Reply #11: I would wonder what else she's not telling you.... [View All]

[tjdee]

Which may be unfair, because that's assuming you should know every little thing about her. Which may not be realistic.

But I despise lying/lies of omission for the reason you said, it's like, that person decides what you need to know. I don't like that.

On the other hand, she was probably not sure how to bring it up--"Honey, do you want to order takeout? Plus, I'm legally still married to my exboyfriend. Do you want pepperoni?" and since the relationship is over, it's over...so why bring up the technicality?

In my very humble/don't know either of you opinion, it sounds like something that needed to be an argument, and hopefully you guys have resolved this and can move on.