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ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
Mon Jan 16, 2012, 05:17 PM Jan 2012

The Mill River Recluse

Has anyone else read it and what did you think of it?

I don't want to take anything away from those who enjoyed it but I found the book disturbing. A teenage girl is raped and develops extreme anxiety disorder and eventually agoraphobia. A priest, at the request of her grandfather-in-law, befriends the woman and carries out errands for her. Nowhere in the book does anyone try to get the woman help for her agoraphobia but instead enable her to be reclusive by even delivering groceries and leaving them on her doorstep so she doesn't have to interact with them. This is all shown as an act of kindness.

Agoraphobia and anxiety disorder can be treated quite successfully and I just felt the book sent a bad message. Mary (the agoraphobic woman) feels she is part of the community because the priest tells her about the members of the community and Mary has him buy presents and give money to people in need. It seems rather delusional to think you are a real part of a community you never personally interest with.

But what if Mary had been poor? Would she still have been enabled so readily? Would she still have been a heroine in the eyes of the reader were it not for the money she could give to the community?

Maybe my perception is skewed because of the people I know who fought so hard to overcome anxiety disorder, depression and even agoraphobia. I find it hard to think of The Mill River Recluse as a "feel good" story as so many people have described it.



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The Mill River Recluse (Original Post) ohheckyeah Jan 2012 OP
I have read The Mill River Recluse Laurian Jan 2012 #1
At one point in the story ohheckyeah Jan 2012 #2
Good Morning Laurian Jan 2012 #3
Welcome fadedrose Jan 2012 #4
I've read Sharyn McCrumb ohheckyeah Jan 2012 #5
You might find this article about the author interesting mainer Jan 2012 #6
i have it. i havent read it yet. is it worth the read? i have so many books to read seabeyond Jan 2012 #7
You're welcome. ohheckyeah Jan 2012 #8
ahhh. lol, i am like that. a couple chapters in i will tell hubby, seabeyond Jan 2012 #9
Most often I'm that way. ohheckyeah Jan 2012 #10
ha ha. kindle, i have gotten some bad ones. nt seabeyond Jan 2012 #11

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
1. I have read The Mill River Recluse
Mon Jan 16, 2012, 08:29 PM
Jan 2012

It was available through iBooks for 99 cents, so I thought it was worth a try. The traumas that led to Mary's reclusiveness occurred in a rural area during the early 1940's. Based on the setting of the story and her lack of immediate family, it didn't seem unusual for her behavior to be viewed by the town as simply eccentric. While such a situation today would likely result in a diagnosis and intervention, I don't doubt that people of means with similar circumstances could (and probably do) manage to live reclusive lives and resist the pressure to seek help. My recollection is that the priest did try to draw Mary out of the mansion and into the community, but the experiences were such failures that they reinforced her determination remain in isolation.



I think this novel is only available in electronic form, no printed version. I found that interesting.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
2. At one point in the story
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 12:07 AM
Jan 2012

a cop (I believe) had a cell phone so part of it was more present day. I guess my owner experience just makes it incomprehensible to me that someone would just live as a recluse instead of seeking help.

It was a self-published book which is why it's only available in electronic form. From what I read it got turned down by a number of publishers.

Did you like the story?

Oh, and thanks for the reply.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
3. Good Morning
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 10:17 AM
Jan 2012

The book began at the time of Mary's death (present day) and went back over her life in retrospect to detail the experiences that led to her solitude. I'm old enough to remember people where I grew up who were simply accepted as eccentric or different but would probably be recognized as having treatable conditions today, so the community's acceptance of Mary's lifestyle was not startling to me.

The book held my attention while I was reading it, but it doesn't stand out as one I'll remember as a favorite.

Reading has become a form of escapism for me. I find today's world pretty stressful, so I tend to choose books that allow me to get away from real world problems. I favor female authors and have a special affinity for southern, female authors. As a transplanted yankee currently living in Georgia, I find the characters and settings developed by southern authors to be very interesting and informative. I occasionally read heavier material, but I have been attracted to lighter fare recently. Keeping up with current events and politics via DU and other progressive sites provides me with more than enough heavy duty, thought provoking reading material.



fadedrose

(10,044 posts)
4. Welcome
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 11:33 AM
Jan 2012

Try Sharyn McCrumb - Tennessee mountains... not real mysteries, more mystifying I like to think.

Nevada Barr's okay too...

Try James D. Doss (all except for his first book) for some goofy southwestern mysteries.

My favorite site for mysteries is:

http://www.stopyourekillingme.com/index.html

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
5. I've read Sharyn McCrumb
Tue Jan 17, 2012, 01:07 PM
Jan 2012

Last edited Mon Sep 30, 2013, 02:26 PM - Edit history (1)

and actually met her, had lunch with her and had a book signing event for her at work. She's an interesting individual that I liked a lot.

I think I read all of her books which we carried in our bookstore.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
7. i have it. i havent read it yet. is it worth the read? i have so many books to read
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 09:10 AM
Jan 2012

Last edited Mon Jan 30, 2012, 02:51 PM - Edit history (1)

and so little time, lol.

interesting review. thanks.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
8. You're welcome.
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 02:47 PM
Jan 2012

I didn't like the book at all and only finished it because I started it. In fairness the writing itself wasn't terrible it's just the whole premise of the story and the characters annoyed me.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
9. ahhh. lol, i am like that. a couple chapters in i will tell hubby,
Mon Jan 30, 2012, 02:52 PM
Jan 2012

this book is so bad.

delete it he says.

i cant. gotta finish.

why???

i just have to, lol

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
10. Most often I'm that way.
Tue Jan 31, 2012, 12:46 AM
Jan 2012

I got a free book on my Kindle lately that I did just delete. It was so bad I don't even remember the name of it.....but it's very unusual for me not to finish a book I start.

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