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malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 04:40 PM Nov 2014

For those who missed me, I had a stroke.

18 days in the hospital and therapy. A small bomb went off in my head and blew out my right-side coordination and balance. Typing is a bit of a chore since it is mostly left-handed. Since I can tend to my basic needs and get around with a walker, they sent me home today. Naturally I wanted my pals in the Lounge to know why I haven't been around.

I also have a newly-diagnosed case of diabetes (which seems to have caused the stroke), and I seriously think that's more of a pain than the stroke. Diabetes is expensive, man.

-- Mal

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For those who missed me, I had a stroke. (Original Post) malthaussen Nov 2014 OP
Oh no, glad you are better and hope you heal more. uppityperson Nov 2014 #1
Best wishes to you! n/t PoliticAverse Nov 2014 #2
Oh dear! So sorry to hear this. cyberswede Nov 2014 #3
Yeah, some outpatient stuff needs to be scheduled. malthaussen Nov 2014 #6
Wishing you a speedy and complete recovery! LiberalEsto Nov 2014 #4
We're with you, Mal. elleng Nov 2014 #5
Sorry to hear that. Cleita Nov 2014 #7
My favorite time was therapy... malthaussen Nov 2014 #8
Wishing you a complete recovery! femmocrat Nov 2014 #9
All the best to you, my DU friend. Speedy recovery and maintenance. CurtEastPoint Nov 2014 #10
... handmade34 Nov 2014 #11
I missed you. In_The_Wind Nov 2014 #12
Thanks, I missed you, too. malthaussen Nov 2014 #13
Yes, diabetes is expensive. In_The_Wind Nov 2014 #14
Dang malthaussen. progressoid Nov 2014 #15
Wish you the best UglyGreed Nov 2014 #16
Glad to see you back! Kaleva Nov 2014 #17
I did wonder what happened to you... CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2014 #18
because of you, Joe Shlabotnik Nov 2014 #19
my wishes for a quick and full recovery fizzgig Nov 2014 #20
I wish you everything. the brain will rewire as long as roguevalley Nov 2014 #21
Hope you're 100% asap! Do everything the physical therapists tell you to do. riderinthestorm Nov 2014 #22
wow! Kali Nov 2014 #23
So glad to see you again. HeiressofBickworth Nov 2014 #24
Dang! Glad you're doing better! bluesbassman Nov 2014 #25
Dear Mal Crewleader Nov 2014 #26
Hope you mend soon My Good Babushka Nov 2014 #27
Wishing you the best in your recovery. bigwillq Nov 2014 #28
I'm not familiar with you davidpdx Nov 2014 #29
No, I don't mind malthaussen Nov 2014 #31
so sorry to hear, best wishes on your recovery ! nt steve2470 Nov 2014 #30
Quick recovery wishes antiquie Nov 2014 #32
welcome back and wishing you a full and quick recovery! magical thyme Nov 2014 #33
Thanks everyone for your good wishes. malthaussen Nov 2014 #34
wow, I guess I am a double good, extra close pal. who knew. Mend quickly, maltie baby. Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2014 #35
I hope Worried senior Nov 2014 #36
Sorry to hear this. Go at a steady pace and get better. kairos12 Nov 2014 #37
I miss you more now that I know. You sound great. UTUSN Nov 2014 #38
Hey Mal, KMOD Nov 2014 #39
Are you getting physical therapy? MADem Nov 2014 #40
Yep, and as the stroke was pretty minor, I can walk without assistance... malthaussen Nov 2014 #42
It WILL come back, just tell yourself that when or if you get frustrated. MADem Nov 2014 #43
Geeze, surfing the 'Net, there are discount places to get supplies, too malthaussen Nov 2014 #44
As my great grandparents used to say when I was a kid MADem Nov 2014 #46
The best way to raise HDL is exercise. KMOD Nov 2014 #45
Get well, soon! Odin2005 Nov 2014 #41
Oh, man! *hugs* GreenPartyVoter Nov 2014 #47
Oh boy. GoCubsGo Nov 2014 #48
K&R for your health! MrMickeysMom Nov 2014 #49

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
3. Oh dear! So sorry to hear this.
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 05:07 PM
Nov 2014

Will you need PT to recover your mobility?

Very glad to see you back here!

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
6. Yeah, some outpatient stuff needs to be scheduled.
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 05:12 PM
Nov 2014

Unassisted, I walk like Frankenstein's monster right now.

-- Mal

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
7. Sorry to hear that.
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 05:44 PM
Nov 2014

Make sure you get all the physical therapy your insurance or other health care provider gives you. It's was saved me from permanent stumbling around and paralysis after I had some strokes. It will help you with the diabetes too.

