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I think there is a 'strategy' the GOP is using behind the gay marriage issue. I think they want more wriggle room to persecute gays lesbians and transgendered people.Because the religious people are afraid and 'cherry pick' out the cruel and bigoted bible verses it shows where their heart is in this,it shows their relationship to their god has no spiritual fruit and that their"spiritual discernment"is very carnal because it brings suffering pain hate,death and allegedly god is supposed to be love.Bullies are offended by our existence,presences because they are bullies first reactionary religious people second.The religious Rights view of god seemingly serves to support their pathological desire to scapegoat and put themselves above others and to make everyone have a puritanical lifestyle like they desire in the name of control over others.
Funders can howl all day about how Homosexuality is a choice
Fundies and the majority of folks I see arguing with them don't stop to think that a person,any person who is being a bully,is choosing to be a bully? I mean violence,hate,pushing yourself upon the uninterested or unwilling is a choice to violate someone else's consent.The fundies don't want us to be here,so they will make us disappear by law,hate,force..whatever because they see it fit to violate our consent about how we live,because our presence offends? is this crazy or what.How can a person please a person who will do anything to erase them? A fundie chooses to hate when he goes choosing to enforce the sadistic parts of the bible at the expense of ignoring the good,When churches schism it is a battle between people who see the good who evolved out of wanting to erase people who are different ,fighting those who choose to cling to the bad because deep down they are bullies and anything inclusive scares the hell out of them and makes them think they are losing privilege and control.Stuff they NEVER were entitled to.
How is being a rigid control freak,authoritarian bully to another human being for just existing as they are not a choice the bully makes when he decides to harass someone? It IS always a choice if you bully people,I can prove it.. Ever see a fundie talk nicer and'calmer' and adopt lower profiles when he's overwhelmed by numbers who disagree and we are willing to take his fighting words to task,and fight him over his provocations? Compare the speech and behavior of said reactionary bully when the numbers of opposing voices are reversed.Notice how the bullies venom spews and the hatred is incited at more vicious levels when they feel they have a 'culture' for company who 'agree' with their unspoken bully intentions? Do you really think Rush Limbaugh would shoot off his mouth the way he does if he was surrounded by those liberals he derides in person? Hell no.The bullies can control their reactions,they don't spew venom when they know it could get them killed or ironically force them to stop spewing hate,or get shouted down or silenced.
Hate is a choice.It's time to call the bullies on their desire to feed hatred in people, call the bullies on their chosen control freak problem, push back against their cultural imposing,because they don't want us to even exist and be honest about ourselves, Call out their chosen abuses of law and spirituality to support their sick authoritarian disorders and socialized sociopath problems that are the sick engine operating in their heart under the veneer of bible verses and puritanical posing..
One uncontrolled ,unconfronted bully in school can destroy the peace for all the targeted scapegoats of an entire school. Sadly adult society isn't too different from middle school hierarchy scapegoating and avoidance when the bullies are allowed to control culture. The religious right call it a culture war.But what is the underlying goal this so called culture war the right wingers are declaring really over?
Right wingers want (but will NEVER admit)the right to hate,scapegoat,manipulate con and abuse people and make them miserable.They want to be excused for destroying.. Ever notice it's the religious right who uses biblical excuses to push parents to spank kids? Ever notice it is the religious right that use the bible to justify their hatred? Why does the religious right support the death penalty yet can't stand abortion? Abusers seek out vulnerable people to victimize.Babies are very vulnerable to abuse and influence and their minds can be clouded to act out in the image of parent,for good or ill. The right wing bully knows this vulnerability in kids is true,and so does the control freak church and marketers everywhere.
Everyday people in any said church choose to leave a church,for many reasons..Church attendance records show how voluntary beliefs one has about god are.People change denominations,or switch gods all the time.Beliefs are always VOLUNTARY unless you are a child dragged to church or you are manipulated in other ways into participating because what you are participating with hasn't been fully disclosed to you,or you have been deceived by self serving leaders or hierarchy structures about what to what the 'deal'is really as you enter into it.(cult recruitment and salesmanship) Children being manipulated by adults to be something other than who they are,and compelled by the social imposition from control freak's to feel shame fear and lie about them self to preserve dignity and safety to survive is totally involuntary for the child,and a sad reality for an adult who has to cope with a culture that chooses to hate them for existing.
Hatred and cultural domination however, is completely voluntary activity for all manipulators/bullies who seek to benefit psychologically ,financially,socially,ect..from manipulating the culture into boxes and'norms',belittling individuals who disagree with a bully lifestyle and interfering with the lives of others the bully does not like to see.
Bullies of all types think they are entitled to tell others who they are and how they should live.Bullies even when playing nice are always self serving. The bible for them is a convenient ambiguous distraction and excuse leading away from what they really want deep down which is to indulge in power..in unconcerning control or sadism, to create 'clones'of themselves, true believers and ensure a fresh supply of victims to dump their psychological toxins into..Bullies seek to dominate,destroy and make someone else suffer, force them to conform to a vision of culture common to bullies requiring denial and silence about certain truths and experiences people have with what bullies do to them.
