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Bernardo de La Paz

(48,955 posts)
6. Remember to breathe & that all things pass. Do what you can, don't worry about the rest.
Tue Apr 7, 2020, 05:48 PM
Apr 2020

Get rid of hate and replace it with cold loathing, which is just as determined but is a calm emotion. Hate amplifies stress and attacks rationality.

Sometimes distractions help, like entertainment or games or cooking, etc. But they can't be a crutch for too long. If other stress reduction techniques are being used, then those activities and work and housework will be more effectively done and more effective at reducing stress.

Integrate stress reduction into everything you do for maximum synergistic effect.

There is some utility to worrying as an incentive to tuning in and thinking. Of course, it is important to stay in touch and read and watch and listen to news. It is something you can do. It is hard not to worry while listening to the news.

It is possible to listen to the news calmly and taking it all in. Do some research until you understand it well to some level, however shallow or deep, as suits you. Then sort out what you can do and do it. Let the rest go. Really. It works.

For example: Do you have a relative suffering that you can't reach or help directly? (from disease or economic stress or worry) Call them, help as you are able with money or even just with empathetic words and information. Help them understand. Don't worry that you can't be there, because you can't. Accept the fact and feel peace that you have done something, done what you can.

Don't fret about what you can't do or control.

It takes practice but you get good at it by doing.

Do it by changing what you can, accepting what you can't change, and thinking about the difference (thinking some, but not too much).

It could have been a heart attack due to anxiety. Decades ago I worked in the ER at.... George II Apr 2020 #1
sad. we need stress techniques in times like these Demovictory9 Apr 2020 #3
Remember to breathe & that all things pass. Do what you can, don't worry about the rest. Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2020 #6
Excellent! How do I bookmark your post for future reference? warmfeet Apr 2020 #16
Use the Permalink to click (beside Link here in lower left of post) giving you this: Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2020 #18
Valium works with me. LiberalArkie Apr 2020 #8
I found that Valium makes me MEAN. canuckledragger Apr 2020 #12
It really helps me with my back muscle pain and anti anxiety. LiberalArkie Apr 2020 #14
that stuff made turned into a raving bitch yellowdogintexas Apr 2020 #23
Takosubo TNNurse Apr 2020 #13
A couple of hours after he was admitted the unit sent his chart and personal belongings.... George II Apr 2020 #15
My 41 yr old son died of a massive heart attack after "severe indigestion". SharonAnn Apr 2020 #19
I'm sorry for your loss. n/t area51 Apr 2020 #25
I am so sorry. emmaverybo Apr 2020 #26
Thank you for that story. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2020 #27
If so, would cause of death be classified as COVID-19 or heart attack? ecstatic Apr 2020 #30
read somewhere that the virus... dhill926 Apr 2020 #2
Yes it can indeed. Probably what did that 17 year old. LiberalArkie Apr 2020 #9
hey trump, is that close enough to 5th ave? - n/t Locrian Apr 2020 #4
Very sad! Thekaspervote Apr 2020 #5
Wasn't CvD-19 probably. paleotn Apr 2020 #7
Heart Damage in COVID-19 Patients Puzzles Doctors IronLionZion Apr 2020 #10
Probably myocarditis with fatal arrhythmia elias7 Apr 2020 #11
This seemed to have happened quite a bit in Wuhan at its peak. hedda_foil Apr 2020 #17
Sad. RIP. DarthDem Apr 2020 #20
Still remember video of Wuhan sometime in December or January with people dhol82 Apr 2020 #21
Shades of the 1918 flu Lord Ludd Apr 2020 #22
The 1918 flu would literally turn lips and extremities blue and skin black. roamer65 Apr 2020 #28
My Mom had relatives taken out by the 1918 flu. Progressive Jones Apr 2020 #29
New York Times, Feb. 1, 2020: dalton99a Apr 2020 #24
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