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Related: About this forumOpen Letter to Rape Apologists
(Trigger Warning)
Dear Rape Apologists,
A girl in Delhis Gandhi Nagar was abducted and repeatedly sexually molested for a period of 48 hours by her neighbour. The neighbour had cut open her throat and mutilated her genitals. He also tried to strangle her. She is currently battling for her life at Swami Dayanad Hosiptal. Along with wounds on her lips, cheeks, chest, the doctors also found a candle and a bottle of oil inside her. Nobody knows if she will live.
She is five years old.
The nation is in shock, again. We are looking for solutions, again. But I see some of you have already started with your rants of legalize prostitution to prevent rape. You seem to hold the view that if men have more sex, they will commit less rape.
I dont see how legalizing prostitution is going to help reduce cases of sexual assault because rape is NOT about sex. It is about power and dominance over another (smaller, weaker) human being.
Legalising prostitution to prevent rape is like saying that it is a womens duty to provide men with sex or men will try to get it by hook or by crook. In other news, we are currently in the year 2013.
Please change your calender.
The most common apology for sexual assault is that women provoke it. Pray tell how this little girl, provoked it. Oh, Im sorry, was she wearing a frock that was a really small size? Well, maybe it is because shes FIVE YEARS OLD! And no, I wont ask what kind of a mentally sick person sexually abuses a five year old because I refuse to make excuses for him. He is not sick. He is sound of mind.
Abduction and rape do not occur in the heat of the moment. They are planned attacks; and this man obviously had the mental capabilities to turn his plan into action successfully.
A girl in Delhis Gandhi Nagar was abducted and repeatedly sexually molested for a period of 48 hours by her neighbour. The neighbour had cut open her throat and mutilated her genitals. He also tried to strangle her. She is currently battling for her life at Swami Dayanad Hosiptal. Along with wounds on her lips, cheeks, chest, the doctors also found a candle and a bottle of oil inside her. Nobody knows if she will live.
She is five years old.
The nation is in shock, again. We are looking for solutions, again. But I see some of you have already started with your rants of legalize prostitution to prevent rape. You seem to hold the view that if men have more sex, they will commit less rape.
I dont see how legalizing prostitution is going to help reduce cases of sexual assault because rape is NOT about sex. It is about power and dominance over another (smaller, weaker) human being.
Legalising prostitution to prevent rape is like saying that it is a womens duty to provide men with sex or men will try to get it by hook or by crook. In other news, we are currently in the year 2013.
Please change your calender.
The most common apology for sexual assault is that women provoke it. Pray tell how this little girl, provoked it. Oh, Im sorry, was she wearing a frock that was a really small size? Well, maybe it is because shes FIVE YEARS OLD! And no, I wont ask what kind of a mentally sick person sexually abuses a five year old because I refuse to make excuses for him. He is not sick. He is sound of mind.
Abduction and rape do not occur in the heat of the moment. They are planned attacks; and this man obviously had the mental capabilities to turn his plan into action successfully.
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Open Letter to Rape Apologists (Original Post)
ismnotwasm
Apr 2013
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LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)1. I think rape can also be a hate crime
where the perpetrators act at least in part from a deep hatred of females.
ismnotwasm
(41,960 posts)2. I Absolutely agree
It can be a war crime, terrorism, a hate crime-- all of those things.
justhanginon
(3,289 posts)3. Disgusting act
Whatever names we call it, it is just a disgusting act in a civilized society and perpetrators should be punished for something that affects their victims for the rest of their lives. Punished in proportion to that simple fact.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)4. This is just sickening and so tragic.
I am beyond horrified. I have no words.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)5. after brutalizing a female 5 or 30, hearing legalize prostitution, i get a flash of... what?
have a group of women to legally brutalize. so the other women and girls are left alone?
it is really offensive to me.