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Scantily-Clad Women Shine Shoes At New Wall Street Shop
Irene Plagianos, DNAinfo.com
Like the Hooters of the shoe-shine world, Star Shine NYC, at 40 New St., employs beautiful, young, scantily clad women to offer a professional service with a view.
Despite the little black shorts and tight tank tops sported by all the female employees, White said the store, which features large leather chairs and flat-screen TVs, is meant to have a classy atmosphere. White also hopes to start serving beer and wine in the store in the next couple of months.
All the young ladies have undergone professional training this is an upscale place, White said. Many of the women are students or just out of college. Even my sister, a college student, is working there.
The store's location, on a short, narrow street between Exchange Place and Beaver Street, doesnt get lots of foot traffic, but White said word of mouth, along with the women passing out fliers on Wall Street in their uniforms, has been drumming up business.
On Wednesday morning, one man, already a repeat customer, was getting his black shoes polished by 19-year-old Kaya Santiago, a Westchester Community College student, in the otherwise empty shop.
They do a good job, said the Wall Streeter, who asked his name not be used because his boss didnt know he was taking an early-morning break. And yes, it helps that they are very pretty but the prices are a little high if you dont get the discount.
Read more: http://www.dnainfo.com/new-york/20130411/financial-district/scantily-clad-ladies-spice-up-shoe-shines-at-new-financial-district-shop#ixzz2QHLqEE5n
Safetykitten
(5,162 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)Those men are scumbags.
Skittles
(153,122 posts)I would never have done that kind of degrading work
redqueen
(115,103 posts)But what about all these kinds of messages?
Skittles
(153,122 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)as being perfectly reasonable and not degrading at all.
They get messages telling them that to do this job, and expect to be taken seriously, is a perfectly reasonable expectation.
Skittles
(153,122 posts)MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)I will freely call the men pigs though.
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)And we have said they were free to make such a choice and should not be judged.
How is this different?
Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)Jesus.
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)Like fast food, go to college for computers, etc?
Ever occur to you they are making choices they want to make?
Bucky
(53,961 posts)And Steinem replied, "Well, there's that plus the other stereotype that we can't get enough of it."
I find the sexual power dynamics of these shoe shine stands degrading and offensive. Therefor I won't ever patronize them and I'll tell my daughter and my female students, if the subject ever comes us, what I think of them.
What I won't due is give a woman who works there a lecture on what a humiliation her job is. She's made her choice already and I have no business running her down for it.
Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)Oh right, nothing.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)I have condemned the men. I have no respect for THE MEN who go to hooters, strip bars, lingerie coffee shops or this type of establishment.
I have heard many a time at my old job "thank God for bad fathers" as men were talking about their weekly trip to the strip bar. I have no respect for those kind of men.
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)But, as noted, earlier we have seen where people protested against Islamic oppression only to be told that women in that religion make their own choices and we should not be condemning for such choices.
There are tons of different job types out there. These women are using their looks to make more money than they might elsewhere because they choose to do so.
They are making money of 'talents', if you will, that they have and others don't.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)Talent my ass. Using looks as a basis for hiring should be illegal.
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)from movies to strippers (male and female). Would anyone in their right mind hire me to be a male stripper?
Some people make money off of their looks. Such is life as it has been since the dawn of time.
Why do folks always have such a problem with people who can and do?
I can't sing either. I would not expect a band to hire me to be a lead singer just to be 'fair'. Why the obsession over people who have physical beauty and parlay that if they so choose into a profession?
People use what they have been given to get what they want - why is that a surprise or bad?
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)How would you control that?
Should I sue GQ because I am not on the cover of it?
What do you have against people who are 'good looking' and use those looks to better their place in life?
It is not always fair or morally right I guess - but you cannot legislate people and how they were born.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)That is all
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)If everyone was rich I doubt they would do any of the jobs they do now.
While trying to get to sleep some nights ago I watched one of the few shows on TV I love and hate to miss, River Monsters with Jeremy Wade.
I didn't catch the whole show (was channel surfing when I got to it) and he was in a small African (I do believe) village. And by small I mean like a handful of people lived there.
It seemed, from what I saw of the show (intermingled with a lot of history books from the 1800's I have read - travel journals and the like) that when it came to the economics of the village all were pretty much equal. People were so dependent on each other that all jobs were important to the survival of the community.
Each person was as important as the next to the survival of the whole.
In our society that ceases to be true as the numbers increase and we can produce more with less people. Wealth (the means to survive) gets concentrated into the hands of the few so the many find themselves doing what they need to in order to best survive and thrive.
Here it is not about just survival but getting more and more. We want as much as if not more than we need. And to fulfill those things we need/desire we use whatever means we have.
For some it is their looks. Others their minds. Others their physical abilities. For some their lack of fear (I won't climb a radio tower to replace a light).
We use what we have to get what we need/want and that genie is not going back into the bottle anytime soon. These women are taking advantage of something they have to get what they want.
And who doesn't do that? And you want to make their ability to do so illegal?
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)HIRING based on looks should be illegal
HIRING
Shivering Jemmy
(900 posts)I don't know what other basis models could be hired on. It's what the industry is. We could outlaw modeling. Don't think that's a viable solution. Seems too difficult to implement. Like prohibition.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)The exemptions are based on being reasonably necessary for the job.
Women modelling women's clothes is reasonable. Breasts of a certain size or proportion is not reasonable to shine shoes. Gender at all is not a reasonable qualification for shoe shining.
Sex as a qualification is used in a NARROW CONTEXT. Hiring or assigning women or men as needed in a nursing home for example.
Shivering Jemmy
(900 posts)Because I don't see a difference in our positions.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)I misread your post.
juajen
(8,515 posts)young and pretty. So, add secretaries, executive assistants, etc, You name it. It's amazing how many jobs are bestowed because of the looks of the candidate, and this includes women and men.
