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Thom Little (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:08 PM Original message |
Appeals court ruling favors grandparents (gives them visitation rights) |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
1. I totally agree |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:34 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Do you also support the courts... |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:37 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. I don't think it is alright for the Father to remove all reminders of |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Aside from not answering my questions, I find your insinuation... |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:48 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Funny |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:58 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. So we should not ask how far you'd expect the courts to go... |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 06:07 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Well if I lived my life for any support that I received on a message board |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:06 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. "Perhaps he did kill his wife? Do you know he didn't?"... |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:53 PM Response to Reply #17 |
32. Yawnnnnnn |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 02:54 PM Response to Reply #32 |
144. Lots of hard questions there..... |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:17 AM Response to Reply #10 |
51. Or perhaps the new wife was trying to bond with the kids |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 08:44 AM Response to Reply #51 |
57. Or it could be the exact opposite, which is something that |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:50 AM Response to Reply #57 |
66. I'll bear that in mind... |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:09 PM Response to Reply #66 |
105. Another stupid response and Strawman Agument. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:03 AM Response to Reply #10 |
71. How appalling to throw baseless innuendo. Maybe the dad has WMDs. |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 08:03 PM Response to Reply #9 |
36. I would go as far as it in the best interest of the children. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:56 AM Response to Reply #36 |
56. Troxel v Granville: SCOTUS 2000 |
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Straight Shooter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:37 AM Response to Reply #56 |
61. Excellent point. Very young children are easily emotionally bribed. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:45 AM Response to Reply #61 |
63. Which is why I oppose litigation... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:32 PM Response to Reply #63 |
98. Oh give me a break! |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:49 PM Response to Reply #98 |
101. You're not paying attention... |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:11 PM Response to Reply #101 |
106. So it's OK for YOU to bring up unrelated situations and arguments |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:49 PM Response to Reply #106 |
116. How is the SCOTUS case unrelated? |
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oldcoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 06:07 PM Response to Reply #98 |
120. If the grandparents have played in role in raising the child, |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:06 PM Response to Reply #9 |
104. I support him/her - you're being obtuse and ridiculuous. |
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pokercat999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:52 AM Response to Reply #5 |
55. and for all YOU know the grandparents killed their own |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 09:26 AM Response to Reply #5 |
58. Whoa--You just lost me |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:48 AM Response to Reply #58 |
64. I don't agree.... |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 06:53 PM Response to Reply #4 |
15. the court decided based its decision on what was in the CHILD's best |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 06:37 PM Response to Reply #1 |
13. I have one grandmother who has renounced both, unfortunately. |
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happyslug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
2. I have NOT read the Alabama Decision, but sounds like it Violates Troxel |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:08 PM Response to Reply #2 |
18. Just what I was thinking |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:12 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. That's reassuring...let's see what happens with SCOTUS nt |
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mbperrin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:13 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. My grandparents sued my aunt by marriage when their son died |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:23 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. That would have been prior to the SC's Troxel decision |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:25 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. so the appeals court is playing politics... |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:27 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Yes, it would seem so |
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happyslug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:53 AM Response to Reply #21 |
52. It may be on Lexis or Westlaw, both are pay to use sites |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:55 PM Response to Reply #2 |
33. Yeah, that was my very first thought. |
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HuffleClaw (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 11:08 PM Response to Reply #2 |
48. FINALLY |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
3. I'm not okay with this.... |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 05:38 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. How does one prove the grand-parents are creating a toxic |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 06:34 PM Response to Reply #6 |
12. In a custody/visitation situation, there are no perfect solutions. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:10 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. A parent shouldn't lose his rights because a spouse dies... |
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LonelyLRLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:35 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. I agree and have experience with a similar case. |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:40 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Who was his Lawyer? |
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LonelyLRLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 08:01 PM Response to Reply #30 |
126. He says she thought it was a "slam-dunk" in his favor, |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 11:02 PM Response to Reply #26 |
46. I think this kind of decision undermines parental authority... |
