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Daveparts still Donating Member (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 09:54 AM
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Falling in Love with a Prostitute
Falling in Love with a Prostitute
By David Glenn Cox


As the old song goes, nobody loves you when you’re down and out. It’s true enough, but still somehow you expect your own mother to love you. It is disquieting and soul stirring when you come to the realization that even your own mother has no use for you when you have no coins in your pocket.

The other day my son called me from the mall to tell me that he was swarmed by military recruiters all wanting him to enlist. There were three recruiters in the mall itself and another team working in tandem in the parking lot. He explained to them, “I’ve spent the last three years trying to build my own business. Do you really think that I would just chuck it all to join the Marines? Why would I want to do that?”

“Aren’t you patriotic? Don’t you love your country?" the recruiter countered with the confidence of a Philadelphia lawyer.

“Yeah?” My son answered, “I’ve got buddies who’ve come home in boxes and I got a buddy who came home messed up in the head, and for what? He’s sitting in a brig in Texas. He was fine when he left home; now you people say he’s a criminal only worthy of a jail cell, but he was good enough for you when you wanted him to serve his country!”

George W Bush is out on a speaking tour and offered to the one thousand in the audience, "I am confident that I made decisions based on principle, that I made calls as best I could, and I did not sell my soul."

What alternative universe could contain such thoughts? The former President lives in a dream world detached from reality. He thinks after six thousand Americans dead and seventy-five thousand wounded and almost a trillion dollars just pissed away that it is somehow about his soul?

Asked if the former President had any regrets, "I spend a lot of time thinking about Katrina, and whether I could have sent in the federal troops right away, even though it was against the law," Bush replied.

Such statements in a bar or barbershop would earn him a well-deserved punch in the nose for the hubris, the unmitigated gall to attempt to tell the American public of his concern and fear of breaking the law. Especially while more than sixteen hundred Americans died in the streets of a major American city while the President played air guitar and ate birthday cake.

American politics has become a never-ending Wagnerian opera; onstage the hero with sword and shield fights the very gods themselves for justice. Yet when the curtain falls and the lights go dim, he smokes cigarettes and drinks brandy backstage and doesn’t give a fat rat's ass about truth or justice.

The entire health care debate looks like rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic. There is no doubt that health care reform is decades overdue. But the house is on fire; is that a good time to choose to rearrange the furniture? We have in this country three million people who lost their homes in the past ninety days. Unemployment claims are running at more than over half a million per week! Four hundred thousand struggling Americans lost their unemployment benefits October 1st because the Senate wanted to play procedural games.

Before hurricane Katrina, the population of New Orleans was 485,000 people. Last week a number exceeding the entire population of New Orleans filed for unemployment. A number equal to the entire population of New Orleans lost all unemployment benefits. Six times the pre-Katrina population of New Orleans have lost their homes since July.

The healthcare debate is being waged along partisan lines, your health versus large corporate profits. The Congress struggles to find a balance; meanwhile, the nut balls on the right call it socialism and ask, by what power does the constitution allow the government to intrude into the healthcare industry? But a better question to ask might be, by what power does the constitution allow the corporations of the country to be placed on the balance scales against the wellbeing of the people?

This weekend the President declared the H1N1 flu outbreak a national emergency. Very well, are there any inoculations available for cold weather? Homelessness? Unemployment? Underemployment? A government with seven billion dollars in aid money for social programs in Pakistan tells its own unemployed, “Well, we will just have to wait and see.” That’s cold comfort, Bubba! Tell your countrymen with children that maybe there will be more jobs next year or the year after that.

The stimulus? Maybe you haven’t been paying attention, and very little has been reported in the news what with Jon and Kate and the balloon boy, but most of the stimulus has been swallowed whole by the gaping budget deficits. Many of the highway projects have been postponed because of a precipitous fall in highway fuel tax revenue. The cities, the states and counties of this nation face billions in budget shortfalls. Their plan is simple, cut workers, cut services, cut pensions, cut wages. Of course in government they use euphemisms to explain this, but out here on the street we call this plan "Fuck you!"

So, Congress explains how they’re fighting for or against healthcare reform to people sleeping in tents. How they will fight to the ends of the earth for the public option when what was needed was single payer, but that was off the table because corporations couldn’t profit off of your illness with single payer. They treat us like the Eloi, and millions of gullible sheep are sitting quietly and waiting for the sirens to go off.

We've become a populace living in a semi-conscience state, unaware and clueless. Numb and emotionless, clinging to meaningless euphemisms and statistics. Reciting jingoistic slogans over a mother's tears. A "casualty" means that some American boy’s head has been splattered on the ground for some god-damned political theory for the ignorant. Wasted in the name of corporate America, but we love our troops.

We love our troops until they come home and are discharged; then they’re just another bum, another loser. That’s how we refer to any Americans not above justice or above poverty. These are how Americans are treated with contempt and neglect, blamed for all that has gone wrong in the American economy.

That blame is aided and abetted by media murderers and assassins of truth, gorging on the flesh of human misery. Marching with their god-damned tea bags in one hand and their hammer and nails in the other, looking for another poor sucker to nail to that cross in the name of God. I shake my head and wonder, where do these people live?

Waving their flags and professing their love for a country that wouldn’t piss on them if they were on fire. Crying undying love for a country that lets its citizens drown out of a fear of breaking the law or get thrown out into the streets in the name of good banking reform. It shakes my soul to say it, but I will say it and will continue to say it until I see different, loving this country is not much different than falling in love with a prostitute.
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Leftist Agitator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 11:32 AM
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1. K&R.
This was an excellent post.
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 11:38 AM
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2. Excellent...
As always.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 11:48 AM
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3. Sigh. GREAT post; EXCEPT the fact that I happen to know a few prostitutes.
and in all complete seriousness; this is not fair to them.