Orrex
(63,173 posts)You've repeated the point several times, but you haven't said why, exactly, it should be illegal to use looks as a basis for hiring.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)It is 2013 and I need to explain that?
Orrex
(63,173 posts)I am familiar with the general thinking on the subject, but since you've mentioned it here repeatedly but haven't explained your thinking despite being asked several times, I'm curious to learn your reasoning.
You have declared that hiring based on looks should be illegal. You have been asked why this should be the case, and you haven't answered.
I'm simply asking for you to articulate your thinking.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)Let's re-open Sambo style restaurants complete with black only staff dressed up like good old fashioned minstrels. As long as the workers have a talent for playing the old Jim Crow Minstrel who am I to criticize? Hell a business has the right to only hire based on skin color. Oh wait no they do not.
Let's create a theme park bringing back the old fashioned court jester or fool. We will only hire people with actual disabilities or people who in the old days would be called half-wits. Let's just make sure they go to a local community college at night. That's the best CYA smoke screen known to man.
How about some banks where we only hire Jews and have them dress up as orthodox Jews complete with payotes. The bank theme could be "Hey Jews are good with money".
It's down right pathetic that no one on DU would defend any of the above ideas but businesses that demean women for entertainment purposes is a Libertarian wet dream and roundly applauded. Only for women though.
Any one of these businesses would be rightly criticized and their customers ridiculed. These shoe shine places should be criticized and the customers ridiculed as well. They should also be shutdown for violating equal employment laws. Hiring outside of entertainment should be based solely on skill sets and talents. Before I get a silly counter argument, looks are not a talent and shoe shining is not entertainment and thinking so is disgusting.
Hooters should be hauled into court and fined for every person who is denied a job because they are either old, overweight or male. So should all the other businesses springing up that only hire young women. Hiring discrimination outside of true entertainment or artistic venues is illegal for very good reasons.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Orrex
(63,173 posts)Why are those venues exempted? Please answer specifically.
If a person with nightmarishly bad teeth but excellent skills as a receptionist applies to work the front desk at a cosmetic dentistry office, must that person be hired in preference to someone else with magnificent teeth and slightly less excellent skills as a receptionist? Why or why not?
Or what if I'm photographing a big magazine ad for sandals? Must the model with open sores and five ingrown and seeping toenails be considered on equal footing, so to speak, as the applicant with the scrupulously well-kept foot? Why or why not?
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)Why do I have to waste my time?
The entertainment industry is at least exercising free speech. When making a movie it would make sense that you hire a woman to play a woman or to create the character you wish to have portrayed. That said it is still stomach turning that we still have the sex sells mentality. We should be pushing for a world where Camryn Manheim gets to play Galadriel and hopefully one day we will be there. The last thing we need to be doing is spreading the disgusting behavior of "beauty" uber alles into even more of our society. We need to put that demon back into the bottle and bury it in the deepest part of the ocean. It is with remorse that we exempt the Entertainment industries. Service industries should not be allowed to spread the filth any further.
As for your strange teeth scenario... It's a cosmetic dentistry office... Hire the more SKILLED individual and offer them, Oh I do know, healthcare and free dental service?
Orrex
(63,173 posts)And if you think that you're wasting your time, then perhaps the issue isn't as simple or as straightforward as you'd like it to be.
What if that person declines the service and opts instead to sit at the desk with a mouthful of bad teeth?
You're arguing that a business has no right to choose how it represents itself to its customers, and you're pretending that one's appearance never has any bearing on one's ability to perform a job outside of the arbitrarily exempted entertainment industry. Why should that be the case? Would you eat at (i.e., hire the services of) a restaurant in which the waitstaff and cooks all look filthy, or would you give them the benefit of the doubt and assume that they probably maintain strict standards of hygiene re: food handling?
You still haven't stated why it should be illegal to consider an applicant's appearance when hiring.
MattBaggins
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to only hiring girls with large breasts.
You have the right to set standards of cleanliness and hygiene for ALL EMPLOYEES. You do not have the right to set a standard that excludes whole swaths of society and only allows one subset employment opportunities.
Of a course a business has limitations on how represents itself. There are plenty of perfectly fine laws that regulate this. Would you really suggest that a business be allowed to only hire blacks and force them to wear Jim Crow Minstrel outfits if that is what they want to provide to their customers? Should a business be allowed to only hire white men? Other than radical crazy fans of Rand Paul I don't know of many people that support legalized discrimination in the work place.
Orrex
(63,173 posts)My example stipulated that the restaurant's employees appear to be filthy, and you imply that your choice to hire/not hire the services of that restaurant would indeed be based on your assessment of their appearance. Now we're getting somewhere, in that you admit that appearance does have a role to play in hiring.
However, you still didn't answer the question about the dental receptionist with bad teeth who refuses treatment for them.
Again, you're dictating how a business should be allowed to represent itself to its customers
Do you argue that there is no bona fide occupational qualifications based on appearance? If so, then that puts you at odds with US code and legal rulings.
Nope. I suggest none of these things. Why do you ask?
If you're about to attempt some equivalency between "girls (sic) with large breasts" and "Jim Crow Minstrels," then I should probably point this out:
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)I am right and I don't care about your silly teeth example.
Again, you're dictating how a business should be allowed to represent itself to its customers
And I have no problem with that.
MAY be considered a bona fide occupational qualification in NARROW CONTEXTS
Orrex
(63,173 posts)It's silly because you can't answer it? Okay.
And sex appeal is, in certain jobs, exactly that kind of narrow context. An attractive male spokesmodel is one example, and I expect that a woman shining shoes in the OP's article would be another.
Just so we're clear, are you saying that sex appeal is never a BFOQ?
You're fine with dictating how businesses must represent themselves to their customers, but you balk when other people or when the businesses themselves try to make similar determinations. Well done--that's mighty patriarchal of you.
