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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:31 PM
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Time for the Mothers to take Over (my rant )
Time for the Mothers and Grandmothers to take over.

I have been on this earth now for 52 years. That's a hell of a long time, if
you are standing and looking at your own life from

one perspective (perhaps the perspective of a my youngest son, who asks me
on occassion what kind of music I want played at my

funeral..)

I tend to look at the age of the Universe, and if anyone has ever looked at
the pictures from the Hubble telescope, they will

not only see how very very incomprehensibly OLD it is, but how very very
LARGE it is. That is my perspective, and I am on planet

earth in the Milky Way galaxy.

Mighty small arent we. Yes, actually, we are. We are all on a planet called
Earth (we named it after Urtha the Hearth Goddess, by

the way), and rightly so. We named it after her because it is our HOME.
Thats right, our hearth, our home, a place we all have to live

together in Harmony whether we like it or not.

Alas, harmony is not what we are seeing. We are seeing over and over again,
and I have seen this far too much in my 52 years,

a group of brats who have taken over the White House and are working very
hard to disrupt that Harmony. Im a mother, I know a brat

when I see one, and these guys are brats. They are the same age as me, many
of them, and when they were kids they were the

ones who flicked boogers at the other kids they didnt like and ganged up in
groups and harassed people. In groups. They never

stood up for anyone and they didnt show a lick of decency or empathy towards
anyone. No one raised them right, and these guys in

White House were NOT raised properly.

When my sons misbehaved, and they often did, I took them aside and let them
know they were wrong. I told them not to hurt

innocent animals, and I sometimes had to give them a what for! when they got
out of hand. Make them do the dishes.

Someone did NOT make the brats in the White House do the dishes. Someone
dropped the ball when they raised these kids.

I always told my sons, when they were young, that many adults were just
large children in adult bodies. You see, an adult takes

responsibility for themselves, they apologize, and, they tell the truth.

The people in the White House and the Bush admin are not adults. Its time
the Mothers and Fathers who are , gave them a lickin.

It boils down to this. I think the last straw with this bunch was the day
the "brats" took MY stepson and threw him into their "war".

That was it. It wasnt when my mom had to sell her furniture for meds, it
wasnt when my sister lost her job, no, it was right when my

stepson got his orders to go to Iraq to fight for the brats, the bullies,
the ones who call themselves the Vulcans (gimme a break!!), a

bunch of lowlife fratboys who needed some mother or grandmother or parent at
ONE time in their lives, a long time ago,.

to teach them some actual LESSONS about kindness, love, empathy, and
compassion. Its NOT that hard. I taught my sons, and

if I can do it, anyone can.

Now we are in their "war". Caught up in the games of some damned kids who
never learned how to behave. The testosterone is

flying, and that little blue planet , my home, is in peril. Real peril. The
kids have gotten out of hand. Someone needs to reign them

in, and fast. Its long overdue. They have crossed the proverbial MOTHER LINE
and it's time they stopped.

There are Iraqi parents and families that have children in this "war". They
share a planet with me. I share a planet with them. I dont

want MY child in harms way due to brats games, and I sure as hell believe
they dont want their child in harms way due to brats and

their bullying. Hey Saddam was a bad guy, he was a brat. And so is George
Bush and Dick Cheney. brats.

We are all just caught in the middle of little kids all fighting over who
owns the neighbourhood.

It's time for the mothers and dads who are actually adults to reign them in.
On both sides of the aisle. When one of my sons

got into a fight in the neighborhood where he lived, we mothers would get
together and make the kids work it out like gentlemen.

It was that, or do the damn dishes.

The mothers and fathers of all sides need to shout loudly and clearly, in
all arenas of the Earth we HAVE to share. Thats it!!!

No more!!! Okay you little brats! Time to stop! You have gone too far, and
Mom is REALLY MAD.

I reach out to the Iraqi mothers in peace. I do not want your child to die,
I do not want my child to die.

We must reach an understanding, we must share this earth as our home. We are
one people on this earth, it is now time

to hold that truth close, a dire time now, where we as US mothers and
fathers of children, and soldiers who are caught up in this

childish game, start to reach past the children, and reach out to each other
as adults.

I reach out, today, to one mother of a child in Iraq. I do not want your
child to die. I do not want my child to die.

I reach out, in Peace. Forgiveness. Empathy. Compassion. Life. Love. Hope.
and a world we can live in together.

As a mother, I say this, as a mother .


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bobbieinok Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:36 PM
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1. thank you - and peace be with you, your husband, your step-son,
your other sons and your family

I can't imagine being able to write something so real in the midst of your stress
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:39 PM
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2. Great rant.
Edited on Thu Apr-01-04 09:40 PM by Ilsa
My boys are still babies. But these thugs are setting them up for WWIII for the next three decades.

I feel like kicking those brats' asses. Too bad it will only be in my dreams.