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LonelyLRLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 08:05 PM Response to Reply #46 |
128. The judge made the case with his own preconceptions |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 08:16 PM Response to Reply #128 |
131. I wonder how many who support grandparents and oppose parents think... |
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SkiGuy (451 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:19 PM Response to Reply #6 |
22. It's not good for the kids because |
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LonelyLRLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:36 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. Do we know that, or are you assuming facts? eom |
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SkiGuy (451 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:40 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. "despite the children's desire to visit" |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:47 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. A child's desires and a child's best interests are not one and the same |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:57 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. A child is not some sort of mindless thing that |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 10:27 PM Response to Reply #34 |
41. Given your lack of intimate knowledge |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 11:07 PM Response to Reply #41 |
47. You don't have a clue that it's not in their best interest either. |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:00 AM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Self Delete |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:17 PM Response to Reply #41 |
108. And you aren't using your own personal biases? |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 10:49 PM Response to Reply #34 |
44. No, a child is not a mindless thing... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 11:09 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. And there are parents who are abusive to their kids. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:24 AM Response to Reply #49 |
53. And you're a parent? nt |
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Don1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:03 AM Response to Reply #49 |
72. There is no presumption of stupidity |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:30 AM Response to Reply #72 |
76. Custody battles are constantly litigated by the courts. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:34 AM Response to Reply #76 |
80. And having a court undermine the parent's authority... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:07 AM Response to Reply #49 |
74. Like the Schindlers and Terri Schiavo, for example. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:27 AM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Terri Schiavo was their daughter, not their granddaughter. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #75 |
78. And in the Schiavo case you arrgued parents knew best, even |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:37 AM Response to Reply #78 |
81. Interesting... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:45 AM Response to Reply #78 |
82. Well, the courts agree with me-at least in one case out of two. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:52 AM Response to Reply #82 |
85. Nothing better for a child than a good 'ol custody battle... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:27 PM Response to Reply #85 |
95. Yea, the Solomon and the kid he wanted to cut in two. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:38 PM Response to Reply #95 |
100. And still be a responsible father? Nope? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 05:27 PM Response to Reply #100 |
117. You have no idea whether the grand parents want custody. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:31 PM Response to Reply #82 |
111. Some courts agree with you - but you seem to disagree with yourself. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 10:41 PM Response to Reply #31 |
43. Absolutely... |
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Boomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 06:13 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. That's exactly the kind of situation that came to my mind |
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HockeyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 06:44 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. My daughter's significant other's parents (religious fundies) |
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bammertheblue (391 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 08:40 PM Response to Reply #14 |
38. I agree |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 06:56 PM Response to Reply #3 |
16. in your case your sis leaves her will and thus says what she thinks is |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 10:56 PM Response to Reply #16 |
45. But grandparents can contest and litigate.... |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:16 PM Response to Reply #45 |
107. "BIOTC"?..self-delete, just got it nt |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
27. Depends on How Involved The Grandparents Are |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 08:00 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. They already got the ruling in their favor. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
37. There Just Aren't Enough Details in This Story to Second Guess Anything |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
39. Wrong, wrong wrong |
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Sandpiper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 10:32 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Right |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:34 AM Response to Reply #42 |
54. Given the 'justifications' for intervention I've seen... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:24 AM Response to Reply #54 |
60. Does it matter how old the kids are? |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:40 AM Response to Reply #60 |
62. If the parents decide to move to a new area... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:48 AM Response to Reply #62 |
65. And if all parents were great, we wouldn't have so |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:55 AM Response to Reply #65 |
67. And you've raised how many children? nt |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:58 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. None of your business. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:06 AM Response to Reply #68 |
73. Then I will assume you have no idea... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:31 AM Response to Reply #73 |
77. When you assume, you make an ass of you and me. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:33 AM Response to Reply #77 |
79. Please distinguish "taken into consideration" from "let them decide", and |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:46 AM Response to Reply #79 |
83. If they want something that is in their best interests, then |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:53 AM Response to Reply #83 |
