Reply #27: At times that is the best thing to do - distancing yourself. [View All]

[tango-tee]

Depending on the family, closeness can be suffocating, it can be like a ball and chain on your ankle. And at the same time, while being close geographically, you can be lightyears apart from each other at heart.

And when you feel that you're the one carrying the responsibilities other family members aren't willing to share, the burden becomes only so much heavier. It's a good thing your aunt is there, so you can get some respite.

Sending you my very best wishes - the time has come for you to be good to yourself, dear texanwitch.