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La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
Fri May 20, 2016, 10:08 PM May 2016

So I've had quite the post racial day

I woke with a troll demanding an apology to white men on du on my private email address

Followed by a demand to delete a thread of mine with my phone number attached. Which I complied with because I didn't want crazy crank calls.

Then I received this message 'In future though, don't fuck with white men. Don't post anything negative about white men. Don't talk about white privilege, because there's no such
thing as white privilege. The bullshit and hate speech that white men have
to listen to on DU will no longer be tolerated. Things are going to
change. You can warn the rest too, because they're no longer anonymous
either.'


So I'm thinking we should have a conversation about the level of privilege you have in society where you feel entitled to stalk someone and then instruct them about what they can and cannot discuss publicly

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So I've had quite the post racial day (Original Post) La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 OP
Ugh. Fuck this shit, sorry you had to deal with it. Agschmid May 2016 #1
There are way too many crazy white men. Speaking as a white man, I can attest to that as the truth. LiberalArkie May 2016 #2
The racist troll should apologize to white men for making them all look bad. nt The Far Left May 2016 #75
I hope you turned it in to the admins Warpy May 2016 #3
They have her private email. sheshe2 May 2016 #7
Well... ReRe May 2016 #57
Since LLP is also a POC, it can be a federal civil rights issue. Bohunk68 May 2016 #76
I agree SCantiGOP May 2016 #78
Anyone who denies white privilege... NewHampshiriteGuy May 2016 #4
That makes me want to talk about nothing BUT white male privilege. betsuni May 2016 #5
No need to bring the election into this. blackspade May 2016 #72
I didn't mention the election. betsuni May 2016 #73
Mousefucking! That's funny. I'm tempted to steal that. yardwork May 2016 #86
KnR Hekate May 2016 #6
Sounds like an angry white male toad needs a lesson in decorum and history. leftofcool May 2016 #8
And hate crime laws (nt) JSup May 2016 #64
Holy sh!t! mcar May 2016 #9
I am so very sorry LLP. sheshe2 May 2016 #10
Hugs to you gollygee May 2016 #11
Wow Sorry that this happened to you. WhiteTara May 2016 #12
Where did this ugly little fucking white POS go? Loki May 2016 #13
Disgusting! johnp3907 May 2016 #14
Oh fer chrissake. wildeyed May 2016 #15
I think we should talk a lot about white privledge ismnotwasm May 2016 #16
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2016 #24
Hahahahahahaha ismnotwasm May 2016 #34
You know this Guy? johnp3907 May 2016 #36
Not exactly ismnotwasm May 2016 #40
Where do they even get the energy for all that trolling? johnp3907 May 2016 #43
Man, that's a question for the ages ismnotwasm May 2016 #48
He has nothing else in life BainsBane May 2016 #68
What would YOU know about female anatomy? johnp3907 May 2016 #35
Please take out the trash lovemydog May 2016 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author LisaM May 2016 #38
On behalf of this white man sobenji May 2016 #17
+1 rusty quoin May 2016 #18
+2 mac56 May 2016 #83
This is threatening and disturbing. mountain grammy May 2016 #19
Did you tell the moron to go fuck himself? canuckledragger May 2016 #20
White privilege is real Agnosticsherbet May 2016 #21
