Reply #132: And so you have stated the eternal war of misunderstanding [View All]

[Cleita]

between the sexes. Let me explain to you why women flirt. We send signals to the guys we might be interested in because we want to get to know them better. It narrows the field for us and eliminates the need to let down the guys we're not interested in. This doesn't mean we want to sleep with them right away if ever.

Guys who think that bagging chicks for a quickie deserve all the dates they are going to be having with their right hand. I used to be a bartender in a place that could've been called a single's bar. I noticed that the men who were the most successful with women were the one's who weren't pushy, who dated a few times without expecting sex.

The truth is too, that you might date a girl a few times and get dumped before the big "bagging" ceremony. We used to call it notches on the bed post. This is because the initial impression you made on us wasn't what you turned out to be. So dumping you before sex makes sense to us. Why continue a relationship any further?

My two cents.