Reply #12: I think I am, actually [View All]

[chookie]

I am not telling her what to do. I just gave her something to think about. What she does is her own business, and as far as I am concerned, the subject is closed, and I will never say another word on the subject. You're right -- it's not my business. Even I know that. :-)

Interestingly enough, *she* obsesses over another friend of hers, who is involved with a fat ignorant redneck rightwing creep. *She* took it upon herself to ask this other woman if she was doing okay, and if she needed help getting out of the somewhat abusive relationship. This woman took it as it was intended, and just said, yeah, you're right, but that's how things are and this is okay with me. Whatever. Then the matter was dropped.

It's not like there's brainwashing or evangelizing going on -- just a quick "check" and retreat.