I trust this person has been banned already? Solly Mack May 2016 #22
All this happened over email not du La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #23
Report them. liberalnarb May 2016 #26
To whom? La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #28
Skinner. Any administrator. Have their username? liberalnarb May 2016 #30
Please re-read the original post. lovemydog May 2016 #41
My mistake. I was thinking DU mail. liberalnarb May 2016 #42
Def tell Skinner since they threatened u regarding DU. bettyellen May 2016 #69
That sucks. Probably someone registered here though. Solly Mack May 2016 #31
Whoa. That was on this site. Was it a new member? liberalnarb May 2016 #25
You try not thinking of someone who has gone out of their way to track your private info La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #27
Point taken. I forgot this was through direct message, not a replying thread. liberalnarb May 2016 #29
It was through personal email with my phone number attached La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #39
Anyone surprised by this? Anyone? Number23 May 2016 #32
I wonder where the usual racism is over people are La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #47
They're all probably secretly high fiving the person that's been harassing you. And then they'll be Number23 May 2016 #49
Yup. Either it didn't happen or I deserved it La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #50
It's been going on here for a long long time. lovemydog May 2016 #53
You should totally report this to the Admins... Silver_Witch May 2016 #33
The admins know and have done their best La Lioness Priyanka May 2016 #44
So sorry for your experience La Lionesss... Silver_Witch May 2016 #61
Please read the entire thread. lovemydog May 2016 #45
I did...is there a problem with my post? Silver_Witch May 2016 #60
I was trying to be helpful. lovemydog May 2016 #65
I am a white middle aged woman Sophiegirl May 2016 #46
You did the right thing and didn't let it affect your children . Toxic people in my life that I Person 2713 May 2016 #54
You don't post much, yet you said a mouthful. rusty quoin May 2016 #55
very, very well said. n/t paleotn May 2016 #80
i'm not surprised after everything that has happened JI7 May 2016 #51
That is plain scary. SusanCalvin May 2016 #52
No one you need worry about. raven mad May 2016 #56
#whitemaleegosofragile lib87 May 2016 #58
K & R for visibility. Surya Gayatri May 2016 #59
Speechless but not surprised..... FrenchieCat May 2016 #62
In order to be on the safe side gwheezie May 2016 #63
This person hates the Constitution JustAnotherGen May 2016 #66
Sadly The Polack MSgt May 2016 #67
Asshole wryter2000 May 2016 #70
To the person that sent that message: blackspade May 2016 #71
Ok. I'm white. I'm middle aged. Bluzmann57 May 2016 #74
We have a bunch of Republican trolls here lately. redstatebluegirl May 2016 #77
I am an old, fat white man. Dyedinthewoolliberal May 2016 #79
+1 mac56 May 2016 #84
Terrible, just terrible. Not Sure May 2016 #81
White men libodem May 2016 #82
K&R, In soladarity . ... reACTIONary May 2016 #85
I'm sorry this happened. Thank you for talking about it. yardwork May 2016 #87
That's not a troll-- it's a stalker, and I gather you have reported it to... TreasonousBastard May 2016 #88
I started a thread asking people to talk about white privileges in GD. yardwork May 2016 #89
Link? 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #90
Edit - Link here. yardwork May 2016 #91

