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I'm pro-choice and believe that abortion should always be legal. A fetus' rights should never supersede the rights of the woman it is dependent upon for it's existence. I also think that more can be done to reduce the number of abortions yearly. The vast majority of abortions are not due to health reasons, or rape and incest, they are unwanted pregnancies. There are so many reasons for this, one policy or program alone would not result in lower abortion rates.
1. Women need to understand contraception techniques and use one that works for them if they are sexually active and don't want to get pregnant. Planned Parenthood does an excellent job of this, however, because they also provide information, referrals and in some locations, abortion services, they lose federal money for all their programs. Stupid "abstinence only" GOP policies are tying their hands.
2. Schools, both colleges and high schools, need to get the message out about drunken sex. If you are a female who likes to get drunk at bars and have sex with strangers, you need to consider the pill or similar contraception that doesn't involve physical coordination when drunk. I know that the man is equally responsible, but it's the woman who gets pregnant. side note on the subject: I had a friend who got pregnant in college, while drunk. She initially decided to have an abortion, then a catholic friend guilt-tripped her. The pregnant girl went out and drank a good part of a fifth of Jack Daniels that night to drown her sorrows, and would have had sex with another guy if I didn't pull him off of her. The next morning, she told me she wasn't going through with the abortion, that she would be killing her child. I told her "You killed your kid last night. The abortion is just a formality at this point". Cold, but true. She had the abortion, and I drove her to the clinic and waited for her. She could have avoided all that pain had she been on the pill, or had enough self-esteem not to have drunken sex with strangers.
3. Promiscuous men need to understand that with DNA technology being what it is, they can't just be reckless about depositing their sperm, or they may end up spending 18 years paying child support, in addition to basic father responsibilities. If their partners choose abortion, they are contributing to abortion stats by their irresponsibility. They don't need a prescription for their contraception, which also helps prevent STDs. I know, they all say "It's like wearing a raincoat in the shower". Well, if the shower is raining down poison, the raincoat isn't such a bad idea, is it? At least that's what I tell the teen aged boys on my caseload.
4. Credit does need to be given to the people on the anti-abortion side who put their money, time and hearts where their mouths are. Those who adopt unwanted children, those who help poor pregnant women get the things they need to have a healthy family, and those who give money to soup kitchens, homeless shelters and programs like Habitat for Humanity are doing something to reduce the feeling of helplessness that poor women feel when they find out they are pregnant. Slamming them for caring doesn't help a single woman. They may be wrong about trying to change the law, but they are not wrong for wanting to help women to have more options. We can work with them on this, because we all want a society in which the majority of women who are pregnant want to be pregnant. I know that there's a lot of hostility on both sides of the issue toward those on the other side. They accuse pro-choicers of being baby killers, we accuse them of trying to create a christian theocracy. If we can change the way this issue is debated and bring civilized language back into use, both sides might see some good results.
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