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calimary

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116. Hey nolabear, MANY MANY virtual hugs.
Sun Sep 13, 2020, 11:59 PM
Sep 2020

As of Monday, September 14th, husband and I have been self-sequestered for 190 days. We are VERY housebound.

I've gotten more deeply into gardening, so that helps. And a lot of online and Zoom stuff with my local Indivisible group.

I want to go work on the hillside tomorrow but husband doesn't approve, what with all the smoke here, too (Oregon).

Just trying to keep busy. Lots of writing, and, gotta say, nolabear, THIS PLACE RIGHT HERE, especially, is keeping me sane.

Have you considered a Zoom meeting with your writer friends? That's the only way I go to meetings anymore. The fires preempted our Call to Action email work this weekend as people need to focus on packing and being on standby to evacuate. Otherwise that's how we meet to plot out the next week's "asks". And it means you need not feel so isolated. Writing might really help. You could keep a log. You could go nerd and start keeping track of various kinds of minutae. Or, maybe there's an Indivisible group near you that you can join. If so I know they could use your help! I swear, if it weren't for our various Indivisible activities that are still going on, I wouldn't be able to keep track of days of the week. And it can really help make you feel productive.

MORE virtual hugs!


Sorry for your troubles!! Thekaspervote Sep 2020 #1
Oh Nola so sorry...I feel very down also...we are unemployed. I have Demsrule86 Sep 2020 #2
I'm sorry you're struggling too. Yes, one step at a time! nolabear Sep 2020 #18
My daughter's fiancee is a computer guy...they are doing well. She is an accountant. Demsrule86 Sep 2020 #51
Good! Our sons unfortunately are in human contact fields. nolabear Sep 2020 #64
Best wishes for your family...my son works for autos and is in a plant everyday...his Demsrule86 Sep 2020 #131
They will both always have jobs. Accountants are in short supply in most places. PatrickforO Sep 2020 #105
It is a tough major. Demsrule86 Sep 2020 #130
Just a couple more days with the smoke but i hear you, after isolation from covid all this time, LizBeth Sep 2020 #3
❤️❤️❤️ I know I'm no lone soldier here. I am SO pissed at 45 and ilk. nolabear Sep 2020 #19
Right. With you on both counts. What really pisses me off is pretending Portland was being burned to LizBeth Sep 2020 #39
I am so sorry for what you are going through. FM123 Sep 2020 #4
With you in spirit. ZZenith Sep 2020 #5
No, it's a LOT of help. The biggest tragedy is we're so divided. nolabear Sep 2020 #22
"That monster has made it permissible to believe hate, not love, is strength." renate Sep 2020 #30
We are going to outlive that ideology, you and I. ZZenith Sep 2020 #35
Together. ❤️ nolabear Sep 2020 #37
I love you nolabear! cilla4progress Sep 2020 #6
Absolutely! I grew up in NO and area but am in Edmonds. nolabear Sep 2020 #24
I hear you cilla4progress Sep 2020 #28
I live just across the ferry from you, wishing you well nolabear RainCaster Sep 2020 #46
I feel for you,NolaBear. True Blue American Sep 2020 #76
Seriously, this year has been fucking bullshit. Initech Sep 2020 #7
Rachel says it's really bad. triron Sep 2020 #96
I just want to know that there's going to be light at the end of the tunnel. Initech Sep 2020 #100
I've heard people say 2020 is the lost year. Certainly looking that way. captain queeg Sep 2020 #8
God knows! We'd better pull this off. nolabear Sep 2020 #25
Oh, honey. peacefreak2.0 Sep 2020 #9
(((((((nolabear))))))))) I am so sorry for all that you are going through. I am glad that you know niyad Sep 2020 #10
LOL! We'll form a gang. The Old, the Naked and the Pissed Off! nolabear Sep 2020 #26
One of our very talented graphics designers or artists here on DU could make a very clever niyad Sep 2020 #48
Ohhhh yeah! The Wrinkled Rage! 🤣 nolabear Sep 2020 #81
I am sooooooo glad that I had put down my coffee! niyad Sep 2020 #84
Abso-fucking-lutely. nolabear Sep 2020 #86
Done! niyad Sep 2020 #89
Do not forget the True Blue American Sep 2020 #77
It's like you know me. 🤣 nolabear Sep 2020 #82
Soul mates True Blue American Sep 2020 #123
Oh my goodness, Akacia Sep 2020 #124
Now you know! True Blue American Sep 2020 #126
god damn...that's a rough road... stillcool Sep 2020 #11
just damn the COVID all to hell! handmade34 Sep 2020 #12
See posts 21 and 26. Glad you will be joining us! niyad Sep 2020 #45
... spanone Sep 2020 #13
Life just sucks right now for so many of us. Ohiogal Sep 2020 #14
I'm so sorry. With your love and talent with the Boomerproud Sep 2020 #15
Oh I am so sorry you're alone! Mr Bear is such a good co-captive. nolabear Sep 2020 #29
Do whatever you need to do for your health and sanity. But know that you are not alone. DU is niyad Sep 2020 #38
Feel free snowybirdie Sep 2020 #16
I'm in the PNW too ribrepin Sep 2020 #17
It's some shit, innit? 🤬 nolabear Sep 2020 #31
I am so sorry for all that is on your plate. madaboutharry Sep 2020 #20
❤️❤️ nolabear Sep 2020 #32
I think we are onto something with this idea of cilla4progress Sep 2020 #21
HELLS YES! nolabear Sep 2020 #33
