Reply #16: Cut her loose... She does not love you.. [View All]

[SoCalDem]

Sorry to be so blunt, but that's the honest truth.. Don't waste anymore of your time on her..or worrying about what you could have done..should have done..could still do..

Absence does NOT make the heart grow fonder.. If you are young, absence makes the heart forget !!

Someone who loves you will move heaven and earth to be with you.. You were a convenience to her, and when she was not with you, she found other people to fill her life..

If a relationship needs a "time-out" , it's OVER..


You are lucky to have found this out BEFORE you got married or it went on longer..

I know it hurts like hell, but just concentrate on things you enjoy doing, and don't be afraid to love again.. Not all women are that way, and there IS someone out there who will blow everything and everyone off to be with YOU.. :):)

Chin up sweetie.. You will survive this.. It does not seem like it now, but a few months down the road and you will be glad she's out of your life..

Some people are just plain toxic...and her "new" boyfriend will probably find this out too :)