Warpy

(111,132 posts)
3. I hope you turned it in to the admins
Fri May 20, 2016, 10:15 PM
May 2016

Yeah, such stupidity exists in the real world but it shouldn't be here on DU.

White male privilege isn't what it was back in the 1950s, but it's still going strong enough.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
57. Well...
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:58 AM
May 2016

... In that instance, she has the dude's e-mail address, right? Turn that into the DU admins. Not only that, give it to the FBI. It was a terroristic threat. I wouldn't think twice about what to do.

Bohunk68

(1,364 posts)
76. Since LLP is also a POC, it can be a federal civil rights issue.
Sat May 21, 2016, 07:51 PM
May 2016

So so sorry you had to endure such filth. Know that indeed you are loved.

4. Anyone who denies white privilege...
Fri May 20, 2016, 10:20 PM
May 2016

Anyone who denies the existence of white privilege is NOT a democrat or a progressive.

End of story.

...and I'm a white guy, just for the record.

betsuni

(25,374 posts)
5. That makes me want to talk about nothing BUT white male privilege.
Fri May 20, 2016, 10:26 PM
May 2016

So sorry you have to deal with this. I suppose the angry white men will immediately claim it's someone (Hillary Clinton, probably) pretending to be an angry white man; mousefucking or whatever. They are SO predictable. That message sounds familiar.

yardwork

(61,538 posts)
86. Mousefucking! That's funny. I'm tempted to steal that.
Mon May 23, 2016, 11:54 AM
May 2016

Meanwhile, I think I'll talk a lot about white privilege. I'm white so I know about it.

mcar

(42,278 posts)
9. Holy sh!t!
Fri May 20, 2016, 10:41 PM
May 2016

That is some scary, ugly stuff! Not to mention obnoxious, arrogant and just plain idiotic. No one should have to deal with this crap.

sheshe2

(83,638 posts)
10. I am so very sorry LLP.
Fri May 20, 2016, 10:42 PM
May 2016

Sick beyond belief,

Ef them. I will talk about it anytime I want.

I have your back.

Loki

(3,825 posts)
13. Where did this ugly little fucking white POS go?
Fri May 20, 2016, 11:06 PM
May 2016

Back to his mommies basement where he posts shit in anonymously. Can't come out and say that to anyone in person, you fucking coward.

wildeyed

(11,243 posts)
15. Oh fer chrissake.
Fri May 20, 2016, 11:15 PM
May 2016

That is some next level crazy. Like DU is the only place that anyone talks about white privilege Their ARE message boards where that one won't be troubled with the concept of white privilege. It should go look at one of those instead, or go back to stalking it's ex... whatever kept them busy before this crappy election.

I'm sorry that happened to you. You are being brave, but it must be kind of upsetting too.

ismnotwasm

(41,965 posts)
16. I think we should talk a lot about white privledge
Fri May 20, 2016, 11:19 PM
May 2016

And often. I can start with some white privledge of my own. I realized that I intellectually knew that progressives might be as racist as any other racist, but the mindnumbing cluelessness of some people, the passive-aggressive to overt racism of others, and the stunning denials of it rocked my world. I will never recover from this election cycle. Privledge comes into play, I believe, at the level of shock I experienced.

Response to ismnotwasm (Reply #16)

ismnotwasm

(41,965 posts)
40. Not exactly
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:16 AM
May 2016

It's a frequent troll(s) that gets banned a lot by MIRT. When serving on MIRT, I've had the pleasure of banning his silly ass dozens of times.

ismnotwasm

(41,965 posts)
48. Man, that's a question for the ages
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:20 AM
May 2016

And why I personally think it's more than one person. This troll is dedicated, in that sad, sick way of course.

Response to Name removed (Reply #24)

mountain grammy

(26,598 posts)
19. This is threatening and disturbing.
Fri May 20, 2016, 11:38 PM
May 2016

How? Why? Do the administrators have any answers? I'd like a conversation on how we keep members safe from this kind of attack. This is chilling.

Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
31. That sucks. Probably someone registered here though.
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:10 AM
May 2016

A coward, of course. That goes without saying but I'll make the point anyway.

I am sorry that such craven scum has fixated on you.



 

liberalnarb

(4,532 posts)
25. Whoa. That was on this site. Was it a new member?
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:07 AM
May 2016

Either way it was a troll. Not worth the time and thought.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
32. Anyone surprised by this? Anyone?
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:10 AM
May 2016

Anyone even the slightest bit mystified where all of the "stop calling Bernie a RACCISSTT!!1" crap was coming from, now you know.

Anyone even the slightest bit confused why so many minority posters have been run off the board even though every damned word they said about their communities was true, now you know.

Anyone befuddled why so many posters of color can't post 'K&R' in a thread here without six mouth breathing imbeciles all over their asses, even when REPEATEDLY ASKED TO LEAVE THEM ALONE, now you know.