This problem goes way beyond the religious right,VS Gay marriage. This problem is struggling in issues of social exploitation,the problem of bystanders(apathy),the effects of Stockholm syndrome and abuses on entire cultures, the dynamics and problem of social manipulation.It all raises questions in people about what is love,family,society really..It questions what is consent and what violates someones consent and when can you trust people?, The existence of cultural differences VS a reactionary retreat to the illusion of social mono culture that feels safer to one segment of the population than it does to others and that tension between them,What are misuses of power and religion and law? Questions about what is fair control ,what really needs control and why..And it brings up what is or is not dangerous,and this all needs to be framed in freedom, social justice and human rights.
Sad truth is many people in society don't want to think too hard on issues this complex it makes the brain hurt. So they leave this deep thinking and decision making to "experts",politicians pundits and the pulpit, all the places in society bullies will seek positions in to feel power over people.Bullies are the "charismatic normal,strong ,smart looking people" who seek positions of power in society because that is NOT who they are and they spend alot of time lying dist rating dividing and hating because they know it,and they want the people to obey and not bother to see through them to the choices they make.. This is why Shrubs military record getting into the public eye upsets the administration..It breaks their illusion and wakes people from the spell of denial over a misuse of power.
So Gay Marriage in a way awakens the public consciousness about misuse of power and religion it opens up a long time debate and the heart of it is,that the right wing bully pulpit is full of bullies and we do not have to care what they say or think,and when we don't they will hurt people.
Gay marriage issues also distracts the bigger truth,that bush is indeed a socialized sociopath bully with layers of P.R. painting him as someone else,coving up his failures with charisma and playing pretend and the Public has been duped. It is painful to look at the publics willingness to participate in creating suffering for want of domination over others lives. It's easier for the public to forget..go chase and rally around an innocent social scapegoat speaking out for human dignity equality for the sake of love..
Rather than realize we as a society for centuries have been collectively manipulated by powerful people into mirroring the"values" of the powerful,which are NO values,we have been taught to scapegoat people that are different,while we go excusing and supporting people that are deliberately causing havoc and strife among society because they choose to and they want control..Easier to think about issues like marriage than consider our entire culture has been,used,conned, lied to,stolen from,abused,manipulated,The word family once meant a band of slaves now it's called the glue holding society together..and tell me who benefits from families becoming like slaves? Sadly In America that is what the workplace demands.If the workers wont be slaves the companies go where the slaves are.
America has been hoodwinked into wars for profit, we have been manipulated into selling out our own national integrity, we have had our Constitution and spirituality shredded and cheapened by Bush and his godly nut case Friends with their charisma thierP.R marketing confusing us, while they strut,talking like the Christian Taliban, pretending to be "strong".The 2000 elections were stolen from us,and even our choice of democratic candidates is being manipulated in case you never thought it could,it is..with non-issues like who is electible VS who stands up for US or Dean's shreik..All around us distracting issues, lies and hype come from these control freaks with thier unconsenting influences setting us up to hamper an informed honest decision we may make to further equality and other values that Liberals value that go against the bullies "values" to engineer consent,shape lives,lie cheat abuse and manipulate the vulnerable,We are being wisted from the inside out by the very self serving power and economic system we the people set up to control misuses of power and thievery by the sociopaths who seek to use the oval office for their own dreams of social dominion.
The Gay marriage question should have NEVER been an issue for a country that truly values freedom liberty and justice for_ALL_. Equal and different is what we are in reality. But some people do not want equality or difference to co exist with respect because they seek dominion or they are scared of being dominated.
The fact that Gays must in this so called"free" country fight against fellow citizens using religious texts and the law of the land, choosing to hate Gays for the right to be who they are,to exist..is a tragedy that need not be...The right to be who you are ,even being a question that our culture has to ask itself ,really shows how little we want to see the sociopath motives operating behind the high minded and hateful rhetoric spewing out of the centers of power we allow to exist. When the powerful misuse power,religion or fear to get their way at the expense of our national ideals and integrity and human rights and autonomy and sovereignty of self.It is time to depose that power and expose it,delegitamize it,and fight it..It is time to try something different and step out of the loop that struggle has always been framed in.Confront the unknown,choose none of the above.
Try to undermine the grasping of power in people around you that are screaming for domination. Expose the sociopath motives working the power underneath the machines of social propaganda,norms,values, and bad religion.Step out of all the social frameworks set up by power,media or peers that seductively violate your consent and engineer your choices.Be aware powerful agendas are set up to influence your decisions without your consent,to reinforce the parameters of possibility the powerful want you to stay inside of so that the powerful will not be exposed or lose control over their stratified culture that they exploit.
Tear out the deeper motives of the powers and pundits that seek to tell you how to live,and tell you not to exist and the rest of the truth will come clear.
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