I notice also that you omit or ignore those points that you can't refute or answer. Can't say that I'm surprised.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)It is silly because it's silly.
Sex appeal is not required in that type of business. If businesses want to play the the adult entertainment route then they need to regulated as such. Children are not allowed into strip clubs, bars or Playboy ranches. If Hooters or these other types of businesses want to justify discrimination, based on an adult entertainment claim, than they should not allow children into them.
Again I detest Libertarianism and make no apologizes for that. I think the NARROW part of allowing adult entertainment discrimination should be kept as NARROW as possible. Call me crazy but I believe discrimination should be kept to the bare minimum possible. People work tooth and nail to fight eating disorders and the other mental issues foisted on young teens by a stupid sex sells ideal in society. I choose to resist applauding assholes who run businesses based on the very crap we are trying to fight. The creep of sexism and objectification of women and the discrimination against people who do not fit into these molds should be prevented as much as possible.
Above all the men who go to such places are pigs and should be called as such.
Orrex
(63,173 posts)And your refusal to answer a straightforward question suggests more and more strongly either that you don't have an answer or that your answer is inconsistent with what you've been arguing so far.
I don't believe that Hooters, for instance, has made any sort of "adult entertainment claim." Instead, they have argued that their servers contribute to a particular atmosphere and brand distinctiveness. I'm not sure why you automatically need to lump sexuality in with adult entertainment, but perhaps that's another discussion.
I've never been to a Hooters, so I defer to your knowledge of what goes on there. If it's adult entertainment along the lines of a strip club, then I guess you might be right. Is there nudity at a Hooters? Lap dancing?
Or is it simply a number of tightly-clad but fully dressed waitresses serving overpriced and fair-to-average food?
What about women who go to strip clubs? What should they be called? I want to make sure that I get this right.
A person's appearance has factored heavily into that person's acceptance since long before recorded history, and it's very likely to continue to do so long after those women have moved on from their shoe-shining gigs. If you disagree, then point me to that enlightened period of history in which appearance was held to be entirely irrelevant.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)It's discrimination plain and simple. It is not reasonable to claim that breasts are part of the job qualifications to either shine shoes or to server food and they should be denied the right to do so. The next middle aged black man that applies for a server position at Hooters and is denied should receive a nice fat multi million dollar settlement.
No Shaque should not be given the slot of Harry Potter. That would fit in the REASONABLE exclusion case. Claiming that women with large breasts are needed to serve food is not REASONABLE.
I have no respect for anyone that goes to strip clubs male or female so call them what ever you want.
A person's appearance has factored heavily into that person's acceptance since long before recorded history
ad antiquitam? One of the reasons I consider myself a Democrat and not a Republican is that I don't believe we have to continue down stupid paths just because "it's how it's done".
Orrex
(63,173 posts)Again, you have omitted the questions that you can't answer, and you'll probably claim next that they're silly or absurd or whatever.
You have simply refused to acknowledge reasonable examples of jobs in which appearance is a legitimate factor (dental receptionist, shoe model, etc.). Instead, you've stuck your fingers in your ears and merely repeated "Are not! Are not!"
A little reading on Wiki shows that Hooters has already gone down that road and has come through it in a stronger position than they were before. Specifically, they secured the right to continue to hire waitresses of a certain aesthetic, because these employees constitute part of the brand's distinctiveness. However, bartenders and the like must be hired without regard to sex.
Nor am I arguing for that fallacy, though you seem to want to suggest that I should call myself Republican.
It is undeniable that we have used appearance as a factor in our decision-making for thousands upon thousands of years. That fact is not, in itself, justification for continuing the practice simply for tradition's sake; it's an indication that the practice has a great deal of momentum behind it.
Further, if appearance-favoritism is hard-wired into us (and it may be), then it's going take more than a little fuming on an anonymous internet forum to change it. Good luck with that, as I said.
I would be interested to read what exactly you consider to be a "reasonable" exclusion in this context.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)Hooters should lose every single one of them. The laws on discrimination should be tightened even more and broadened to include more groups.
Orrex
(63,173 posts)If your utopia comes to pass, and only the entertainment industry is exempted your egalitarian ideal (for reasons that you won't or can't articulate), then Hooters would immediately declare itself an entertainment facility, and your noble crusade would be right back where it started.
Likewise, these shoeshine facilities would declare that their female employees are entertainers, performance artists who also shine shoes.
Worse, workers reclassified in this way will likely be considered independent contractors; they'll lose any benefits that they might otherwise receive, and they'll be responsible for 100% of their own tax reporting.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)and they could easily be denied. It is also completely fair to tax such businesses at a higher rate for being allowed to skirt discrimination laws.
They do not have to be reclassified as contractors. That is another lax system of laws that needs serious fixing.
Orrex
(63,173 posts)We've more or less gotten down to brass tacks here.
You're arguing in favor of an imaginary ideal that has never existed and which is inconsistent with current laws that you find to need "serious fixing." In addition, you still haven't explained why the entertainment industry enjoys latitude that other indusries MUST NOT EVER!!!!!!!!!!!1!
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)again this is not Libertarian Underground and I have no desire to waste anymore time arguing Libertarian points.
If you can not find the meaning of reasonable for someone making a movie versus people serving food or shining shoes then I simply can not help you. Your view of the world and mine are simply to vastly different. I can not stand discrimination and you seem to applaud it.
Orrex
(63,173 posts)So, in your view, making a movie entitles one to hire based on appearance. Fair enough.
What other forms of entertainment qualify? And why or why not?
You have declared that, for the entertainment industry, it's a matter of free speech. Why is it not also free speech for other industries? Why does entertainment get to enjoy this special privilege, but other industries must not?
I don't "applaud" discrimination, nor am I a Libertarian, so that's two baseless accusations that you've made. Instead, I'm asking you to identify where you draw distinctions between acceptable appearance-based hiring and unacceptable appearance-based hiring.