If some of these folks spent half as much time reading a history book as they do scouring the internet trying to find people's personal information to harass them, they'd be so much better off. I'd be very interested to know what the admins have to say about this, if they've said anything.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
49. They're all probably secretly high fiving the person that's been harassing you. And then they'll be
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:24 AM
May 2016

along shortly to accuse you, subtly they think, of fabricating all of this and making it up. Just like they did to bravenak. Or that by having the nerve to post your thoughts on a public message board, you somehow brought this on yourself.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
53. It's been going on here for a long long time.
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:41 AM
May 2016

Many who post here can't be bothered reading other posts, let alone the first chapter of a book. They're 'outraged' about whatever bullshit du jour, but never have a thing to say about the racism here. They don't participate to learn anything. More to 'be heard' by fellow imbeciles who attack every democrat not named elizabeth or bernie.

 

Silver_Witch

(1,820 posts)
33. You should totally report this to the Admins...
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:11 AM
May 2016

The stalker should be banned from DU. There is never an excuse for posting a DUers phone number ever...nor is there any reason to send such messages.

You should not be treated this way and you should report the DUer to the Admins.

So sorry you were treated this way.

 

Silver_Witch

(1,820 posts)
60. I did...is there a problem with my post?
Sat May 21, 2016, 01:17 AM
May 2016

It was not till much later in the thread that the OP mentioned it was in her private email. Since she posted it here I had assumed it as a DU person that had stalked the poster.

Your rudeness is not necessary - my concern was genuine - yours just rude.

Sophiegirl

(2,338 posts)
46. I am a white middle aged woman
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:19 AM
May 2016

I grew up with a racist mother.

I am happy, yet unhappy to say...Go fuck these people who are so threatened by equal rights and basic humility!! Go fuck these people, those that believe they are privileged because they have light colored skin. I know I could probably say this more eloquently, but I'm so angry that I am at a loss for the best words.

I was beaten by my mother because, in high school, because I went on a date with a Mexican boy. We lived in West Texas. Where my school was about 40% Mexican. He was an honor roll boy. But he wasn't white.

She came to visit me in Northern Virginia in the mid-80s. On a visit to the White House, sitting on a bench in the Ellipse, she commented on how many "n******" there were around. There was a black squirrel we were feeding. Unusual, but there it was. Eating the popcorpn we tossed to it. She said, "See, even the squirrels are n*****". I grew some balls that day and told her to STFU. I said she was what was wrong with this world. She never spoke to me again. And I am glad. She died 18 months ago. She didn't speak to any of her four children. She committed suicide at the age of 83. I alone went home to bury her. Because I felt that in death, she might gain some knowledge. I hope that wherever she is now, she has a better understanding.

I am so glad that her disgraceful stance on race didn't affect me nor my own children.

Sorry. I don't ever post here, but this kind of crap makes my blood boil. And I'm sorry there are people that are this evil.

Person 2713

(3,263 posts)
54. You did the right thing and didn't let it affect your children . Toxic people in my life that I
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:44 AM
May 2016

parted from, I never regretted it, not one

 

rusty quoin

(6,133 posts)
55. You don't post much, yet you said a mouthful.
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:45 AM
May 2016

It makes my blood boil too. I guess there has never been anything to make my blood boil more than bigotry. Who am I prejudiced against?...bigots. Who do I hate?...haters.

Sophiegirl, I'm damn proud to belong to the same side as you. After all, we are right about all things political. That's not arrogance, we are right. All the other right wing stuff is something else.

Until the country tips left again, I won't listen to the right wing..but I will try to be polite.

JI7

(89,239 posts)
51. i'm not surprised after everything that has happened
Sat May 21, 2016, 12:30 AM
May 2016

there is rage and resentment towards POC who they see as taking away from them. whether it's jobs, school, revolution, presidency etc.

that's what stood out to me with bravenak. there isn't the same anger towards white people who support people like trump as you see towards POC who support clinton .

with bravenak she had actually been on good terms with many of these people. but once she has a different view and tries to explain things they get into a rage and attack her. they just could not accept difference in views. it must be there is something wrong with people like her and not that they did not get it.

lib87

(535 posts)
58. #whitemaleegosofragile
Sat May 21, 2016, 01:10 AM
May 2016

The fact his reaction to people discussing undeserved white male privilege is to threaten and stalk them...smh.

