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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:09 AM Apr 2013

Dead Bombing Suspect: ‘I Don’t Have A Single American Friend’

The first suspect (seen right) in the Boston marathon bombing who was killed earlier Friday has been identified as 26-year-old Tamerlan Tsarnaev, the brother of Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, who still remains at large, according to NBC's Pete Williams. They have been living in the United States since 2002 or 2003.

See what appear to be Tamarlan's boxing photos here.

"I don't have a single American friend, I don't understand them," he says in one of the photos.

According to the captions, Tamarlan studied at Bunker Hill Community College in Boston. After his family fled Chechnya because of the "conflict in the early 90s, they lived for years in Kazakhstan before getting to the United States as a refugee."

Another caption:

Tamerlan says he doesn't drink or smoke anymore: "God said no alcohol." A muslim, he says: "There are no values anymore," and worries that "people can't control themselves."

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http://livewire.talkingpointsmemo.com/entry/nbcs-pete-williams-other-suspect-identified-as-tamerlan?ref=fpb

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For what it's worth: IMHO, big brother was homesick and depressed about his life in the U.S. (probably never recovered from his culture shock of moving from Russia to the U.S.), turned to religion for help (not necessarily organized religion). Using his influence as "big bro," he convinced his little brother "the end is near" and dragged him into this entire scheme.

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Dead Bombing Suspect: ‘I Don’t Have A Single American Friend’ (Original Post) DonViejo Apr 2013 OP
another thread. 2011 arrested for beating on GF. not fair, cant even beat your woman. nt seabeyond Apr 2013 #1
Link to "another thread?" nt DonViejo Apr 2013 #2
i really see it as, anti social and allowing rw (fundie, even in islamic) seabeyond Apr 2013 #5
Thanks seabeyond. nt DonViejo Apr 2013 #7
I agree completely get the red out Apr 2013 #3
I'm thinking big brother... DonViejo Apr 2013 #8
I wonder, if coming from the horrors of the Chechnyan situation, life in America almost gateley Apr 2013 #4
This is an interesting point. On another board, closeupready Apr 2013 #6
I don't follow you. Bicoastal Apr 2013 #20
Fear of 'teh ghey.' closeupready Apr 2013 #23
I still don't follow you. Bicoastal Apr 2013 #27
People see what they want to see, not what is. closeupready Apr 2013 #28
Well, can you direct me to the thread you referenced earlier? Bicoastal Apr 2013 #30
Speculation PATRICK Apr 2013 #9
Your opinion + my opinion = DonViejo Apr 2013 #10
Totally agree with you. closeupready Apr 2013 #15
Tamarlan was one majorly fucked up dude. Totally FUBAR. nt Zorra Apr 2013 #11
not to mention, really, really lame hfojvt Apr 2013 #26
Well, so do many radical terrorists Zax2me Apr 2013 #12
If unpopular, why, then, does Islamic terrorism persist? closeupready Apr 2013 #13
And now, millions of Americans want to meet him. n/t Orsino Apr 2013 #14
except his aunt said he's married to a 'christian' and has a two year old. HiPointDem Apr 2013 #16
She converted to Islam. closeupready Apr 2013 #17
link? HiPointDem Apr 2013 #22
On the boxing photo thread. closeupready Apr 2013 #24
link? my point = he made at least one friend. two if you count his daughter. HiPointDem Apr 2013 #25
Daughter = Family. Daughter =/= Friend. closeupready Apr 2013 #29
No friends...so go ahead a kill innocent strangers Sheepshank Apr 2013 #18
see anomie (and ivory, not together in perfect harmony) hfojvt Apr 2013 #19
I'm sure he was a joy Lex Apr 2013 #21
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
5. i really see it as, anti social and allowing rw (fundie, even in islamic)
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:15 AM
Apr 2013

to create this. i see the older brother no different than the man that flew into austin irs building, mcveigh or the others.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2709978

get the red out

(13,460 posts)
3. I agree completely
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:13 AM
Apr 2013

I think that's the most likely story.

Sounds like someone who wanted to blame something else for his own problems. If he was that religious you would think he would have cultivated some friendships at his Mosque? But no, better to blame, then attack, others for your problems...............................

gateley

(62,683 posts)
4. I wonder, if coming from the horrors of the Chechnyan situation, life in America almost
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:13 AM
Apr 2013

seemed shallow in a way?