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
8. My favorite time was therapy...
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 05:54 PM
Nov 2014

... when I could actually do something. Hours lying in a hospital bed (no getting up unless a nurse is there!) are not a lot of fun. I spent a lot of time sleeping.

-- Mal

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
9. Wishing you a complete recovery!
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 05:57 PM
Nov 2014

So sorry to hear that you have been ill. Please take care and get better!!

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
13. Thanks, I missed you, too.
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 06:33 PM
Nov 2014

Hopefully, my typing will improve to the point where I can use noth hands again! One-handed typing is for the birds!

Wait, birds don't have hands...


-- Mal

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
14. Yes, diabetes is expensive.
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 06:49 PM
Nov 2014

Last month my prescription coverage went into the gap of what is covered. Medicare picked up around half the cost of my Lantus SoloStar insulin pens. I'm still going to have to shell out more money for December's meds.

Just a bit of information about birds ... their hands/talons are very strong. So I hope you regain as much strength as my birds have (relatively speaking that's a good thing).

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,517 posts)
18. I did wonder what happened to you...
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 09:46 PM
Nov 2014

I also missed you on facebook.

I'm so glad to see you! Please take care of yourself, and get those typing fingers back, OK?

Joe Shlabotnik

(5,604 posts)
19. because of you,
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 09:51 PM
Nov 2014

I think I made my first post ever in the HOF forum tonight. lol. But glad you are still with us, and please continue to improve. I've been through a stroke, and so has my dad, and in both cases with some physio we both recovered fully.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
22. Hope you're 100% asap! Do everything the physical therapists tell you to do.
Tue Nov 25, 2014, 11:31 PM
Nov 2014

They're genius at rehabilitating folks, even if they make you cry sometimes....

So glad you're back!

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
24. So glad to see you again.
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 02:08 AM
Nov 2014

From my own experience last year, I found that being impatient to be fully recovered made me depressed at times. Just take your time, do as the therapists tell you -- and practice, practice, practice. It may take a while, but you WILL get back to where you want to be. Be of good cheer!!!

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
29. I'm not familiar with you
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 10:11 AM
Nov 2014

But I send my best wishes for a speedy recovery. Do you mind sharing how old you are? How are your motor skills in terms of your speech and movement?

I wonder because my dad had his first stroke at 43 and his last one at 54 (he died just after his 55th birthday). The stroke he had was pretty bad.

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
31. No, I don't mind
Wed Nov 26, 2014, 10:41 AM
Nov 2014

I'm 58, and basically in good health (except for the minor problems, lol). My stroke was pretty mild as these things go, IMO. After two weeks of intensive therapy (three hours a day) I can walk unassisted, but it ain't pretty and a walker is safer at present. When I wake up I am at my most unstable, but after I've been up a while I am almost normal in balance. My finer motor skills have also improved, but much more slowly. I can write legibly, but it takes some time to form the letters. Considerable improvement over when I was admitted and my signature was a straight line! When I type, the right hand misses most of the letters when I use it, so typing is mostly one-handed at present. I rarely overshoot the grosser movements (reaching for a water glass, e.g.) and am normally on-target when buckling a belt, putting on shoes, etc. Mostly I'm practicing finer motor skills and walking.

Hope this helps. Your Dad should be okay in time, he just needs to keep repeating things until the brain gets re-wired. The grosser movement should come back first, but some of the finer movements will be more frustrating. So long as you keep this in mind, recover should be steady.

-- Mal

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
34. Thanks everyone for your good wishes.
Thu Nov 27, 2014, 09:41 AM
Nov 2014

If I haven't responded to each of you, it's because typing is tedious, not because I am not grateful!

-- Mal

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
39. Hey Mal,
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 11:21 PM
Nov 2014

Sorry you had a stroke, but I'm glad to hear it was minor.

Make sure you do your PT. It will make all the difference.

As far as diabetes, yes, it can be a pain. But a few easy lifestyle changes, can also help immensely. Glad you are feeling better. Now stay well, Mal.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
40. Are you getting physical therapy?
Fri Nov 28, 2014, 11:32 PM
Nov 2014

Can you use that hand at all, and is that your writing hand? If you can use it, just keep practicing the alphabet, over and over and over again, each and every day. Your writing will come back. If your voice is a bit slurry, sing--often. Continuously. Concentrate on pronunciation. The best way to get the walking back is to walk.

I helped a relative (w/Type 2 diabetes) back from a similar stroke; he was two months in hospital-->rehab center-->step-down nursing home w/rehab, and it took a year before he was able to drive again. He's in a foot brace (that he sometimes eschews) with a four point cane but he's ambulating and living life.

