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raccoon

(31,105 posts)
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 04:12 PM Apr 2013

One PITA thing about being a southpaw is when you eat with a group of people


(at a table, presumably), you have to (a) coordinate your seat so that no one is on your left, or you're
seated next to another lefty, (b) manage the best you can, trying to restrict your left arm movements and
still manage to eat, (c) learn to handle your utensils with your right hand.

How do you deal with this?

I usually go with #1 but it's not always possible....
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petronius

(26,594 posts)
1. It's rarely a problem for me - for some reason, people pretty much
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 04:17 PM
Apr 2013

choose on their own not to sit next to me...



(But I typically try to sit on an end with no one to my left, mostly because I'm tall and like the leg room the end seat provides. Other than that, elbows-in does the trick.)

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
2. I do everything right-handed except eat and write. At family functions, that's usually...
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 04:21 PM
Apr 2013

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... taken into account and I'm seated with no one on my left, but when elsewhere... (b) is
usually the solution.
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Or (d), I ask them to whiz everything up in a blender and bring me a sturdy bendy-straw.
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Although that kinda sucks.
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Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
3. Mrs. V. and I are both left-handed
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 04:22 PM
Apr 2013

so it's easy if we're together. If I'm by myself in this group I'll try to grab an end seat real quick.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
7. Learn the european style of
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 05:25 PM
Apr 2013

knife in right hand, fork turned upside down in the left hand. It looks sort of nice, too.

MineralMan

(146,241 posts)
10. I adopted that style while still in
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 08:07 PM
Apr 2013

high school. As a lefty, it made sense to me. I did not know then that it was European.

kcass1954

(1,819 posts)
9. When I was growing up, my seat at the dinner table was next to the wall.
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 08:02 PM
Apr 2013

I learned to eat with my elbow fairly close in to my body. My problem is with right-handers who can't do the same.

MineralMan

(146,241 posts)
11. I use the European style, but can eat right handed
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 08:10 PM
Apr 2013

if necessary. It is rarely an issue, though. I can usually grab a convenient lefty seat.

MineralMan

(146,241 posts)
12. I taught myself to use chopsticks with
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 08:18 PM
Apr 2013

my right hand after a giggling waitress at a Chinese restaurant said, "I never see someone eat that way."

sarisataka

(18,458 posts)
13. My daughter is backwards
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 08:47 PM
Apr 2013

so she usually sits on the left end of the table. Being a loving father I always try to sit on her left so we have elbow wars during the meal

It did make it easy teaching her to tie shoes etc. My wife and I were mirrors to her so she just matched our movement

EvilAL

(1,437 posts)
14. If there's a rightie on my left,
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 09:12 PM
Apr 2013

I just put all the food into a pile on the centre of the plate and eat with my mouth.

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
16. More or less #3. I'm not ambidextrous per se but I can do a fair amount with my right
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 11:21 PM
Apr 2013

out of necessity. And I'm not even from a generation in which left-handedness was particularly discouraged.

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