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Doctor Cynic Donating Member (965 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 10:42 AM
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Saudi accused of having six wives (two over limit)
Source: BBC

A member of the Saudi religious police has been accused of having six wives at the same time - two more than allowed under religious laws, reports say.

The 56-year-old was detained in south-western Jizan province, according to the Saudi newspaper al-Watan.

Three of the women involved were Saudis and the other three were from Yemen, just over the border, it reported.

The accused denies the women are all currently his wives and says he has divorced two of them.

Read more: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/7535088.stm



Does he get beheaded now?
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bunkerbuster1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 10:43 AM
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1. What's Arabic for "It's OK if You Are Republican?"
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 10:44 AM
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2. "Two over limit". That cracked me up. Reminds me of hunting. nt
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flyingfysh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 12:03 PM
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12. would that be called..
"dear hunting"?:spank:
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Endangered Specie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 03:57 AM
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34. Yeah, and they LITERALLY bag the women.
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Thor_MN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 07:48 AM
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38. Reminds me more of fishing, but we better not go there...
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 08:15 AM
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40. Throw two of 'em back.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 08:15 AM
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41. Throw two of 'em back.
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Schema Thing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 10:51 AM
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3. heheh, you said Jizan
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Submariner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 10:54 AM
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4. It must be a bummer to be the two rejected women
Back in the dating scene, everyone will be snickering at them as divorced for being over the bag limit. Sux to be them.
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 01:37 PM
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19. "Last hired, first fired, so to speak." Unless he does the "I divorce you" ritual to make room for
the last two - probably the youngest and "hottest."

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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 01:38 PM
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20. Jeez, what is a couple extra wives among friends?"
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 02:44 PM
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22. The youngest and hottest?
They all wear veils... how can he tell until it's way too late? :P
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 02:58 PM
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23. Word gets around, I am sure.
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truthisfreedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 10:55 AM
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5. He's accused of wiving 2 over the limit?
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 11:10 AM
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9. Muslim law allows men to have up to 4 wives n/t
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truthisfreedom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 01:49 PM
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21. It was a joke. Driving 2 over the limit.
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AnneD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 02:10 PM
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42. I was always under the impression that...
as long as he could care for them equally, there was no limit.

I know more than a few that marry women in other countries and they stay in those countries, well supported. They can have their children up until they are 5 yo old. At that time if hubby wants-they can go to SA.

I was approached once with a marriage proposal from a very well to do CEO of a Saudi company (through an intermediary). I was asked to submit 2 photos, one face shot and one with a veil. After reading all the terms-esp when I would travel to SA...I got cold feet. I was assured that he was a nice man, and I am sure he was. But I would rather be a poor man's first wife than a rich man's second wife. It was an interesting experience.
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 02:44 PM
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43. Sura 4, "Of Women"
From a translation of the Quran by Abdullah Yusufali, available here.

1. O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord, who created you from a single person, created, of like nature, His mate, and from them twain scattered (like seeds) countless men and women;- reverence Allah, through whom ye demand your mutual (rights), and (reverence) the wombs (That bore you): for Allah ever watches over you.

2. To orphans restore their property (When they reach their age), nor substitute (your) worthless things for (their) good ones; and devour not their substance (by mixing it up) with your own. For this is indeed a great sin.

3. If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.


My understanding is that all seven schools of Islamic jurisprudence interpret this as meaning that a male Muslim may have up to four wives and no more, and only provided that he is able to provide for them and treat them equally with respect. I remember from a comparative religions class in college (mumble) years ago that some of these schools interpret the passage in a more holistic context and hold that, after one wife, a man can marry only husbandless mothers in need of male protection.

Keep in mind that the state religion of Saudi Arabia is Wahhabism, which many Muslims consider to be heterodox if not heretical. Although based on Sunni schools of theology, Wahhabism rejects the five schools of Sunni fiqh which are an integral part of Sunni Shari'a and instead holds to a fundamentalist, almost sola scriptura view of the Quran. I believe that Wahhabism allows a man to marry as many times as he can afford and has no problem with men having concubines (in the passage quoted above, the "captive that your right hands poessess", ie a slave or bound servant), which both Sunni and Shi'a schools either frown upon or actually prohibit.
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AnneD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 03:35 PM
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44. That makes sense.....
This was a SA gentleman, and most of of my sources for info was SA. Since I haven't read the Koran throughly, I was going on the info provided to me. Thanks for the info. At the time, I was a single mom and I was uncomfortable with someone NOT my daughter's dad having a say (even if her dad was a jerk). They assured me that my daughter would be mine, but I just wasn't sold on the idea.

We joke about it. Four years ago, we had a stop over in Dubai. My surly teen daughter started giving me grief. I told her to watch her step-I could get 2 horses, 6 camels, and a herd of goats for her (she was blonde and 13). Dubai was a wonderful place by the way...the Moslem Rivera. They are fairly lose there, so this almost smacks of a set up.