Are you eligible for any medical programs? Do you have insurance? Diabetes can be expensive if you have to pay for the drugs--sometimes, though, the drug companies will give you a reduced rate if you can't afford them, if not ask your doctor for generics and explain that if you can't afford your meds you won't be taking them so he has to give you the old-school (i.e. cheaper) solutions. Synthroid costs a bundle, the generic is cheap.

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
42. Yep, and as the stroke was pretty minor, I can walk without assistance...
Sat Nov 29, 2014, 11:29 AM
Nov 2014

... though I'm using a walker for safety while I practice normally. Started working on writing the first day in ICU, and it's coming along. I at least have a legible signature, although it is nothing like it was pre-stroke. Typing is a bore, though, because I keep hitting the wrong letters. Grosser muscle movements are good, though, and I'm pretty much as strong on one side as the other, except in the morning when mu atregth and balance are a bit dodgy.

Applications are in for relevant financial aid, but the meds themslves are costly even if generic. I'm currently testing sugar 4 times daily, and even the cheap strips are a buck each. Which doesn't seem like much until you add it up for a month. Hopefully once I'm more-or-less stabilized I can test less often. They're prescribing atorvastatin for cholesterol, which is somewhat costly even in generic form. But as I need my HDL raised more than I need my LDL lowered, it's a reasonable precaution. Hopefully a better diet wll raise HDL over time. Isn't it funny how many things need to be treated by diet and exercise?

-- Mal

MADem

(135,425 posts)
43. It WILL come back, just tell yourself that when or if you get frustrated.
Sat Nov 29, 2014, 02:24 PM
Nov 2014

I can relate to the price of those damn strips--I subsidized my relative until his ship came in, as it were. At the risk of raising the ire of those who don't have to stretch a buck, you might want to patronize the Dreaded Walmart or one of the other Big Box +RX that has a deal for their generic brand of 'em--might save you a few yen/rial/kroner, what? Ten bucks for fifty strips is way better than fifty bucks for fifty strips, certainly.

These are very affordable and you can test on your palm--you have to get the tester but that's not expensive either, really, and you'd save a small fortune for the number of times a day you're checking your numbers. A buck a strip is JUST too much. If you're worried about accuracy, you can do a compare and contrast to verify that the cheaper ones are doing the job, and only use the pricey ones once a day (if at all) if the results are close. I found that the cheap-os did the trick just fine. You might want to "ask your doctor" or do more research on the web, but that might be a short term solution to that particular expense.

I am pulling for you--it's a long, hard road and I have a bit of experience travelling it (in sympathy from the observation and assistance platforms). I know you can do it and come back full bore and better than ever--attitude is key. Don't forget to sing!!!

Please reach out if you ever need a pep talk--I've seen the highs and lows!

malthaussen

(17,175 posts)
44. Geeze, surfing the 'Net, there are discount places to get supplies, too
Sat Nov 29, 2014, 05:41 PM
Nov 2014

MUCH cheper than the local pharm prices. That's a real relief!

-- Mal

MADem

(135,425 posts)
46. As my great grandparents used to say when I was a kid
Sun Nov 30, 2014, 07:24 AM
Nov 2014

"They'll get ya coming and going!"

They should be ashamed of themselves for trying to gouge people in extremis.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
45. The best way to raise HDL is exercise.
Sat Nov 29, 2014, 11:44 PM
Nov 2014

Last edited Sun Nov 30, 2014, 03:07 AM - Edit history (1)

When you are feeling better, and stronger, get yourself a pedometer. Each day write down how many steps you took, and at the end of the week, total it up.

Let's say, and this is just for an example, you walk 4000 steps per week. The next week, try to walk 4500. If you fall short, try again the next week. Every time you accomplish your weekly goal, try for another 500 steps per week. If you can eventually get to 9,000-10,000 steps per week, you will be accomplishing so much for your health and your HDL.

Of course, check with your doctor first. But I have seen this work, and it is an easy way to get exercise.

Edit, because I misspoke. Try to get up to 4500 steps per day, and then 9,000 to 10,000 steps per day, not week.

GoCubsGo

(32,074 posts)
48. Oh boy.
Sun Nov 30, 2014, 08:23 PM
Nov 2014

Glad to hear you are well enough to be at home, at least. Good to have you back. The Lounge is good for what ails you. Hope you'll come around more as you feel up to it.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
49. K&R for your health!
Sun Nov 30, 2014, 09:36 PM
Nov 2014

When you have that, you have so much, plus… your DU friends.

Continued wellness, malthaussen!

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