It basically intimates that if you fall in love with a prostitute; you will get pissed on - among other things. I'd like someone to tell that to the many human and loving sex workers I have happened across in my time.
Could we pick another comparison next time?

I so very much hate to say that about such a truthful and well-written screed; but it is bothering me and I felt a need to say it.

Still Rec'd and kicked.
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Daveparts still Donating Member (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 12:10 PM
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4. No Offense Meant to Prostitutes
it was more directed to those who fall in love with prostitutes. That the love is only one way.
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lildreamer316 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 12:34 PM
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5. Ok,
I'll run with you on that one.

Very well written, and very truthful; in any case. Thank you.
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snake in the grass Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 02:25 PM
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6. Excellent!
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barbtries Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 03:38 PM
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7. excellent rant
Edited on Sun Oct-25-09 03:39 PM by barbtries
one little thing: "semi-conscience" did you mean semi-conscious?

scary numbers there.
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ooglymoogly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 03:56 PM
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8. KR for saying it like it is and saying it well. kr
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Christa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 04:53 PM
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9. Needs to go to greatest page
Well thought out, beautifully written. I want to save this on my journal. It is a keeper.
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 05:04 PM
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10. Did you write this?
I hate the word poignant, but I guess that's how I would describe it.
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Daveparts still Donating Member (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 05:08 PM
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11. Yes,
Yes I did.
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 06:19 PM
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12. Best OP I've read today.
A belated welcome to DU! :hi:
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natrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 06:55 PM
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13. all star rant
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WileEcoyote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 08:52 PM
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14. I'd rather see them selling dope than recruiting for the military
Think about it: A dope user can just say no and walk away. Not so a caste system member of the military.

I tell this to the recruiters every time i run into them. You can find them looking for desperate poor young people working at Starbucks, and other low wage store chains.
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Harry Monroe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 09:15 PM
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15. Wow!! Just wow!!
An excellent piece. You write from the heart my friend. And your son sounds like a fine, intelligent young man. Hearing his response to the military recruiters gives me hope for his generation!!
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orbitalman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 10:53 PM
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16. You have a definately absolute point. n/t
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The Wizard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-25-09 11:28 PM
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17. Good rage, somewhat poetic
and thought provoking.
You get an A.
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Mind_your_head Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 12:56 AM
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18. The "problem" isn't the average red-neck joe/jane .....
The PROBLEM is the bankers and corporations and the msm who LIE on their behalf. The PROBLEM is that too many of us still 'rely' on the msm to lend authority/accuracy ....we still think to cite "oh, here it is in TIME magazine" or "the NYTimes said it" or WaPO....

Those sources only are accurate sometimes. They lie by ommission (not telling all of the relevant details). They're only accurate when it suits them (suits their 'masters'/owners....which ISN't you or me)
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gtar100 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 01:04 AM
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19. I didn't expect this. That was very well said.
Loving this country today seems so shallow and empty. You have to pick the pieces that are good which are generally the things closest to home. As a nation, we act as our own worst enemy.
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caseymoz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 01:06 AM
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20. K&R
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saracat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 02:07 AM
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21.  Wow. I wish I couldK+R this a million times .This is right on!
I almost didn't read it because of the title. Not that I but have anything against prostitutes but it didn't sound like a topic i would be interested in LOL!
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bjobotts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 02:35 AM
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22. Powerlessness...say it over and over.It's what the wealthy and those bought and sold in congress dep
depend on. Sometimes the only power we have is one person sharing their experience strength and hope with another.
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bjobotts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 02:38 AM
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23. We can blame congress and the senate...they stopped listening
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 06:35 AM
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24. Excellent!
Sent far and wide, with credit given to you, of course. K&R!
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me b zola Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 07:02 AM
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25. "We love our troops until..."
We love our troops until they speak openly about being gay. We love our troops until they reveal that they are an atheist. We love our troops until they reveal their Liberal/progressive values and speak out against injustice.

Then we don't just neglect them, we abuse them.



The truth hurts and this post gives a healthy dose of truth. Recommended.






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Thornleylv Donating Member (273 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 08:04 AM
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26. At least you get something for your money with a whore!
If your not rich in this country you don't exist. Single payer would not be fair to the millionaires, it would be great for the rest of us.



:kick:
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cleverusername Donating Member (93 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 08:29 AM
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27. Drop the misogynistic prostitute reference n/t
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SlingBlade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 08:40 AM
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28. Excellent Rant Daveparts still.... K & R :)
:yourock: :fistbump:
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Wingmasters Donating Member (16 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 08:55 AM
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29. Great Stuff.
While I was reading,I already established traits , this is an excellent piece .
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janet118 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 09:02 AM
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30. Sounds like an old John Prine song . . .
The Great Compromise lyrics

I knew a girl who was almost a lady
She had a way with all the men in her life
Every inch of her blossomed in beauty
And she was born on the fourth of July
Well she lived in an aluminum house trailer
And she worked in a juke box saloon
And she spent all the money I give her
Just to see the old man in the moon

Chorus:
I used to sleep at the foot of Old Glory
And awake in the dawn's early light
But much to my surprise
When I opened my eyes
I was a victim of the great compromise


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midnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 09:04 AM
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31. A messenger of truth.. It sounds so amazing to hear the truth being written about.
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ensho Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-26-09 09:45 AM
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32. kick
nt
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