Reply #31: I think the charity idea is a good one. [View All]

[NC_Nurse]

You don't have to send them an announcement of it. Most charities will send out a card indicating that a gift was given in their name.
Heifer International is a good one and the kids might like the idea that you gave a goat or chicken to a needy family somewhere for them.

You can tell you SIL that the name of the organization reminded you of her. :evilgrin:

There are a lot of people out there who have forgotten the meaning of the word GIFT. It's not about entitlements or demands. These people need a reminder.

Also, NOBODY invites people to my house for me. When I want you - I'LL let you know. You need to have a little chat with your MIL and let her know this in no uncertain terms.