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KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 02:39 PM Apr 2013

My Yearbook teacher was a creep.

Woke up from a dream this morning and for some unknown reason my thoughts turned immediately back to decades ago when my yearbook teacher threw me off of the staff without warning or good cause.

I went to a high school which had just opened and many of the teachers were either very early in their careers or just starting. There really hadn't been enough time to weed out the bad ones so all kinds of crazy stuff went on. The Principal (married) got my German language teacher pregnant, told her not to get an abortion because he would leave his wife for her. She was like 5 months along when he backed out of the deal. She withdrew from the school. (Aside: the same year, the mayor shot his wife in the head with a 45 while arguing at the breakfast table, she lived and he stayed mayor.)

Yearbook was considered a privilege and was only open to Seniors in good standing. I signed up and after about 13 weeks of driving around to location shoots, sports, events, general campus grabs I got called to a meeting with this teacher. She said that because I had not shot enough film I was off the staff. Impossible. I shot hundreds of pictures. The log for this activity was kept by a student and full of casual errors but she wasn't debating. I was off.

I stewed around on what the real reason could be. This teacher's husband had a mobile DJ business and so did I. I had taken a customer from him early in the year and was after another one. But that didn't seem like the reason. He had a day job and it wasn't like kicking me off yearbook was going to make me stop DJ'ing in the same town as him.

This teacher was late 20s but acted like the yearbook was her high school clique. It was almost all girls. She rarely spoke to me. I hated one of the concepts in the yearbook and said so. Her concept was for the clique to pick 10 seniors and declare them to be "trend setters." Each would get their own sidebar telling the rest of us how cool they were and how they outperformed us all. It seemed very undemocratic and very petty to me. I argued against doing it. Not sure if this factored in. Though I did not say so at the time, I really thought this fit with her immature mindset. SHE wanted to be back in high school as a student and be declared a trend setter by her hand selected clique of girls.

Also the main theme for the book was "grabbing the brass ring" (?) which she had to explain to everyone every time it came up. It refers to old merri-go-rounds where you could grab for a ring and you would then get a free ride. So what the hell does this obscure carnival tradition have to do with high school?

Nonetheless, she wanted a picture of a carousel so I went and shot dozens of them.

Months after I was kicked off, the yearbooks came. I got mine. Open it and the very first picture you see, which was die-cut (mega up charge btw) was this round hole through which you see one of my pictures of a carousel. The rest of the book was similarly full of key pictures which I had taken...

I should be over this by now. Thought I was.

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OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
2. Fuckin' A
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 02:59 PM
Apr 2013

I'm still mad at Mr. Hart. 7th grade principal. Gave me licks because I "sighed". I don't even remember what it was I was supposed to have "sighed" about but I can tell you this: It wasn't me. Hallway full of 7th graders and he thought he heard something and I was the closest person to him so he took me to his office and beat me with a wooden bat converted to a paddle.

Fuck that asshole. A few years later he came into the BBQ place I worked at and I told him what a fuckwad I thought he was. He didn't give a shit. He liked being hated I think.

Been close to 40 years and I still remember that stupid look on his dumbfuck face.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
3. I know the type.
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 03:04 PM
Apr 2013

They get off on being difficult or just outright jerks. They love it if you complain about them. I have a neighbor like that now.

raccoon

(31,105 posts)
4. Ah, the joys of the high school years....NOT.
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 03:07 PM
Apr 2013

I remember two male teachers who loved to terrify students, especially shy ones.

One creep instructor in college who liked to mess up your GPA if you had a good one.

Original, at least you got to tell the dumbass what you thought of him. Good for you.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
5. Do you remember what you were dreaming?
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 04:04 PM
Apr 2013

My first thought is that your subconscious is concerned that you are in a similar situation now.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
12. Hmmm. Could be the garden / farming !
Thu Apr 18, 2013, 09:37 AM
Apr 2013

Starting something I am passionate about and finally have the time and opportunity...worried about it being pulled out from under me.

Funny how the mind works.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
6. My only really smokin' hot teacher in H.S. was, of course... my French teacher, Mrs O.
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 04:53 PM
Apr 2013

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My good bud Dave and I were visiting the school in the Fall following our graduation and
spotted her in the lunchtime cafeteria at a big table with a group of her current students.
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She waved us over and introduced us, telling them that we were constantly misbehaving
in her class... and that the ONLY times that we were actually quiet, she could rest assured
we were either throwing things at one another or trying to look up her skirt.
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And we thought we had been so clever... so discreet.
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pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
7. Send in the clowns...
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 05:35 PM
Apr 2013
So what the hell does this obscure carnival tradition have to do with high school?


High school was a carnival.

Even the business HS I went to.

It's even worse if you were a geeky, awkward kid like I was.

I graduated almost 43 years ago, though, and some of the same kids who totally ignored me back then are my Facebook friends today.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
11. I figured
Thu Apr 18, 2013, 09:06 AM
Apr 2013

I would give them a chance after all these years, knowing how incredibly stupid and petty high schoolers can be.

There are still some who were quite nasty to me back then that I definitely would not want to befriend now

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
13. I was not big fan of high school. It was okay but not where I would want to spend the rest
Thu Apr 18, 2013, 09:42 AM
Apr 2013

of my life. Maybe that was part of my conflict with this teacher because she seemed happily determined to stay and wallow in the immaturity and the Rah-Rah (and get paid for it).

hunter

(38,299 posts)
8. I dream I'm being forced to finish high school.
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 06:17 PM
Apr 2013

It doesn't matter I'm a college graduate. In my nightmare there is some authority demanding I finish high school.

I'd write about my high school experience but I don't like horror stories.

One of the smartest things I ever did was quit high school.

LeftofObama

(4,243 posts)
9. I will never get over high school.
Wed Apr 17, 2013, 06:18 PM
Apr 2013

I was bullied quite a bit and when I got a chance to move I grabbed it. Now I'm back in that town taking care of my mom and every now and then I run in to some of those people. When they walk up to me and say something like, "Remember me? I'm so and so! How have you been?" I usually reply, "Sorry no." And I just keep walking.

Demoiselle

(6,787 posts)
14. She was a stupid bitch. If I weren't such a lady I'd use the c-word. Some pain sticks....
Thu Apr 18, 2013, 12:09 PM
Apr 2013

I'll bet you were so good that you threatened her. It happens.






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