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[barbtries]

3. this is one of the saddest things about this virus.

to think of a loved one or ourselves having to die all alone. to have to grieve them all alone.

i wrote my will, which i should have a long time ago. I've been talking about my last wishes should I die, or should I heaven forbid be sick enough to need a ventilator when there's someone else younger than me, whose children aren't grown, who needs the same machine. Last night my son and I discussed having a funeral for me on facebook live.

Therefore, send not to know
For whom the bell tolls,
It tolls for thee.