I hope authorities can track him or her down and stop this. There's no need to resort to threats based off of politics. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

FrenchieCat

(68,867 posts)
62. Speechless but not surprised.....
Sat May 21, 2016, 01:19 AM
May 2016

Authoritarian cowards have been given carte blanche to practice their authoritarianism.....
It's the only thing they are good at!

It's starting to feel like what the period right after reconstruction in the late 1880s must have felt to our Black ancestors...

gwheezie

(3,580 posts)
63. In order to be on the safe side
Sat May 21, 2016, 01:30 AM
May 2016

I use the phrase not all white men™ because for some reason if you post anything about a white man, it makes them nervous. These are fragile people who are having a difficult time coming to terms with the greatly anticipated end of the not all white men™ era. We have to be vigilant when they fly into a rage because the violent history of not all white men™ has never benefitted PoC.

The Polack MSgt

(13,176 posts)
67. Sadly
Sat May 21, 2016, 10:03 AM
May 2016

I have no power to help you.

I have nothing that I can say that's any different from all the other folks giving you support.

But count me among the people here who wish you get the best possble outcome on this.

Peace and safety should never be affected by a damn political board on the webs. It's infuriating.

wryter2000

(46,023 posts)
70. Asshole
Sat May 21, 2016, 06:24 PM
May 2016

I wonder where he gets the idea he can dictate what won't be tolerated at DU.

So sorry this is happening to you.

Signed,
A melanin-challenged friend who's quite aware of the privileges my skin wins me. And, I might add, isn't the least bit offended when someone here points that out.

blackspade

(10,056 posts)
71. To the person that sent that message:
Sat May 21, 2016, 06:31 PM
May 2016

"White men like you are pieces of shit that need to be scraped off the shoe of society. White privilege exists as you are the living embodiment of it. You are the reason why the world suffers under the weight of white supremacy and your bullshit and hate speech will no longer be tolerated."

I am so sick of these ignorant buffoons. Assholes.

Bluzmann57

(12,336 posts)
74. Ok. I'm white. I'm middle aged.
Sat May 21, 2016, 07:39 PM
May 2016

I'm fat. I'm bald. I realize that I have white privilege because of various things that have happened to me in my life and things that have happened to Non White friends I have had.
I'm also telling any trolls in here who may want to threaten LLP, you threaten me. I do not like bigoted assholes and am out of patience. I am also married to a non white woman and have a non white child. You threaten either of them and be prepared to pay the price. Because I love my wife and kid more than anything. You mess with them, you mess with me. I have your back LLP. Let's defeat these assholes by hook or by crook. They need to be eliminated.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
77. We have a bunch of Republican trolls here lately.
Sat May 21, 2016, 07:51 PM
May 2016

I swear some of the Bernie people are just here to stir up trouble. I am so sorry this happened to you. This has not been a nice place lately.

Dyedinthewoolliberal

(15,546 posts)
79. I am an old, fat white man.
Sat May 21, 2016, 08:21 PM
May 2016

Complete with a White beard. If the person who sent that email reads this, I am here to say, "you are a pathetic, insecure little man. If you didn't think you had white privilege, you demonstrated that you do by sending that email. You disgust me.'

libodem

(19,288 posts)
82. White men
Sat May 21, 2016, 09:39 PM
May 2016

Are tiresome with their insecurities and their pale transparent thin skin.

Very sorry to hear you have been harrassed.

Sad life, if light pigment and a 'Y' chromosome, is all they've got going for themselves.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
88. That's not a troll-- it's a stalker, and I gather you have reported it to...
Mon May 23, 2016, 01:13 PM
May 2016

the relevant authorities. Call it a sex crime, because that's what it is.

Guys like this are scary as hell because you don't know how far they are willing to go. Fortunately, most of them don't go too far.

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