I'm sure that you'll go to sleep tonight thinking that you've proven your point, and if you want to believe that then I say more power to you.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)The allowing of such leeway for entertainment and not other industries is because of the overall deleterious effect on society by doing so and the fact that manufacturing and service industries are not primarily producing either art or speech. I have said this repeatedly but the exceptions for allowed discrimination should be NARROW as the law states to provide fairness in employment.
We had many years of no worker rights and legal discrimination and we do not need to go back down that road.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)WhaTHellsgoingonhere
(5,252 posts)...made me have a similar reaction. I wouldn't have noticed if the shoe shiners were white.
I guess, in the end, when things don't look or feel right, that should raise an internal flag: There's either something wrong with it or me.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)black guys. It really symbolizes the power relationship.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Squinch
(50,924 posts)I always thought that that power relationship you refer to told me all I needed to know about the men who were getting their shoes shined.
The ones doing the shining did it because they had to make a living, and this was available.
The ones getting the shines were, it always seemed to me, so needy of a feeling of dominance, so childish in their need to have a "king of the hill" moment, that they were willing to sit on those thrones in public places and make a display of it.
We did have a guy in our building who went from office to office shining shoes. We took our shoes off, invited him to sit in our guest chairs while he shined the shoes, and treated him like a person. He was a member of the office community.
That was someone doing a job for remuneration. This "sit at my feet and serve me" nonsense is something else.
Bay Boy
(1,689 posts)...don't the customers have to sit a throne-like chair in order to do this? Not unlike a barber shop.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)is much easier to shine than one with a foot in it. So how did this "throned man with servant at his feet" arise?
And barbers don't sit at the feet of the customer.
Bay Boy
(1,689 posts)not their feet.
grahamhgreen
(15,741 posts)olddots
(10,237 posts)yeah but dots people need jobs ..........bla bla
Bucky
(53,961 posts)Quick gut check: how would you feel if the women were wearing burkas?
NoPasaran
(17,291 posts)I hope you're not expecting to make much in tips.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)10 from every customer.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)they will make good tips no doubt. Yeah, too bad this is what it takes to get women not only equal pay but a living wage. In a perverse way I don't mind relieving what looks like Wall Street bankers of some of their money.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)Skittles
(153,122 posts)MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)refer to that as "natural talents"
Cleita
(75,480 posts)The women who wore skimpy outfits back in the forties and fifties as cocktail waitresses and cigarette girls, the playboy bunnies and any number of jobs involving alcohol where women had to shake their booties and boobs at the men. It was the only way for a woman to make a living wage back then. I worked with a woman who had been a Las Vegas showgirl. She had four children and when the time came when they were required to go topless, she refused, because she didn't want her kids to have to say mom was a topless showgirl. However, she didn't make enough money as a secretary to feed and support them and soon went back to being a showgirl and topless at that.
Nay
(12,051 posts)had to do such degrading stuff, up to and including prostitution. Welcome to the new patriarchy. It's just like the old one.
limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)she owes so much student loans to banks that she works as a call girl for wall street bankers to help pay off her student loans.
Riftaxe
(2,693 posts)I suspect they are making quite a bit more then a group of fat old men who decided to form a company and shine shoes.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Response to Cleita (Reply #61)
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seabeyond
(110,159 posts)KoKo
(84,711 posts)our "Entrepreneurial Society." It's what Wall Street says we should all be doing ...because our country has DEBT.
I didn't know what to make of it except that People Have to Make a Living...any way they can.
This is a new example of how folks make a living in our society these days. Black Shoe Shine Boys in the 30's and now Hooter Shoe Shine Gals in the 2013's.
What do YOU make of that? I frankly think it's "People Have to Do What They Have to Do to Pay Their Bills." If they don't like the work..find something else. After all we have a Second Term Elected Dem President. They don't HAVE TO DO THIS...if they Don't want to... Correct?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)so they can eat, to arrgoantly walk into an office and have to deal with women in a professional manner.
not directed at you.
just disgusted with any man that would be so creepy to use the girls, and disappointed in the girls.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)something so vile and loath that you thought I agreed with it.
I don't know what to think of it but what I replied to you. THIS...is our NEW AMERICAN SOCIETY.
I HATE IT...but, it's the reality. FOLKS GOTTA DO...WHAT THEY GOTTA DO. We have elected for a Second Term a President who believes in "Jerking yourself UP by your Bootstraps."
I know most today don't know what BootStraps are...it's sort of from the days when Farmers and others used to pull those tabs and Jerk the Boots on..to GET OUT THERE AND DO WHAT THEY HAD TO DO..
That's my "growing up impression" of what the term meant. Probably WIKI would give the whole scoop on that one...
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)KoKo
(84,711 posts)in their opinions. So...if they don't mind...no one is making them do it...but if they can't pay their bills and find this a way to do it ...then they gotta do what they gotta do. They don't have to "hook up" with the Wall Street Banker Afterwards. They can collect their money and go home and Study or whatever else they like to do with their lives.
It's a "New THing!" I wouldn't do it nor want my daughter to...but, as I said...I've had friends who would find this Fun and a Lark..
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)at the expense of all women.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)at the detriment of all women. these assholes will now go into an office with women that use their brains, not their body. but in all their egocentric self, they will see those women as mere body. no more than the women that shine their shoes.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)they are "In with the Guys" intimately all the time. They don't see their Sexuality as Different from Males.
The question is imho?...what ABOUT those FEMALES who are NON-Agressive...who choose to be "Out there Competing with the GUYS" ...but don't want to get into the SEXUAL STUFF. It's FUN for SOME Women...but to others it's DEGRADING and DEMEANING of WHO THEY ARE.
BUT...if you want to PLAY BIG TIME...WITH THE GUYS....You GOTTA BEND to TALK, PLAY ROUGH and TUSSELL..