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
6. This is an interesting point. On another board,
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:15 AM
Apr 2013

some American guy started a thread, 'how do I make friends?' This was just a typical midddle-aged American man who had a wife and children and a home but few, if any friends. Certainly not any friends of shorter standing than 10-20 years.

And it seems to be a common complaint. Frankly, I think it's pathetic that males of all ages are discouraged from making friends with other males, but it is a cultural fact of life in the US.

But more to the point, I think there is likely to be a lot more to this story than just being lonely.

Bicoastal

(12,645 posts)
20. I don't follow you.
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 02:23 PM
Apr 2013

Males of all ages are discouraged from making friends with other males? Um, since when? By whom?

Bicoastal

(12,645 posts)
27. I still don't follow you.
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 02:42 PM
Apr 2013

If that was truly how our culture worked, homophobes wouldn't let their sons join college fraternities or play sports or join the army, due to the high preponderance of male friends one would make. In fact, it seems like the opposite is true

You could make an argument about how CLOSE American men are allowed to be with their male friends; still, I don't think locking yourself away in your room for fear of accidentally befriending a gay man is a common thing.

Bicoastal

(12,645 posts)
30. Well, can you direct me to the thread you referenced earlier?
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 03:01 PM
Apr 2013

I'm curious. There are many reasons why some men have a hard time making friends--I'm somewhat introverted myself--but I've never heard of someone blaming American society as a whole for their social problems. Since there are plenty of other men (both open-minded and homophobes) who don't have this problem, it feels like a stretch to me.

PATRICK

(12,228 posts)
9. Speculation
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 11:41 AM
Apr 2013

has not been all that helpful in anything except the raw police work that seems to have the Boston cops acting pretty responsibly considering they are dealing with bombers, remote detonations, etc. A couple of precautionary arrests, no one else hurt(by police). Pretty skilled so far.

The perp profile could apply to millions of Americans who never are going to go on a rampage and resembles too much the rush job done on the poor kid still missing earlier last night.

No, what interests me is far far down the mainstream list which follows a script as hidebound as it is uninformative, with some good reason but mainly a lot of comfort room for the establishment.

Was there a security drill going on, possibly involving some of our beloved private contractors which actually provides a lot of cover for bolder thinkers? A lot of terrorism or killings in general have been prevented by what has become routine since 911. In some situations- ironically buried by 911 lack of accountability- they may actually aid terrorism. The question they never wanted asked of a living terrorist is whether they found such things coincidentally helpful, even an actual part of their plan.

These are kids though as they did very little to cover their tracks, were typically not so good with their ordinance, and seem pretty senseless. Suicide bombers in an occupied country does not match the profile, mental disease unknown. So while the nation is on high alert from roused violence on any front it is likely the information laden FBI are more likely to have all sorts of suspects on file that would potentially embarrass them in an aftermath. The news media typically has covered itself with inglory and has almost no use except for doing victim stories and funerals. I can understand the police playing up to that aspect so they can do the real job without too much bother.

The same day 27 people are blown up in Baghdad with zero fanfare or mourning in the US though logically that violence may be related. The news can't help but inspire monsters who love making victims for the media feast. That actually used to be discussed at the time of Richard Speck when the media cared about the living a bit more. The FBI, Senate bill or not, might want to make a note of residents from backgrounds of rabid brutality and bitter war procuring weapons even if strictly prohibited by a government that thrives more on fear than the lulling atmosphere of effective prevention.

As of now this is still puzzling as to the hidden motivation to such extreme acts.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
15. Totally agree with you.
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 01:56 PM
Apr 2013

When human misery crosses a threshold and becomes just another day at the office, we've got work to do. Sadly, I think the result of this is likely to be making some humans even MORE miserable.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
18. No friends...so go ahead a kill innocent strangers
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 02:17 PM
Apr 2013

Brilliant people think things through and come to this conclusion?

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
19. see anomie (and ivory, not together in perfect harmony)
Fri Apr 19, 2013, 02:21 PM
Apr 2013
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anomie

sorry for the bad song parody, but check the link. It probably explains some things.
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