Reply #34: Oh and such a dear he is [View All]

[proud2BlibKansan]

I am thinking he'll show up just to rub some dirt in. LOL

Is there a social worker in your school? A counselor? Are you friends with the secretary? If he just enrolled, the dad had to fill out some kind of paperwork with address and phone, etc. SOMEONE in that school knows how to get ahold of this kid's parent. Does he ride the bus? Where does he get on? Ask the bus driver.

What would happen if the kid got sick or hurt at school? Trust me, there is a way to contact this parent. It may take a little extra effort, but it will pay off. This kid will shit a brick if you come knocking at his door tomorrow evening and ask to talk to his dad. I have done it a brazillion times. Even if Dad is not at home, you will be sending a powerful message.

Funny story - a coworker had a problem child like this and he decided to knock on the kid's door one evening. Dad invited him in, listened to the teacher, didn't say a word or ask any questions and when the teacher was done telling Dad what had been going on in school, Dad politely excused himself and left the room. Next thing the teacher hears is wailing from the next room where the dad was 'discussing' the kid's behavior with him. Dad then comes back in the living room, sits down and says, "Thank you for taking the time to come by and talk to me. I can tell you really care about my son. He will not be a problem anymore. Now, would you like a cup of coffee?"

Trust me, find that dad.