86. Great! Parents can spend each day in court getting a judge to tell them... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:59 AM Response to Reply #86 |
88. Most normal people decide such things as grandparents visitations |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:09 PM Response to Reply #88 |
91. Yes, if not for weird grandparents litigating normal parents... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:26 PM Response to Reply #91 |
93. Most normal people allow their kids to visit their grandparents, |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:28 PM Response to Reply #93 |
96. So anyone who refuses is "abnormal"? All grandparents are perfect?... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:38 PM Response to Reply #93 |
114. And most normal grandparents are welcome in their lives - you might |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:32 PM Response to Reply #83 |
112. Harmful to them in whose opinion, precisely? |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:58 AM Response to Reply #79 |
87. I can imagine all the pro bono lawyers hanging out at the schoolyard... |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:48 AM Response to Reply #77 |
84. "their decision should be taken into consideration"... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:01 PM Response to Reply #84 |
90. Well, for whatever reason, the court decided that it should. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:27 PM Response to Reply #90 |
94. You're arguments supporting this decision have had nothing... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 05:33 PM Response to Reply #94 |
119. You have seen no evidence I have raised children? |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:36 PM Response to Reply #119 |
122. sigh, I didn't "demand" anything... |
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ninkasi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-17-05 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
40. I thank whatever gods may be |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
59. What an awful and painful situation! |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:01 AM Response to Reply #59 |
70. Thank you... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
69. Dead wrong. This should be the decision of the parent(s). n/t |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
89. I have some personal experience with this... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:19 PM Response to Reply #89 |
92. Even that might have not helped, because biological parents |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:32 PM Response to Reply #92 |
97. My aunts were heartbroken for years and to be honest I think that |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:36 PM Response to Reply #97 |
99. It is a sad, sad, sad story. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 12:57 PM Response to Reply #92 |
102. Troxel v. Granville: SCOTUS 2000 |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:32 PM Response to Reply #102 |
109. yes it was way before 2000 |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:38 PM Response to Reply #109 |
110. Thanks BH... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:41 PM Response to Reply #92 |
115. That's simply false, since the grandparents in this case were custodial. |
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TankLV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
103. Good! There's more than the children affected by stupid parents bad |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 02:33 PM Response to Reply #103 |
113. Really? You think someone other than parents should decide |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 05:31 PM Response to Reply #113 |
118. We no longer have two married biological parents |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:41 PM Response to Reply #118 |
123. Troxel v. Granville: SCOTUS 2000 |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:56 PM Response to Reply #123 |
125. You have now two courts in Alabama allowing |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 08:12 PM Response to Reply #125 |
130. The Alabama decisions were based on state law. SCOTUS trumps it nt |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 09:17 PM Response to Reply #118 |
132. Irrelevent to my question. Try again. |
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DaDeacon (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
121. This case is NOT about parent rights! |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 07:47 PM Response to Reply #121 |
124. "the father is being a monster in this story"... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 08:04 PM Response to Reply #124 |
127. And the kids wanting to see the grandparents, but father refusing- |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 08:11 PM Response to Reply #127 |
129. so take custody from the father nt |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:07 PM Response to Reply #127 |
133. Since we don't know the details of any of it, if a parent is competent to |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:12 PM Response to Reply #124 |
135. Exactly. If he's not competent to make this choice then he's not |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 07:28 AM Response to Reply #135 |
138. So, if two parents are divorced, and the custodial parent |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 09:18 AM Response to Reply #138 |
141. In such cases the parents both already have rights - custody is |
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oldcoot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:18 AM Response to Reply #138 |
142. The relationship between a parent and a child is different |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 04:16 PM Response to Reply #138 |
145. Straw man ... |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Dec-18-05 10:09 PM Response to Reply #121 |
134. A parent need not show any "just cause" other than his or her |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 07:29 AM Response to Reply #134 |
139. And so, if your ex-wife didn't want you to visit the kids (if you |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 09:17 AM Response to Reply #139 |
140. If I had an ex wife and kids iy wouldn't be up to her, it would be up to |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 04:18 PM Response to Reply #139 |
146. Straw man... |
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happyslug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
136. This may be the case, I copied it from Lexis. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 12:15 AM Response to Reply #136 |
137. It's definetly not the same case. |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 04:28 PM Response to Reply #137 |
148. Thanks for the clarification... |
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Robert Cooper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 04:26 PM Response to Reply #136 |
147. Interesting... |
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AzDar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Dec-19-05 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
143. Bottom line here...unless the children are somehow being abused or |
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