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cal04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 08:33 PM
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Theodore C. Olbermann, 1929-2010 (With a comment from Keith)
Keith Olbermann has posted on his MLB blog that his father passed away today at 3:50pm Eastern Time.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2010/3/13/845953/-Theodore-C.-Olbermann,-1929-2010

He died peacefully after a long fight against the complications that ensued after successful colon surgery last September at the New York Presbyterian-Weill Cornell Medical Center. My sister Jenna and I were at his side, and I was reading him his favorite James Thurber short stories, as he left us.

I'm sure that most of us have followed Keith over the past year as he and his family have suffered the loss of both their parents.

There isn't too much to say except to wish Keith all the best in the years to come.

A few thoughts of mine own:

From what I've seen on Countdown and read, Mr. Olbermann (that means Theodore), seemed to be a real down to earth kind of guy. No matter what he had to deal with the last six months, he didn't let his sense of humor get away from him. Keith, if you're reading this, that's what I got from your stories and updates about his last few months.

Whenever someone loses a parent it is a shock. I lost my father almost seven years ago. He was 70. Thankfully, he didn't suffer all that much. The diagnosis of lung cancer was less than two weeks before he passed. My mother thankfully, still runs around, still works as she approaches her 74th birthday in couple of months.

I remember thinking how lucky I was to have had him even that long. At his funeral, I remarked how in just the previous two years I had seen six students have bury a parent. I felt so lucky to have my Dad until I was 41. I couldn't imagine losing him at 15 or 16.

I do know this, when ever I see a Baskin-Robbins, I'll think of Teddy Olbermann. Something tells me, a lot of us around here will.

He is as much my hero now, as he was when I was five years old.

That is so true for so many of us.


Update: Keith has posted a commentdown thread, a thank you to us all. All I can say is, no Keith, thank you.
http://www.dailykos.com/comments/2010/3/13/18433/1886/143#c143

My Thanks To Everybody
Forgive my brevity.

He fought against this, as did we, obviously - but that ratio of things you suffer in hopes of getting well, to chances you will get well, swung rapidly in the wrong direction in the last few days. You first-guess yourself, and second-guess, and thirtieth-guess, and you hope you're doing the right thing and that you are left with some vague sense that you did.

And then, if you're lucky, your Dad does for you what mine did for us. We dialed down the intervention and upped the pain remedies last night and he was out like a light, eyes closed. I walked him through everything we were considering and all that would ensue, and I read to him for hours, and he never moved. Then when I said good night, early this morning, I told him I loved him, and suddenly his eyes opened just barely and a few formless syllables crossed through his lips, and then he went back into that deep slumber. I think I'm not guessing too wildly at what he was saying in reply.

Today, after everything was turned off save for the painkiller drip and the oxygen, he opened his eyes a little more widely than they'd been (he was not awake), and I read him four or five of his favorite Thurbers and as I finished the last of them, he closed his eyes, and a moment after that just stopped breathing. No agonies, no rattles, no fear - and, given that the whole process took just 35 minutes - no need for us to doubt for a moment we were doing what he wanted.

Peace to you all.

"If you're going through hell - keep going!" -- Winston Churchill

by Keith Olbermann on Sat Mar 13, 2010
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gateley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 08:37 PM
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1. A hug to Keith and his sister, and RIP, Mr. and Mrs. Olbermann. nt
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virgogal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 08:56 PM
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2. I lost my father when I was 5 years old.
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:42 PM
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6. I'm sorry.
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Tippy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 08:58 PM
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3. My Prayers and sympathy to the Oberman family.Your Mom and Dad
I almost felt as if I knew them. When I lost my folks, Dad in May and Mom in the following Aug. I thought my world would end...but because of who they were and how they brought us up those feelings didn't hang around long. We remembered the good times. I know that is what they would have wanted.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 10:45 PM
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My dad is July and my mom the following May. Ten months apart.
I think I post it as often as I do because I am still trying to assimilate the immutable fact that my heroes, my pillars, the whole focus of my life is gone forever.

I loathe to hear people talk about how they don't get along with their parents. Regret is forever if you don't make amends. My parents and I had nothing between us that wasn't good. I had no regrets for what I did or didn't do for and about them. I only regret that they had to go.

RIP, Mr. and Mrs. Olbermann. I can imagine you are dancing in heaven and admiring your good boy from where you are. I know I am.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 10:45 PM
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9. My dad is July and my mom the following May. Ten months apart.
I think I post it as often as I do because I am still trying to assimilate the immutable fact that my heroes, my pillars, the whole focus of my life is gone forever.

I loathe to hear people talk about how they don't get along with their parents. Regret is forever if you don't make amends. My parents and I had nothing between us that wasn't good. I had no regrets for what I did or didn't do for and about them. I only regret that they had to go.

RIP, Mr. and Mrs. Olbermann. I can imagine you are dancing in heaven and admiring your good boy from where you are. I know I am.
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eleny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 08:59 PM
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4. Rest in peace
My condolences to the Olbemrann family. They've had serious losses with first mom and now dad gone.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:28 PM
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5. Condolences to his family...
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:44 PM
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7. Peace to all. Mr. Olbermann was a lucky man.
Edited on Sat Mar-13-10 09:47 PM by nolabear
Edited to add, in case anyone should think otherwise, he was lucky to have his family with him, loving him out of the world, giving honor to his life and their affection for him.
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sfwriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:59 PM
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8. On his dad
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWtwvFc842A

Keith's comment on his dad from a few weeks back.
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 05:20 AM
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10. "If you're going through hell - keep going!" -- Winston Churchill
Very well... I will!

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ChicagoSuz219 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 05:30 AM
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11. I'm in shock...
...the last thing I heard Keith say was that he was getting better.

My thoughts & prayers are with Keith & his family at this time.
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