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Hamlette Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 10:29 PM
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The pro-war Bush guy at my office now thinks it was a huge mistake
He gave me so much grief for being anti-war. Calling me unpatriotic and a "damned hippie." So I ran into him today and said: "You still loving this war of yours in Iraq?" To which he replied: "Nope. I've changed my mind. It was a huge mistake."

We talked a few more minutes and I said: "Certainly you're not going to vote for Bush again are you? He said "I don't know but I don't like Kerry." I asked "why not?" and he said: "He's too wishy washy, you know, the flip flopping thing." To which I replied: "You flip flopped on the war. It's better to flip flop than to "stay the course" when you know you are wrong."

I left him standing in the hall nodding his head.

A couple of weeks ago I thought the war was a losing issue for us. Maybe not.
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countmyvote4real Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 10:36 PM
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1. Try to keep him away from the kool-aid.
One sip and he'll find "flip-flopping" is much worse than the * Iraq folly, lies and global embarrassment of our country.
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kentuck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 10:38 PM
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2. Excellent response !
:)
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Mayberry Machiavelli Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 10:39 PM
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3. Good work, Hamlette. Your userid makes me hungry, BTW. EOM
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boobooday Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 10:40 PM
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4. Wow -- you totally nailed that one!
That's awesome.

:hippie:

http://www.wgoeshome.com
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Bill Wade Donating Member (126 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 10:42 PM
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5. Hmm, I wonder why he changed his mind?
I doubt it was any peaceful reason, or feeling sorry for thousands of innocent dead Iraqis.
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rolodomo Donating Member (145 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 10:42 PM
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6. Wow, you turned the flip-flop issue around on him...
but in a positive, personal and poignant way. I keep thinking this whole flip-flop issue will be the next big thing to attack *'s credibility with. I hope the Kerry team is just holding off for now, until they're closer in, when they get a good shot at chopping off the plank * has walked out on.
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Mayberry Machiavelli Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:06 PM
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8. That was what was so sweet about his response. The Nobel prize
for comebackery, and it doesn't even sound like he was nasty about it.

I think a good response for the flipfloppery thing, in this time of shrubco "staying the course" straight into hell, is to point out how comfortable they are with shrubco never admitting any error or change of course while the whole country feels like the Iraq war is some kind of nightmarish pit we need to climb out of.
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rolodomo Donating Member (145 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:20 PM
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10. Yep, that is a good point: he never admits to a mistake...
and he never fixes his mistakes. That's weird..., "Al Gore" type weird (using SCLM language here).
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kskiska Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 10:48 AM
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23. He's never admitted to a mistake his whole life
He never had to. Someone would come in and "fix" things for him, then set him up in another venture where the process would be repeated. No one can do that now.
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leesa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:00 PM
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7. He doesn't notice Bush flip-flopping on a daily basis for his entire
tenure? How blind are these people?
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gratuitous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:12 PM
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9. It's tempting to bring down the hammer
But now is a good time to press the advantage. We don't have to turn Hamlette's co-worker into a rabid DUer, but let's get his vote come November.

Excellent job responding to the "flip-flop" charge. Supply a couple of Bush's flip-flops every now and then (you know he'll make them), and lock this guy's vote up for November. He'll persuade himself given a chance, and now that he's looking at things with a new set of eyes, that chance appears pretty likely.
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robbob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 01:00 AM
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18. I guess he didn't hear anything about that
on Faux news?
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calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:27 PM
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11. A WORLD-CLASS response.
I'm gonna remember that one!

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AP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:34 PM
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12. These torture pictures have really turned things around in a way that
I never thought possible. And the Berg thing seems to be compounding people's feelings about the war being wrong rather than playing into a sense of vegence.

Those torture pictures appear to have had a greater impact than every march, every protest, and every critical word written and spoken about the invasion since it started.

I think people really ask themselves how in the world can the US be bringing freedom to country where you have to assault, rape, torture, eloctrocute, and humiliate its citizens.

Americans know that those pictures are the iconography of freedom-repression and not freedom-brining.
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sampsonblk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:48 PM
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13. Give this round to Zawahri
For once, he got his message out and it made sense: this murder of Berg was in retaliation for the Abu Ghirab prison war crimes.

I am not in favor of the terrorists, or this murder. My position is the same as the Berg family. But its clear to me that this kind of thing is not what they do every day. So its equally clear that the act, the filming and the publication of it were meant as a statement about the prison disaster.

Journalists, since 9-11, have consistently refused to allow the terrorists "message" to get out, favoring Bush's (bogus) claim that they hate us because they hate our freedoms.

Once the public connected Berg with Abu Ghirab, I think the dye was cast - this Berg thing is solidifying support for our anti-war, anti-Bush position.
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AP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-14-04 11:57 PM
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14. The damage was already done by the US prison torture pictures.
In theory, Zawahri should have undone the outrage. The Berg pictures should have made Americans mad at Iraq. Instead, we're mad at Bush. We're saying NONE of it is worth it.

I reiterate, there was no erosion in support for Iraq despite all the efforts (including Dean's and Will Pitts, Joe Wilson, uranium, and jokes about "Mission Accomplished").

Those pictures of Americans humiliating Iraqis in prison, the pictures with the German Shepard, the thumbs up, that caused ALL the damage.

I really think Berg was a blip.
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bpilgrim Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 12:01 AM
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15. the TIPPING POINT
and EVERYONES EFFORTS played its part, imho.

:hi:

peace
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 12:06 AM
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16. Man that was a great response
:thumbsup:
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Delano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 12:20 AM
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17. How infuriating.
I guess I should be happy that many are changing ttheir minds, but WE ALL SAW THIS COMING! This is playing out EXACTLY as we said it would. I have been somewhat surprised at individual acts like the Berg beheading, but overall, the war has gone exactly as I expected. The only thing I didn't count on was sky-high gas prices to cause eventual stagflation...

A LOT of reputable people, including conservatives, advised against this war. Why do these people believe Joe Scarborough and Bill O'Liely over respected experts?

It was SOO obvious too that they were lying or at least exaggerating a lot about the WMD.

I wish I could be happy about this...
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Occulus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 01:02 AM
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19. The war is a WINNING issue for the Dems
IF they have the strength to ask the really hard question.
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opihimoimoi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 04:15 AM
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20. I suspect this guy may be embarrassed and hates to lose Face
Be gentle, allow him slack to change his mind with honor and a little face left hanging. Better odds for a complete change of heart.
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Hamlette Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 09:43 AM
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21. It's difficult to admit a mistake as tragic as this one
that's why I thought the war was not a winning issue for Dems. Although all of us believed the war would be a disaster none of us predicted this. The irony is breathtaking. (The secrecy of this admin and the abuse of the basic human rights of the people who were to greet us with candy and flowers is what may well bring them down. Whew. Karma rocks.)

I intend to get this guy's vote. It was a good natured ribbing on my part. He apologized for giving me crap about the war. Given my position at work he has to get along with me so it won't get nasty. (I'm not his boss.) None of the republicans I have talked to at work (the only place I rub elbows with republicans) support Bush.

Someday I'm going to get up the nerve to take on the Rush listener in the office or the two rabid anti-gay marriage people.
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JawJaw Donating Member (574 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 10:42 AM
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22. going down

"But the Captain said we
had to stay the course.."



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Oddman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-04 10:55 AM
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24. Great analogy!
I think it is finally sinking in! A rigid, bullheaded, unalterable and defiant course can lead to unequivocable disaster after disater.

Blood is on the hands of our Lady MacBush.

Out damn bush! Out, I say!!


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