.
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Batgirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:57 PM
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18. Cycling between Little Debbie and Hostess n/t
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Ernesto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:50 PM
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16. I felt so damn bad 4 years ago that...
I was determined to not let it get to me this time and now I'm a 59 year old ex Marine sitting here fucking crying.
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RandomUser Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 12:52 PM
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17. I'm in the anger stage
I'm going to try to stay away from this board until I have better control of myself.
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spotbird Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-03-04 01:00 PM
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21. Where does fear fit in?
I'm accepting but scared to death, on a personal level as well as for us all.
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