http://www.nydailynews.com/opinions/2008/05/18/2008-05-18_robert_f_kennedy_my_father.htmlRobert F. Kennedy, my father
BY KATHLEEN KENNEDY TOWNSEND
Sunday, May 18th 2008, 4:00 AM
Robert Kennedy and daughter Kathleen in 1964 RFK Collection
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My father often cited the graffiti on the walls of the pyramids: "And no one was angry enough to speak out." His frustration impelled him to attack corruption in the labor unions - and then impelled him to get Congress to outlaw organized crime. He insisted that the Greyhound bus company, which had resisted transporting the Freedom Riders, find a driver who would. He suggested to American diplomats who would defend South American oligarchs and North American business interests that those who make a peaceful revolution impossible make a violent revolution inevitable.
And yet, when the injustice attached to him most directly, he did not react in anger. When my uncle John Kennedy died, he wrote me a letter from the White House (I was 12 at the time):
"Dear Kathleen, You seem to understand that Jack died and was buried today. As the oldest of the grandchildren, you have a special responsibility. Be kind to others and work hard for our country. Love, Daddy."
At that moment, he could have been bitter, he could have been resentful, even vengeful - at the very least exasperated. And, yet by writing, he told me that he was thinking of me, caring about me, and wanting me to be responsible, decent and loving.
That understanding heart embraced people all around the world - not ones who were easy to love, but those who were difficult. He reached his hand to children living in unheated shacks in Appalachia, to students angered by U.S. foreign policy in Japan and South America. He broke bread with Cesar Chavez after his month-long fast. His love impelled him to drive into the inner city when Martin Luther King Jr. was killed and say, "My brother was also killed by a white man," and ask that there be peace, not violence and revenge.
It is hard to dance between anger and love, and harder still to combine the two. In this world that is unfair and unjust, it is so much easier to fall victim to anger's righteousness.
My father had reason to curse the fates. But he resisted that course. He chose a path that found wisdom in pain. And, in doing so, he demonstrated that empathy for those who hailed from different nations, social class, ethnicities or faiths.
Now as then, there is much that could make us fearful and revengeful. He reminds me, and reminds us all, of a different way.
Kennedy Townsend is Robert and Ethel Kennedy's oldest child and author of "Failing America's Faithful: How Today's Churches Are Mixing God With Politics and Losing Their Way."