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ismnotwasm

(41,960 posts)
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:19 AM Apr 2013

Open Letter to Rape Apologists

(Trigger Warning)



Dear Rape Apologists,
A girl in Delhi’s Gandhi Nagar was abducted and repeatedly sexually molested for a period of 48 hours by her neighbour. The neighbour had cut open her throat and mutilated her genitals. He also tried to strangle her. She is currently battling for her life at Swami Dayanad Hosiptal. Along with wounds on her lips, cheeks, chest, the doctors also found a candle and a bottle of oil inside her. Nobody knows if she will live.
She is five years old.
The nation is in shock, again. We are looking for solutions, again. But I see some of you have already started with your rants of “legalize prostitution to prevent rape”. You seem to hold the view that if men have more sex, they will commit less rape.
I don’t see how legalizing prostitution is going to help reduce cases of sexual assault because rape is NOT about sex. It is about power and dominance over another (smaller, weaker) human being.
Legalising prostitution to prevent rape is like saying that it is a women’s ‘duty’ to provide men with sex or men will try to get it by hook or by crook. In other news, we are currently in the year 2013.
Please change your calender.
The most common apology for sexual assault is that women provoke it. Pray tell how this little girl, provoked it. Oh, I’m sorry, was she wearing a frock that was a really small size? Well, maybe it is because she’s FIVE YEARS OLD! And no, I won’t ask what kind of a mentally sick person sexually abuses a five year old because I refuse to make excuses for him. He is not sick. He is sound of mind.
Abduction and rape do not occur in the heat of the moment. They are planned attacks; and this man obviously had the mental capabilities to turn his plan into action successfully.



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Open Letter to Rape Apologists (Original Post) ismnotwasm Apr 2013 OP
I think rape can also be a hate crime LiberalEsto Apr 2013 #1
I Absolutely agree ismnotwasm Apr 2013 #2
Disgusting act justhanginon Apr 2013 #3
This is just sickening and so tragic. smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #4
after brutalizing a female 5 or 30, hearing legalize prostitution, i get a flash of... what? seabeyond Apr 2013 #5
 

LiberalEsto

(22,845 posts)
1. I think rape can also be a hate crime
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:23 AM
Apr 2013

where the perpetrators act at least in part from a deep hatred of females.

justhanginon

(3,289 posts)
3. Disgusting act
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 12:03 PM
Apr 2013

Whatever names we call it, it is just a disgusting act in a civilized society and perpetrators should be punished for something that affects their victims for the rest of their lives. Punished in proportion to that simple fact.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
5. after brutalizing a female 5 or 30, hearing legalize prostitution, i get a flash of... what?
Sun Apr 21, 2013, 11:53 AM
Apr 2013

have a group of women to legally brutalize. so the other women and girls are left alone?

it is really offensive to me.

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