Absolutely! Nola suggests The Old, The Naked and Pissed Off Gang. Or maybe Coven of Caustic Crones. niyad Sep 2020 #44
Love it! cilla4progress Sep 2020 #91
Nola suggested Wrinkled Rage, which I love (see the call for artists). AKAs would work well. niyad Sep 2020 #92
Trust me, you do not want to see me naked! Initech Sep 2020 #68
I live in Florida and I feel we are all on our own to fight this virus. katmondoo Sep 2020 #23
Everything you said is correct I live in Florida too. Oppaloopa Sep 2020 #34
That must be dreadful. Honestly I love FL in many ways nolabear Sep 2020 #36
Michael Bloomberg True Blue American Sep 2020 #80
Helps to get it out. Solly Mack Sep 2020 #27
So sorry you are going through all this and having the air quality from the fire. cayugafalls Sep 2020 #40
I'm glad you have Du for support deek Sep 2020 #41
Holy moly MLAA Sep 2020 #42
Hang in there! It's been tough for a lot of us. Together we will get through it! CaptainTruth Sep 2020 #43
Get it out! ancianita Sep 2020 #47
I'm so very mzmolly Sep 2020 #49
We are in this with you Leith Sep 2020 #50
What an excellent idea, Leith Hekate Sep 2020 #99
Here's a hug just for you democrank Sep 2020 #52
Oh nolabear. I get it. MontanaMama Sep 2020 #53
Good vibes sent your way, nolabear! Heartstrings Sep 2020 #54
Nolabear I am so sorry thinkingagain Sep 2020 #55
So sorry, nolabear. gademocrat7 Sep 2020 #56
nolabear Coyote45 Sep 2020 #57
This is too sad malaise Sep 2020 #58
WOW, nolabear - Life is just dumping on you. Totally Tunsie Sep 2020 #59
If it helps nolabear, know that you are not alone. sarge43 Sep 2020 #60
I am so sorry, nolabear. CottonBear Sep 2020 #61
I'm so sorry to hear what you've been going through. pnwmom Sep 2020 #62
My God, I feel ya, Nolly Doll! Trueblue Texan Sep 2020 #63
Y'all have no idea how wonderful this is. People who need people nolabear Sep 2020 #65
The MFA work might be too difficult to do right now, or it might not and could be helpful. CTyankee Sep 2020 #66
I hear you. Joinfortmill Sep 2020 #67
Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Sep 2020 #69
i spent 5 yrs as a hospice volunteer. 4 on the in patient unit, w my bulldogge. ihas2stinkyfeet Sep 2020 #70
Well, at least you still have your sense of humor. llmart Sep 2020 #71
Bingo! hamsterjill Sep 2020 #110
I only retired two years ago... llmart Sep 2020 #133
I agree. We've worked so long and so hard for this? nolabear Sep 2020 #121
F*ck Covid SallyHemmings Sep 2020 #72
Here's a tip regarding the air quality in your house. Mr.Bill Sep 2020 #73
Walk through the door and when you see the condor, kick him here it counts. NSFW TheBlackAdder Sep 2020 #74
What the actual fuck WAS that??? nolabear Sep 2020 #83
That was GREAT!!! mnhtnbb Sep 2020 #87
A Million Ways to Die in the West. nt Ilsa Sep 2020 #88
Thanks. I am definitely looking it up. nolabear Sep 2020 #90
Whoa! lillypaddle Sep 2020 #75
They damn well better. I remind myself daily we're lucky. nolabear Sep 2020 #85
Fuck covid. Laha Sep 2020 #78
I'm sorry, nolabear LuckyCharms Sep 2020 #79
Dont feel alone MFM008 Sep 2020 #93
Hey I think I saw you on Twitter! nolabear Sep 2020 #94
you probably did MFM008 Sep 2020 #114
Doing the Lord's work. 🤣 nolabear Sep 2020 #118
public service announcement: you can turn any box fan into a hepa filter for better air. Grasswire2 Sep 2020 #95
Good call! nolabear Sep 2020 #97
I'm 72 and feeling pretty much as you. Agreeing totally. demigoddess Sep 2020 #98
Tell me about your writing. I am so glad to hear you started your MFA in writing... Hekate Sep 2020 #101
Sorry to hear of all the difficulties you face. Life can be hard even in the best of times, but Dark n Stormy Knight Sep 2020 #102
I hear you mercuryblues Sep 2020 #103
Not much to add except I feel ya! I'm in a foul mood myself... Phentex Sep 2020 #104
I am so sorry UpInArms Sep 2020 #106
those are vivid accounts of your inner circle. peacebuzzard Sep 2020 #107
I'm so sorry, Nolabear. Niagara Sep 2020 #108
Sorry to hear this, Please Hang in There. Stuart G Sep 2020 #109
We'll make it. We're tough. But none of us deserves this. nolabear Sep 2020 #112
Someone sent me a meme today. hamsterjill Sep 2020 #111
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ nolabear Sep 2020 #113
I hear you and I'm sorry for what you are going through. My whole life changed too because Maraya1969 Sep 2020 #115
Hey nolabear, MANY MANY virtual hugs. calimary Sep 2020 #116
I'm actually teaching writing via Zoom next month. nolabear Sep 2020 #120
And it can help take your mind off your troubles. calimary Sep 2020 #128
Sending you and yours love from Texas. We will successfully survive Trump and Covid ... marble falls Sep 2020 #117
I know it's not much to help but Withywindle Sep 2020 #119
Still recent to DU, but begun to recognize names... electric_blue68 Sep 2020 #122
Omg, you sure are the in the thick of it 😩 secondwind Sep 2020 #125
Great Ted Talk! BlancheSplanchnik Sep 2020 #127
Can't even imagine it. Some people are just given OregonBlue Sep 2020 #129
Its just that kind of year. rwsanders Sep 2020 #132
You guys have been through it. I'm so sorry. nolabear Sep 2020 #134
Thanks. rwsanders Sep 2020 #135
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