Reply #33: Deal-breakers for me: [View All]

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

Friendship: Lying, right-wing fundiness, bigotry, being an emotionally needy drama queen, drinking too much.

Romantic Relationship: What is this "romantic relationship" of which you speak? OK, if I actually ever had such a thing again: same as above plus smoking, not liking animals (especially my cats), dissing my family, being passive-aggressive, cheating on me, being mean or abusive.

Job: Boring tasks/lack of mental challenge, obnoxious boss, low pay, lack of promotion opportunities, poor training, infighting/nasty office politics.

Place to live: Anywhere south of the Mason-Dixon line (too hot and humid), small towns where everybody knows your business, high-rise apartment buildings.