That's the question that I HAVE....and see the conflicts that I have?
But the YOUNGER COMING UP...really don't have a PROBLEM with Competition with Men because they play sports with them...they go into Military with Them...and they are EQUAL WITH THEM.
BUT...ARE THEY?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)the equalizer. that simple. makes it that much harder for all women. ya, they will preserver. cause it is what women have to do. but will not make it any easier for them.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)to shining the moneyed white man shoes.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)Last edited Sat Apr 13, 2013, 12:12 AM - Edit history (1)
or something, though. They are the Entrepreneurs...doing what Wall Street Says we Need to do to Combat the Deficit...(the Deficit that They Created with their Criminality that neither Obama nor Eric Holder thought was WORTH PROSECUTING!"
Sorry to shout with the caps...too tired to do the "Bold Thing" and fingers are tired...
KoKo
(84,711 posts)Please read and reply about how young Women Today want to be included in a Male Society...
BUT...what are the ramifications and consequences. If they are READY FOR IT...then why Trash Them?
It's the ones who find Military the Last Resort for Employment that I worry about...and those who pay for College Debt by doing things that might seem borderline...co-option for their Sexuality ..is what I worry about.
Let the Competitive Females COMPETE...but those who are FORCED TO COMPETE... Should they need "OTHER OUTLETS"...I think that's what I'm asking. But, I'm tired. and probably not putting this out there well enough to get my point across...so I'll leave this off.
Rex
(65,616 posts)NO matter how repugnant the picture or article may be. Class warfare and sexism all in one article/pic.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)hormones. this picture feeds that very situation.
ya. pissed.
sister of outraged whatever. ok.
again. not about you, or koko
Rex
(65,616 posts)That is something I thought about too when I saw this thread or namely the picture. Sometimes I feel like we are getting nowhere when I read articles and see pictures like that.
Of course someone will come in here eventually and lecture us, 'at least they are not selling their bodies for sex'. Ya maybe not but they are selling their bodies. Which is sad to me, but not that all important to many in the grand scheme of things. To many it means nothing at all.
limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)Exactly right. To be sure, none of these ladies are wealthy people.
Rex
(65,616 posts)he knew he could make money from conflict and power and obvious sexism. If that is what he means by 'class'. I am curious.
deutsey
(20,166 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)Just how classy is that?
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Skittles
(153,122 posts)*EGREGIOUS*
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Nay
(12,051 posts)Hell Hath No Fury
(16,327 posts)raises in me. Wrong on SO many levels.
zappaman
(20,606 posts)"As for the women, the two working Wednesday said theyve enjoyed their shoe-shine jobs so far.
Its actually fun, Santiago said. Everyones been nice, and it's something to do while I'm in school.
"And the tips can be good, usually."
RadiationTherapy
(5,818 posts)So cool! So contrarian!! hahahahahahaha
zappaman
(20,606 posts)I don't see it as cool as much ado about nothing though.
RadiationTherapy
(5,818 posts)And it is "cool"...people look at this scenario and are all, like, "Oh no!!" and you are all, like, "What's the bigs??" And then people are all like, "but that sucks and our economy!!" and stuff and you are all like, "It's legal! They chose it!" So contrarian!
zappaman
(20,606 posts)And I'm all like "Ok, but you look silly".
And you're all like "I don't care and will double down on my silliness!"
Cool.
RadiationTherapy
(5,818 posts)In this thread, that was right here.
zappaman
(20,606 posts)I guess that just means they want attention?
RadiationTherapy
(5,818 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)It's only Jesus freaks and fundie conservatives who object to this stuff.
Those are liberal, progressive dudes there, supporting working women!
The people objecting here? All either hardcore religious types and conservatives, all of them.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)PRUDES I TELL YOU
Squinch
(50,924 posts)HughBeaumont
(24,461 posts)The shine recipients need to be CHOPPED.
Rex
(65,616 posts)to the Corporate Predator rank then it does to me. For me class means you have impeccable mannerisms...for them class means a social stratification system meant to keep people separated in terms of income.
What this picture is of, is a group of men that are for a caste system and the working class that has to endure the obvious sexism of conflict and power.
It's about class sexism.
BTW, are there any scantily-dressed men performing the same act for the women and gay males on Wall Street? No? The hell you say!
The fact that there isn't proves the sexism. The pictures shows the class warfare.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)English language that captured the meaning of "douchebag" because it's darn near impossible to accurately describe the typical 25-35 year old on Wall Street without it.
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)olddots
(10,237 posts)50s & 60s the same smirking faces that haunt all good humans ..
the days of the shoe shine stand are fucking over ----if these little tapeworms want their tassel loafers all shiny they can learn how to do something productive with their soft little hands.
I am over reacting ? NO!
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)I wonder if the people who are so offended by this even understand that, well basically forever, this work was expected to be performed by black "Shoe Shine Boys".
Where was the indignation about that? Frankly I find this "one issue indignation" to be tiresome. If this job is degrading, then we should give all the victims the same consideration. It didn't become degrading once attractive young women decided to do it. And one might just consider the possibility that some of the practitioners actually enjoy the job and would prefer that to sitting at a desk all day pushing paper around or cleaning people's teeth.
Believe it or not, I actually know a few women who enjoy attention -- even seek it out, if you can believe that.
Rex
(65,616 posts)comes from the fact that historically it was a young boy that was trying to make money to help the family. I don't know if the kids felt degraded, probably happy to help support their family and have enough left over for a loaf of bread.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)feel degraded. If they do, then perhaps they should take up a different occupation.
But I would note that the term "shoe shine boy" remained even when it became more common for this job to be performed by black men. I don't know if they felt the job was degrading, but referring to them as "boys" sure as hell was -- still is.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)It was only about 40 years ago that a black police officer could not actually make an arrest of a white person in my city. The protocol was that they could detain a white person, but they had to call in a white officer to make the arrest. And often as not, the white officer would let the white prisoner go.
