Reply #14: Ask your wife what she thinks. If she's cool with it, go ahead. If you [View All]

[radwriter0555]

want to do it in secret, your motives are not honorable no matter how many excuses you make up.

You're bored. Your marriage is routine. You're looking to re-create those great first-love feelings -- but you need to do it with the woman you're married to.

Try some counseling to rekindle that spark in your marriage. You've got the rest of your lives together based on what you've built already. Don't throw it aside looking for something new, when you've got the best invested already.

So, instead of asking your wife if you can contact your first love, ask your wife to go to couples counseling instead. That way you won't be going to counseling to work through a divorce next year.

Good luck.