(I don't feel very peaceful today. Maybe tomorrow.)
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:42 PM
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4. Join us at www.motherspeak.org
Edited on Thu Apr-01-04 09:44 PM by Mari333
we are working on getting a coalition of parents who are actual adults to reach out to Iraqi parents and tow the brats into line.
Susan is creating a website for it now.
and we got some press on it.
we are working on it anyway.
Its time.
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 11:40 PM
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17. are you feeling that way too? I feel like Im going nuts
its like a roller coaster ride..one day Im in total despair, the next Im full of energy, the next, Im a mess, the next, not..its stress I guess and everyone seems to be feeling it, at least we actually talk about it on here, if I bring it up to anyone how I feel in public they look at me like Im nuts
I am doing the public a favor right now by not going into public! I had a guy look at me like I was insane today when I was asked how are you> ? and I said I feel like shit@ ! Life sucks! the bastards in the White House are still there!
he must have thought I had gone insane good god I might be taken away if I dont stop acting so weird in public but for petes sake I cant fake being normal to people anymore, I dont like lying
Im pissed and angry and tired and worried..and if thats nuts, so be it.
(((hugs)))
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bloom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:41 PM
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3. I would guess
the Iraqi mothers would figure it's up to us to bring our kids home and set them to doing the dishes.
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:43 PM
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5. I have to reach out to them. past the kids.
as an adult.
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Auntie Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 10:06 PM
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8. Thanks Mari333.
I have a grandson who is only 12. I'm already worried! :scared:
The draft is around the corner.
If Bush has his way we will be promoting Democracy all over the Midddle East for the next 100+ years. "Yes, I'm scared!"
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 10:13 PM
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9. I didnt raise my stepson who is over there
Edited on Thu Apr-01-04 10:16 PM by Mari333
he came to live full time at my house when he was only 18, and he was a nice kid. My husband didnt have custody of him, but would have been a better parent, believe me. His mother voted for Bush, and he pretty much, as kids do, believed her.
Ill tell you what..if I would have raised that kid I would have done for him what I did for my own sons...and they all say they refuse to ever be a part of this atrocity.
When Michael came to live with us, I worked on him. Told him he was a beautiful and wonderful young man, hugged him, treated him like he was one of my sons. Ive known him since he was 15.
He didnt want to go there, and he tried to get out of it. But for all our cajoling, and yelling, and showing him the truth about the lies about Iraq, he said "Im afraid Ill get a dishonourable discharge and go to jail"
after trying hard to get out of it, and he did, he made the choice to go. He tells his friends in the unit "DUDE! be NICE to my stepmom! shes trying to get us OUT of here DUDE!"
hes a kid. they are all kids over there. teenagers with guns.
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x-g.o.p.er Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 10:27 PM
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12. The peer pressure to conform in the military
is something that can't be explained, only experienced. He's with his buddies, and they'll take care of each other. They may be teenagers with guns, but they are the best and brightest teenagers we have to offer.

May he be home soon, and may this clusterfuck of an administration not have a chance to send more of our sons and daughters to far away lands for fabricated reasons that he can joke about while wearing a tuxedo at a fancy dinner, while they slog it out in a shithole eating MRE's.
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 10:37 PM
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14. I know, Ive heard of it, its what kids do, peer pressure
Ive watched all my sons in this missile laden, testosterone pumped up ridiculous childish absurd world grow up...keeping them from turning into assholes was my first order of business..when one of them came home and said to me one day
"The worst thing the guys can call each other on the playground is a 'woman'" I let them know the truth.
and everyday of their lives I respected them as young men, who had what was inherently inside them as decent human beings..its called compassion and nurturing, empathy, and kindness. Its what I believe in, and what their dad believed in before he died, and what many men and women on this earth believe in.
Im glad hes protected by his friends. But our children, no children, on either side, should be in that situation.
Ever again.
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BeHereNow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:50 PM
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6. That is BEAUTIFUL Mari!
And every mother on the planet will back you.
How do we go about setting up a networking
form of communication with the Moms in Iraq?
We need to form a coalition with them and stand
in solidarity against the neighborhood bullies.
Calling all moms- Either you are with us or you are not a mom!
BHN
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 09:53 PM
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7. We shall see what will happen
there is a story about susan and I wanting to do that soon in the news. I hope it helps. I want to form a coalition of mothers and fathers to meet with Iraqi parents and speak in session about the need for peace.
Keep your fingers crossed. Keep the hope alive, put the idea into the light.
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Kazak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 10:19 PM
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10. Women of the world, take over
'Cause if you don't the world will come to an end
And it won't take long

-Jim O'Rourke
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Zorra Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 10:20 PM
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11. Agreed. I was thinking about this today.
It's time.
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 10:28 PM
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13. Thank you for that picture.
Edited on Thu Apr-01-04 10:38 PM by Mari333
we need to take it back.
Ladies, start your engines.
Its time.
I really believe in throwing the concept out to the Universe and working our butts off from here, and believing we will take Mother Earth , our home, back from the Brats who no one is reigning in.
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Zorra Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 11:54 PM
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18. You are very welcome.
I have a larger version in my home. I think it says so much.

Thank you for your wonderful post.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-02-04 05:26 AM
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19. THAT is GORGEOUS!
.
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anarchy1999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 11:19 PM
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15. Beautiful, Mari!
Can we share it with others? (of course, keeping you anonymous).

And please share it with MFSO, BringThemHomeNow and CalltoConscience.

Peace.
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Mari333 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-04 11:30 PM
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16. gads yes
sheesh Im some old lady in Michigan writing stuff I just throw stuff out to the Universe and hope it goes somewhere because I am desperately wanting as we all are to save our children, all of them.
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-02-04 09:44 AM
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20. Kick
:)
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-02-04 09:55 AM
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21. From a Mom to all DU Mom(s), check this out:
http://www.themmob.com/index.htm

Moms bound and determined to get rid of the Evil Empire.

They've pissed off the wrong damn bunch this time!

Well said, Mari. Still praying for your stepson and all the victims of this immoral war.
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