I live in a very red part of south Texas and have heard some small towns still push segregation.
muriel_volestrangler
(101,272 posts)So, yes, DUers are perfectly aware of the history of the 'shoe shine' position and the racial links.
olddots
(10,237 posts)Squinch
(50,924 posts)black men who were referred to as "shoe shine boys?" Do you think that was acceptable, or do you think it was racist and demeaned the black men?
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)As far as I can tell, they are not being forced to do this job any more than a waitress at Hooters is forced to do that. I assume they find the income better than they can get from other jobs.
I believe in consenting adults making their own choices as long as there is no coercion involved.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)And, you didn't answer the question: do you think it was acceptable that the work was expected to have been done by black men, and that they were referred to as "shoe-shine boys?"
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)What was not acceptable was denying black folks opportunities for other jobs across the employment spectrum such that their choices were limited to the least desirable jobs.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)And so you are agreeing that this was among the least desireable jobs, and that these grown men were forced to take it because their choices were limited to the least desireable jobs.
But if we change it to women and we take away some clothing, suddenly it is all their own choice.
Innnnteresting!
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)it may be an age thing.
Some younger generations do not understand why calling grown men "boy" may get you an earful.
Same as people who get confused that some people bristle when they hear eenie meenie miney moe.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)think of a man who is older than you and who you respect. Would you ever refer to him, in his professional capacity, as "boy?"
Blue Streak also equated the terms "shoe-shine slut" and "shoe-shine boy." Which is quite problematic. And he insisted that the women were choosing to do the job presumably for the love of the work, but said that the black men did the job because they had few choices for other employment.
I'd say these positions need some further thought.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)I think Hooters and the whole lot should be shut down for discrimination.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)was degrading. Get your story straight before you toss around implications of racism here. I take that very seriously, and I am calling you out on that. That was a cheap shot.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)something other than what you wrote, say so. There was no cheap shot there. There was a response to what you wrote.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)Obviously the term "boy" is a term of subjugation and my response specifically addressed that.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)I know perfectly well about the racism built into the term "boy". See my response to the original misquote. Hopefully if everybody takes a few reading lessons we can all get along better.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)if the JOB was degrading, not the job title "shoe shine boy". And I answered.
Obviously, referring to an adult as "boy" is an insult. But that isn't what you asked. Get your story straight before you start accusing others of things.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)"do you think it was acceptable that the work was expected to have been done by black men, and that they were referred to as "shoe-shine boys?"
Here is what you answered: "Sure, it was acceptable, if it wasn't done in a subjugating way"
I didn't misquote you, nor was I disingenuous. I do have my story straight. If you didn't mean what you said, that is not my fault.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)I don't think there will be one other than:
I'd most like to hear the explanation of how, when men did this work, they were victims of limited choice. But the women do it because they are choosing to, and happy to, because they can work their way through college and get the attention they crave from men while they are at it.
Everyone is so happy in this version of events! Both the women, who are ecstatic for the opportunity - and the fun! - and the men, because, you know, they get to imagine ... stuff. Everyone is SO happy that I wouldn't be surprised if some Disney chipmunks showed up and started singing happy shoe-shine songs! I am guessing that, in this version, the limited clothing is due to the heat of the joy emanating from their happy hearts.
Equating the terms "shoe-shine boy" and "shoe-shine slut" seems to require some explanation as well.
Skittles
(153,122 posts)really?
hunter
(38,304 posts)Fuck, if I was emperor those smiling shiny shod clowns would be cleaning out the city sewers with their neckties.
Congratulations, sexist racist plutocratic USA! You've laid yet another turd.
badtoworse
(5,957 posts)dballance
(5,756 posts)You had to go for a female genital slang reference to get a laugh? Not very classy.
badtoworse
(5,957 posts)It's gotten me in trouble more times than I can count.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)MrSlayer
(22,143 posts)It's times like these where I think this site is just ridiculous. People are advocating that these customers be killed or castrated for getting a fucking shoe shine? That they're the scum of the Earth for patronizing this business? Seriously? Putting the fact that they're Wall Street pigs aside, it's flat out crazy.
These girls aren't being forced to blow these guys or anything of the sort and their outfits aren't all that scanty. They're there of their free will and, according to the story, like working there. I'm seriously failing to see why this is a big deal.
Maybe we can get together with the uber conservative Jesus freaks and shut the place down.
olddots
(10,237 posts)MrSlayer
(22,143 posts)This is folly.
Want to trade cliches?
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MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)would that be discrimination?
Can't we at a minimum have a "zero tolerance for Libertarian nonsense" at DU.
Laelth
(32,017 posts)But discrimination happens all the time, and most of it is perfectly legal. It's only illegal to discriminate against someone if they fall into a protected class, and 300 pound men are not a protected class in the United States. Nor are homosexuals, for that matter. We are all free to discriminate against homosexuals at will. They get no legal protection at this time. One hopes this may change in the future, but we are a long way away from a world in which it is illegal to discriminate against 300 pound men.
-Laelth
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)you can not discriminate in hiring based on gender unless you can prove a reasonable reason for the job requiring in.
siligut
(12,272 posts)Meaning these are quality women, not only attractive but intelligent and ambitious. How often are high-class call girls in the movies also college students? This article should be in Playboy.
Just creating a sweet little scenario for the money men.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)Next you're going to tell me that all those call girls and strippers who say they are working their way through college aren't either!
And then it's a slippery slope till you are saying that sex workers DIDN'T choose their line of work just because they really like sex!!!!!
There are some men in this thread who are going to be really disappointed that women don't do these things because they are just the girl next door who finds all that male attention lots of fun.
dballance
(5,756 posts)than it already is?
