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seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
Mon Apr 8, 2013, 08:28 AM Apr 2013

Women, Speak Up! I Can’t Hear You

Why do most women — certainly educated Western women with unimpeded access to telephones, the Internet and media outlets — still remain so invisible and inaudible?

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Until or unless women claim the same intellectual space, jostling elbow to sharpened elbow with all the men who feel utterly confident speaking their minds, we will remain unheard, our deepest concerns unheeded

We were treated to the news last week, via the New York Times, that Wikipedia, increasingly the go-to reference for historical and contemporary general knowledge, has a dark secret. It is chiefly written by 25-year-old males.

Help us and save us.

It’s true. A study has shown that only 13 per cent of the hundreds of thousands of contributors to the “collaborative” online encyclopedia are female. Of the 87 per cent who remain, and are male, the average age is mid-twenties. Sue Gardner, executive director of the Wikimedia Foundation (a woman, oddly enough), says this came about because of Wikipedia’s nature. It is skewed toward aggressive hackertypes who are obsessed with facts and reflect the male-dominated computer culture. They are, furthermore, imbued with a sense that it is really important for everyone to know about Niko Bellic, a character who is a former soldier in the video game Grand Theft Auto IV. He gets an article five times as long as does Pat Barker, a (female) British novelist in her late 60s. That is, he did until Gardner herself added background to Pat Barker’s entry.

So this is how it works. Women have to step up and become Wikipedia contributors.


Women, still, are so often socialized from earliest childhood to be “nice”. How many of us, still, are raised with the appalling and powerful imprecation: “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything.” I like Alice Roosevelt Longworth’s version: “If you can’t say anything nice, come sit by me!” Women are so often told to be quiet, be nice, calm down, sit back. We need to be shouting!

Whether in print, television, radio, in blogs, letters to the editor, anywhere that makes clear we have strong opinions and they deserve serious attention. And yet, and yet, depending what sort of culture and community you live in, there are often strong imperatives, religious or political or economic or familial, that stay our hands and still our tongues.

Enough already.

http://broadsideblog.wordpress.com/2011/02/24/women-speak-up-i-cant-hear-you/
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Women, Speak Up! I Can’t Hear You (Original Post) seabeyond Apr 2013 OP
Excellent post seabeyond! In_The_Wind Apr 2013 #1
K & R whathehell Apr 2013 #2
i LUV it. thank you for sharing that quote. geeez, seabeyond Apr 2013 #3
Good!...I though you might...I TOLD that story to a friend and I couldn't believe her reaction whathehell Apr 2013 #4
HUGE K&R! redqueen Apr 2013 #5
Love this ismnotwasm Apr 2013 #6

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
2. K & R
Mon Apr 8, 2013, 08:39 AM
Apr 2013

You are so right on the "nice" bit and I LOVE that Alice Roosevelt saying.

She was quite the character. When her father was president, she was known for

scandalizing Washington by smoking (!) and joy riding around town in Model T's or whatever was on wheels,

then. When one of Teddy Roosevelt's aides suggested to him that he try

and get Alice under control, he's said to have replied:

"I can do one of two things -- I can be President of the United States or I

can control Alice -- I can't do both".

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
3. i LUV it. thank you for sharing that quote. geeez,
Mon Apr 8, 2013, 09:14 AM
Apr 2013

that feels like my life. in todays time. even being so old. i see this so much.

now, i gotta wonder, is it all about societal conditioning and men too feel this in their own conditioned way and i have simply shed it because i am old and say, fuck it. and that is what it is. societal pressure to push me back in that role.

interesting. thanks.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
4. Good!...I though you might...I TOLD that story to a friend and I couldn't believe her reaction
Mon Apr 8, 2013, 10:00 AM
Apr 2013

She answered "I don't get it".

It was then that I understood that she had NO sense of irony.

Please don't say you're "old", though...Hell, I'm about ten years older than you,

so it makes me feel ancient, LOL/

I know what you mean though..I've been fighting to be myself -- direct, opinionated,

etc. all my life, and have the scars to prove it, but I see no major changes for me either.

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