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So tonight my tween son asked me if Id ever been in a mosh pit. I said yes. He said whats a mosh pit? I said its kinda like dancing and fighting at the same time. He was confused about why people who were dancing would want to hurt each other.
So Im sitting there trying to think of a way to explain, and I was reminded of something I used to tell him when he was little. If he came up to me upset because some other kid had bumped him, Id ask him what game they were playing. If the answer was something like bumper cars Id tell him that by playing a game like that theyre giving permission to bump into each other. Getting bumped is part of the fun that they agreed to when they started playing.
So I said to him, Remember what I used to tell you if you were roughhousing with your friends and somebody got hurt?
And he looked me straight in the eye and said Always hide the body?
2naSalit
(86,528 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(149,580 posts)He's a smart one.
I'm sure you're having a great time raising him, helping him become a man. Well, eventually.
Great story!
Skittles
(153,146 posts)who is suspicious here, him or you
Dem2theMax
(9,650 posts)Buckeye_Democrat
(14,853 posts)... written by my maternal grandmother, among a pile of them returned to us by her letter recipient (from the 1930's).
My mother hurt herself when she was a little girl and was warned by her mother to be more careful in the future or she might need stitches.
My mother then talked about how that would be awful, and she hoped that she never needed stitches in her whole life!
Then she walked away, but returned later to ask, "What are stitches?"
TygrBright
(20,756 posts)SergeStorms
(19,192 posts)"Always hide the body"? A chip off the old block, heh EarlG? I always established an ironclad alibi before anything else. It's always worked for me.
Proper answer.