KoKo
(84,711 posts)So Chime in...you're welcome to post your opinion and DISCUSS.
I don't see anything here that's a problem. It's a DISCUSSION....
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limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)Squinch
(50,924 posts)cpwm17
(3,829 posts)The purpose of life is to enjoy oneself while doing no harm.
The extreme hatred against these men based on personal prejudices is alarming. They are harming no one. Their enjoyment does not make the world worse in any way.
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cpwm17
(3,829 posts)but if I did, it would be her choice. It would be her life, and she would be harming no one.
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Skittles
(153,122 posts)women have a tough time getting taken seriously and crap like this does NOT help - don't say it doesn't harm anyone - it DOES
cpwm17
(3,829 posts)In most contexts one shouldn't judge people by their looks. This bad habit is driven by our emotions. Demeaning people just for their looks is a pet-peeve of mine. I see this happen all of the time. It doesn't just happen to women.
In some contexts it is appropriate to judge people by their looks, such as choosing your mate or determining who has the potential to be successful in the entertainment industry.
We all must take advantage of whatever advantages nature gave us. Life isn't always fair.
Skittles
(153,122 posts)no we do NOT
cpwm17
(3,829 posts)I didn't proof read it well enough.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)the fact that so many can not see this is disheartening at the least.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)all powerful and shit looking down amused on the lessors and their parts.
feh.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)and no makeup? And why should it be limited to young attractive females?
KoKo
(84,711 posts)I don't think so. They want to HOOK UP with them....AFTER HOURS... I don't think those Gals will go for that, though. There's too much competition from "other sources" .....if you get my drift.
But then..what do I know...Might be a new form of prostitution for a few of the Shoe Shiners. I had a couple of girlfriends...Well ..never mind about that. HOOK UP's...they didn't take Money...they enjoyed moving their career forward. It was what it was.
treestar
(82,383 posts)Seems like discrimination.
undeterred
(34,658 posts)So unless they're turned on by boys...
limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)Every wonder why rich people never choose prostitution as a career? (Not that these women are prostitutes)
People don't always get to chose where they work.
If people were choosing it, we would expect to see rich people are just as likely to choose this line of work as poor people.
It's not completely a choice in my mind. Poor people are compelled to do degrading things to get money.
If it was only a matter of choice we wouldn't be so sickened by it.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)"she is working her way through college and is really happy for the opportunity" or "she's doing this because she freely chose to do this" or "some women just really like sex/attention/men" know it as well as the rest of us. It seems to me that they say these things to justify their own actions and attitudes. And in doing it, they broadcast their own actions and attitudes.
(Prediction: someone will argue against this by quoting a porn star who insists that she is doing porn because she chooses to.)
limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)I went for a job at a donut shop. The manager told me he doesn't want somebody that's just in it for the money. They want somebody who is passionate and excited about working in the donut industry. So I said yes I'm really passionate and excited about working in the donut industry. Acting and pretending to enjoy it is part of the deal.
WinniSkipper
(363 posts)And rich people don't do jobs that don't pay enough. I can't tell if you are talking about shoe shining or prostitution when you refer to "this line of work" - but a 'rich' person is most likely not doing anything that pays less than they already make. Shoe shiner would fall under that category.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)few months that I worked in a Wall Street company. Date rape was a common occurrence among women who dated colleagues from the company, women's appearance was routinely rated and commented upon in front of the women themselves, the worst sexist slurs were used in anger against women. Women advancing in their careers were as rare as snowballs in July, while idiot former frat boys were routinely promoted. It was one of the most disgusting, and most eye-opening experiences I have ever had. Turned me into a dedicated feminist.
This business will fit right in there.
KoKo
(84,711 posts)and some of the commenters on articles have also. Wall Street has thrived on Sexism. When I worked in Publishing in NYC many years ago before it died..."Sleep your Way to the Top" was true of both Men and Women. We knew who they were and we shut up about it if we were low level. If we were disgusted with it we found some other way to make a living. Mostly it was just "look the other way" and gossip at lunch about "who was doing it with whom." It was a fact of life...it probably hasn't changed that much for the "Cut Throat Ambitious" in competitive businesses...because what do they care? If they have wealthy family behind them...(as many did) it really is just a matter of "settlement" of a rape lawsuit. And believe me..there were not any "rape lawsuits" if you wanted to get ahead in that competitive environment.
It's the innocent not in Competition who are young and taken advantage of today that need to be protected. Because our culture had now morphed it down to the youngest and most vulnerable of of these kids. They aren't working on Wall Street in Big Cities...who know the rules and how to score and competitively Score to the TOP.. They should never be included in that kind of competition. They are young and vulnerable.
JI7
(89,241 posts)way with you.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)essentially the same thing (gross exploitation, assault) to the global economy, and got ALL of us in the process!
Out of little acorns, and all that.
mwrguy
(3,245 posts)I hear that happens, what with all that flammable wax and all.
Denis 11
(280 posts)I grew up in the Bronx, we respected any honest endeavor. I don't see anything offensive being done by either the girls or their customers.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)as bad as men who go to hooters.
treestar
(82,383 posts)or prostitution.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)10 years in the Army left me with two simple rules. I would never have someone else shine my shoes nor clean my toilet. Those are two task people should do themselves to stay honest.
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Initech
(100,043 posts)Although anything that makes the Wall St. criminals spend their hard stolen dollars I'm all for it!
pa28
(6,145 posts)That's because these guys would paying taxes and those girls would be attending college tuition free.
The shoe shining bit would exist in the fetish community only.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)Squinch
(50,924 posts)BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)What evidence is there that any of these women find that job degrading?
Why do you jump to that conclusion?
Do you have any special qualifications that allow you to look into other people's minds like that?
The only evidence the article provides us is this:
As for the women, the two working Wednesday said they have enjoyed their shoe-shine jobs so far.
