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hunter

(38,304 posts)
20. "Dead Baby Day"
Mon Oct 20, 2014, 02:48 PM
Oct 2014

Don't need to explain that.

A health care provider asking for a hug and a drink and a laugh when they get off work on a dead baby day isn't asking too much.

And yes, some sorts of health care professionals are simply assholes (the cold surgeon stereotype...) but maybe if they weren't thick-skinned assholes they wouldn't be able to do their jobs. I'd want a heart surgeon who is a good mechanic. His bedside manner wouldn't matter so much if it didn't interfere with his work.

On the other hand, I once had personal work experiences with a heart transplant surgeon who was such a humongous asshole it did interfere with his work because nobody wanted to work with him. He eventually got fired for his abusive behavior toward other hospital staff, especially women. My supervisor had us all documenting his bad behavior.

I used to work closely with transplant techs. OMG, in a relaxed break room setting they were a clique of Addams Family Gothic. Some of them even dressed the part in subtle ways. I think I understand... removing usable body parts from brain dead people who are still warm... I cannot imagine doing that. But that's what they do to save the lives of others who still have a chance of survival. Underneath the thick black body armor the transplant techs were among the kindest, most gentle, altruistic people I've ever met.

I'm not in the medical professions any more, maybe I'm too sensitive for that, but I have immediate family who still are. I prefer computers. If something goes horribly wrong you can halt the system and revert to previous images for as long as fixing the problem takes. Human beings, so far as we know, don't have backup copies.

isnt cracked another mad magazine belzabubba333 Oct 2014 #1
It is a UglyGreed Oct 2014 #28
I've been in healthcare eyeofnewt Oct 2014 #2
4F is used; I've seen it in medical journals REP Oct 2014 #10
I think I read it as far back as Mark Twain... Hekate Oct 2014 #39
People in stressful, high demand jobs talk like this sometimes. It relieves stress. So be it. Shrike47 Oct 2014 #3
I wrote that in the UglyGreed Oct 2014 #27
While being UglyGreed Oct 2014 #35
B.S. Patient records are medical and (potentially) legal documents... demmiblue Oct 2014 #4
I did not write UglyGreed Oct 2014 #30
"Somewhere" is not a good source. It's work-related humor, which never totally translates to outside Hekate Oct 2014 #40
I'm supposed to be outraged by this? Sorry, not even a little bit. cali Oct 2014 #5
People in healthcare who phil89 Oct 2014 #7
I don't know. Ykcutnek Oct 2014 #9
Makes sense to me. 'Aloof' means 'thinking with your eyes closed'. randome Oct 2014 #11
I love when people with no experience of a situation makes demands regarding it joeglow3 Oct 2014 #13
"Dead Baby Day" hunter Oct 2014 #20
People in healthcare who invest far too much emotion into a patient are even more concerning to me. LanternWaste Oct 2014 #15
I don't think using such terminology is necessarily dehumanizing patients cali Oct 2014 #18
Different strokes N/T UglyGreed Oct 2014 #25
"Ever wonder what those abbreviations written on your charts while you are in the hospital mean?" Brickbat Oct 2014 #6
That was written UglyGreed Oct 2014 #21
This is slightly off topic, but sort of related. I worked as a medical transcriptionist for locdlib Oct 2014 #8
Those are slang used in the ER, not on charts REP Oct 2014 #12
Check my reply UglyGreed Oct 2014 #22
My fav - SOB - short of breath. 840high Oct 2014 #14
It's not just healthcare - PITA, F/U and KISS are old and common. n/t seaglass Oct 2014 #16
40 yrs in health care and I have not seen those, this is a joke list, not real. uppityperson Oct 2014 #17
I included links UglyGreed Oct 2014 #24
i used to work for a guy whose younger brother was in med school. hifiguy Oct 2014 #19
Maybe not UglyGreed Oct 2014 #23
Not impressed. You should see police and mortician-speak. nolabear Oct 2014 #26
And I'm not UglyGreed Oct 2014 #32
It doesn't mean you're not being taken care of nolabear Oct 2014 #36
I rarely see anything like these documented gwheezie Oct 2014 #29
What about notes UglyGreed Oct 2014 #31
I Don't doubt you gwheezie Oct 2014 #37
FLK = funny looking kid. ileus Oct 2014 #33
yeah UglyGreed Oct 2014 #34
Here's one for them: SAMMY bigwillq Oct 2014 #38
Those of us in health care run into so many odd situations that require... 3catwoman3 Oct 2014 #41
I work at a psychiatric hospital mokawanis Oct 2014 #42
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