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EarlG

(21,945 posts)
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 12:23 AM Aug 2020

Well played, son, well played

Last edited Sun Aug 9, 2020, 12:32 PM - Edit history (1)

So tonight my tween son asked me if I’d ever been in a mosh pit. I said yes. He said what’s a mosh pit? I said it’s kinda like dancing and fighting at the same time. He was confused about why people who were dancing would want to hurt each other.

So I’m sitting there trying to think of a way to explain, and I was reminded of something I used to tell him when he was little. If he came up to me upset because some other kid had bumped him, I’d ask him what game they were playing. If the answer was something like “bumper cars” I’d tell him that by playing a game like that they’re giving permission to bump into each other. Getting bumped is part of the fun that they agreed to when they started playing.

So I said to him, “Remember what I used to tell you if you were roughhousing with your friends and somebody got hurt?”

And he looked me straight in the eye and said “Always hide the body?”

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Well played, son, well played (Original Post) EarlG Aug 2020 OP
.... Laffy Kat Aug 2020 #1
They'll always keep you wondering... 2naSalit Aug 2020 #2
Keep your eye on your tween son, my dear EarlG.......... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2020 #3
did.......did you really tell him that? Skittles Aug 2020 #4
Oh my Hekate Aug 2020 #5
It sounds like he's hit the age where you start to wonder if he's smarter than you. Dem2theMax Aug 2020 #6
Lol! The mosh pit question reminds me of an old letter... Buckeye_Democrat Aug 2020 #7
Chip off the ol' block, obvs...! n/t TygrBright Aug 2020 #8
You hung out with a rough crowd! SergeStorms Aug 2020 #9
:) Solly Mack Aug 2020 #10
Or as Klaus Hargreeves would say, "are we going to burn or bury?" Lars39 Aug 2020 #11

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,580 posts)
3. Keep your eye on your tween son, my dear EarlG..........
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 12:33 AM
Aug 2020

He's a smart one.

I'm sure you're having a great time raising him, helping him become a man. Well, eventually.

Great story!

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,853 posts)
7. Lol! The mosh pit question reminds me of an old letter...
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 02:14 AM
Aug 2020

... written by my maternal grandmother, among a pile of them returned to us by her letter recipient (from the 1930's).

My mother hurt herself when she was a little girl and was warned by her mother to be more careful in the future or she might need stitches.

My mother then talked about how that would be awful, and she hoped that she never needed stitches in her whole life!

Then she walked away, but returned later to ask, "What are stitches?"

SergeStorms

(19,192 posts)
9. You hung out with a rough crowd!
Sun Aug 9, 2020, 03:16 AM
Aug 2020

"Always hide the body"? A chip off the old block, heh EarlG? I always established an ironclad alibi before anything else. It's always worked for me.

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