Irish Examiner ( Dublin), June 7, 2007, p. 10.
by Robert Jensen
Pornography is an industrial media product primarily sold to men in a male-dominant culture for use as a masturbation facilitator.
With that simple sentence, we can dispatch with a lot of the knee-jerk defenses of pornography.
First, today’s producers of sexually explicit material aren’t interested in creating a space for artists exploring the mysteries of sexuality. Pornographers make good money by churning out a rigidly formatted product that minimizes creativity and maximizes profit.
Second, despite all the talk about “couples-friendly” pornography and the rise in women’s p*** consumption, the overwhelming majority of consumers of heterosexual pornography are men. Not surprisingly in a male-dominant society, the material reflects a hyper-masculine sexual imagination rooted in a conventional conception of masculinity: sex as conquest and the acquisition of pleasure through the ta king of women.
Third, men don’t encounter this toxic definition of sex as a rational argument to be evaluated critically but through masturbation leading to orgasm -- a powerful method for delivering the woman-hating message of the genre, reinforced in virtually every other institution of the society.
Evidence from laboratory studies and in-depth interviews indicates that men’s habitual use of media material that sexually degrades women (1) heightens the risk of sexual violence for women and (2) leads to women’s dissatisfaction with male partners in many relationships.
The evidence makes it even clearer that this pornographic culture also is destructive for men.
This doesn’t mean the harms of pornography are borne equally by all; in male-dominant societies, women bear the brunt of the damage from the sexualizing of a domination/subordination dynamic, which is so central to pornography. Nor does it mean that all people experience pornography the same way.
But while human behavior is variable, there are patterns we can observe. From nearly 20 years of research on the issue, I have concluded that one of the most damaging aspects of pornography (along with much of pop culture) is not only that it objectifies women but that it also encourages men to objectify ourselves, to cut ourselves off from the rich, complex experience of sexuality and intimacy. Pornography provides men a quick and easy orgasm, producing physical pleasure with little or no emotional engagement. But to do that, what are we doing to ourselves?
In hundreds of formal interviews and informal discussions with men, I repeatedly hear them describe going emotionally numb when viewing pornography and masturbating, a state of being “checked out.” In my own use of pornography as a child and young man, I remember how completely I would shut down during the experience.
So, to enter into the pornographic world and experience that intense sexual rush, many men have to turn off some of the emotional reactions typically connected to a sexual experience with a real person -- a sense of the other’s humanity, an awareness of being present with another person, the recognition of something outside our own bodies, as well as a deeper connection to oneself. Many of those same men report that in intimate relationships with another person, this same emotionally shut-down response to sexual stimulation kicks in.
In short: Pornography helps train men not to feel during an experience that is most about feeling.
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