My daughter still has a copy of her censored Cosmo (British edition) that we picked up. They used a special black marker and it was done by hand. :spray:
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Webster Green Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 10:56 AM
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6. The two extra wives will no doubt be stoned to death..
I think that's how the Saudi's work that stuff out.



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cliffordu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 11:04 AM
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7. My thoughts exactly.
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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 11:12 AM
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10. Very likely, yes
My understanding is that once the limit of four was reached, all the "extras" were never wives. As such, they were "impure" women engaged in prostitution. If the law doesn't kill them, it is very likely that their "disgraced" families will.
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JonQ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 04:20 PM
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29. I had that exact same thought
if they weren't legally married, but they did consummate the marriage (I assume they did), doesn't that make the women adulterers under shariah law? Seems like they might be eligible for stoning.

What a terrible legal system.
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truebrit71 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 11:07 AM
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8. Why would ANYONE want more than ONE wife?
*ducks as Mrs TB lobs a frying pan at my head*....

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TechBear_Seattle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 11:15 AM
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11. Bragging rights, basically
Multiple wives show that you have the financial security to support more than one family. And, of course, you can have more children if you keep more than one woman pregnant; more children = more proof of wealth, not to mention the machismo of being able to keep those wives pregnant.
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 12:20 PM
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14. When you're 52, you can get the hot 14 yo daughter of your best bud. n/t
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 01:08 PM
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17. It's truly a shameful waste when neither of the wives is bisexual.
Why is polygamy wasted on conservative fundamentalists who wouldn't know a good time if it stripped itself naked and threw itself on top of them?

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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 02:24 AM
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33. IanDB1 scheduled for immediate ass-kicking
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aspergris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 01:17 PM
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18. the definition of polygamy?
One wife too many.

...

Same as conventional marriage.

<rimshot!!!!>

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The Croquist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 06:15 AM
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36. What's the punishment for 6 wives?
6 mothers-in-law.
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madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 12:10 PM
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13. Ayib aleyk! (Shame on you!)
You know what they say about sex with an ex. And a member of the Thought Police to boot! :spank:
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snooper2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 12:21 PM
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15. Anyone who condems this..
Should be more understanding of the cultural and historical differences...




:evilgrin:





GOBAMA!
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 01:06 PM
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16. I wonder how the Saudi government will punish those two women. n/t
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 03:03 PM
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24. Exactly. nt
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ohio2007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 04:06 PM
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28. dunno, the top judge got busted on drug possession..... a head chopping offense for "first timers"
Edited on Mon Aug-04-08 04:10 PM by ohio2007

Senior Saudi judge busted with hash - report


A SAUDI judge who served as head of an Islamic court has reportedly been arrested in the Gulf emirate of Dubai on charges of possessing and using drugs.

Hamad Salim bin Naif, who served as head of a sharia court in Saudi Arabia, was arrested along with his Moroccan
wife after police raided their room in a Dubai hotel on Friday and found four grams of hashish in his possession, the Khaleej Times reported.



snip

http://www.news.com.au/heraldsun/story/0,21985,24128523-663,00.html

and remember
some are more = then others ;)

ie;
time to divorce the wife for "framing" the holy man. She will gladly take the fall
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ckramer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 03:05 PM
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25. What are these poor women gonna do now without a husband?
Edited on Mon Aug-04-08 03:05 PM by ckramer
Let Americans marry their second, third wives.

Good for the family value.
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superconnected Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 04:03 PM
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27. Get jobs.
Move to a country where they can show their face.
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ohio2007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 03:59 PM
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26. what, they don't teach math in the madrassas ?
honest mistake I'm sure.

/sarc
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mbperrin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 04:25 PM
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30. Heck, he just needs to move to Utah and join the FLDS!
The more the merrier, they say!
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maxsolomon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-04-08 04:41 PM
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31. Notice that he's a member of the Religious Police
Violating a religious rule.

Hypocrisy is universal.
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JCMach1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 02:13 AM
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32. HARAM!
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tomg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 05:55 AM
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35. self delete.
Edited on Tue Aug-05-08 05:56 AM by tomg
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Thor_MN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 07:46 AM
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37. The "Defense of Marriage" people over on the place that shall not be named should be up in arms
After all the "one man and one woman" crap they spew, they should be outraged over this. Why is it that conservatives are so blind to hypocrisy?
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emad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 07:58 AM
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39. "Three women iwere Saudis and other three from Yemen"
Yemenis traditionally have been the Saudis' gofers/servants and the butt of Gulf humor about centuries of exploitation.




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superconnected Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 03:47 PM
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45. 2 over the limit.. like he just got caught for speeding.
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ThoughtCriminal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-05-08 05:26 PM
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46. I can't even fantasize about that many wives
maybe I'm not looking at the right porn?
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