Its actually fun, Santiago said. Everyones been nice, and it's something to do while I'm in school.
"And the tips can be good, usually."
Squinch
(50,924 posts)that required me to wear a uniform with a very short skirt and a very low cut shirt. You were expected to smile and "be friendly," or you were fired. In return you were paid well.
I understand, as you evidently don't, that when you are in that position there are a lot of very shitty men who are going to treat you like you can be bought. There might be some who will treat you with goodwill, but there will be plenty that will see you as an object and treat you accordingly.
I assure you, it is demeaning.
I lasted about 3 months before I couldn't take any more and got a regular waitress job that paid less but wasn't demeaning. That was about an average tenure there.
As you yourself pointed out upthread, this is a crap job. These women didn't take it because they have a lot of other options - again, as you yourself pointed out upthread. They want to keep this job. When asked if they like the job they aren't going to answer, "no, it sucks and I hate it."
I know that there were NO women who worked with me years ago in that bar who didn't hate the job, and who didn't deeply disrespect most of the men they were smiling at and flirting with.
BlueStreak
(8,377 posts)I have had a lot of jobs that were demeaning, or at least below my aspirations. We make choices. Sometimes we choose jobs that involve compromise and sacrifice as stepping stones to a better place. I think we should let these woman make those choices themselves. If they do that for 3 or 4 months and earn enough money to pay for a semester of college, who are we to say that is wrong?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)strawman.
it is the repercussion of societal behavior that collectively effects all women and the role women play, that is the discussion. and male privilege and entitlement.
these women get to do what ever the fuck they want to do.
no one is saying they are not allowed to do these job.
we are talking about the jobs themselves and the societal issue with the job.
Squinch
(50,924 posts)you DON'T know what I am talking about.
As you mentioned up-thread when referring to black men shining shoes, these women are only making this choice because their choices are very limited.
And if you think a few months at this job will pay for a semester of college, you are seriously kidding yourself.
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pintobean
(18,101 posts)They're wearing shorts, a tank top, and a bra. They'd be dressed the same way at a gym or on campus, and they're covered a lot more than if they were at the beach.
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Upton
(9,709 posts)If not, I don't see a problem. Heck of a lot better than wearing layers of clothing, which some here would obviously prefer they do, and living under a bridge. These women appear to be enjoying themselves and that's all that matters. it's really nobody else's business..
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)paying for the pleasure of having subservient women on their knees shining their shoes. Who could have a problem with this?
Isn't it amazing how many DUers turn themselves into Ayn Rand disciples when it comes to women doing degrading work by choice ?
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)For libertarian bullshit. Five strikes for that should result in a pizza.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)morality crusader bullshit check-box.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)for DU against morality crusading. There are specific rules against espousing right wing drivel. Greens on this website are reminded every so often to be aware that this is not Green Underground and to act accordingly. Perhaps it is not a bad idea to point out that this site is also not Libertarian Underground and Ayn Rand is not welcome?
pintobean
(18,101 posts)is not a right wing position. I think morality crusading is more in line with the right wing.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)Last edited Sat Apr 13, 2013, 12:11 PM - Edit history (1)
is hands down, without any argument, an ultra right wing Libertarian ideal.
So is trying to coach it as a bullshit individual choice meme. It is the dirtiest most insidious of right wing arguments and should not be tolerated on DU.
Rand Paul is in favor of doing away with the civil rights act and allowing businesses to do what ever they damn well please. His acolytes on DU ought to be shown the door. Kindly though. With a best wishes pat on the back and all that.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)if you think my position is right wing.
Take your case to a jury, rather than making lame public insults and assigning your own meaning to my words.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)I was talking to sufrommich about Ayn Rand veiws on DU. You chose to enter the discussion and make this about you, not I.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)you don't think the community would agree with you. I didn't make this about me, you did.
MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)when I made a comment to another poster and YOU entered the convo? You are most welcome to join in, but you can not say I made this about you.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)especially if it's true. Anyone can read this sub-thread and see that it is.
zappaman
(20,606 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)No one over the age of about 13 is interested in their views on morality. That they would like to have their morality enforced by moderation/bans shows a troubling similarity between them and right-wingers.
The funny thing is that the jury virtually always sides against them, which is why they hate juries.
DCBob
(24,689 posts)sad.
TheManInTheMac
(985 posts)dirty, way down in my soul, if I got my shoes shined here. I won't eat at Hooters either; I don't know if their food is good or not. I don't care. There's a chain of hair cut places here in the Cleveland area where you can get your hair cut by attractive, scantily clad women. They could be the best barbers in the world and I wouldn't go there.
I wouldn't object to having my shoes shined by a beautiful woman, or having my food served or hair cut by one either, but when it is part of the company's business model, I just find it distasteful and would be as uncomfortable patronizing that business as I would be going into a topless bar or a porno theater.
Maybe it's because I have a daughter (I can't hear that song "I Think about You" without crying). Maybe it's because I'm getting old. Maybe it's just because I don't like seeing people treated like a damn commodity.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)thank you for your post.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Beautiful post. Thank you again.
Nay
(12,051 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)too many men get that not only is it insulting to women, it is really pathetically insulting to men, also. really, more so. the fools that do not get that.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)Your daughter has a great and good dad. Thank you, for she will look for a partner with your good qualities when and if she decides to. Having a strong father is just as important as a strong ma, for both girls and boys.
Thanks! You've made the world better today.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)giving. you are so right on.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)quinnox
(20,600 posts)I wouldn't be surprised to see this spread from New York to other big cities like L.A.
And of course there is nothing wrong with it, I bet these girls make a whole lot more money than other jobs such as McDonalds or so on, that they might be working at instead.
KharmaTrain
(31,706 posts)I saw this ad a couple days ago and thought how sexist and demeaning this place appears to be:
My bets are the cuts cost $25 and the women working there are lucky to make minimum wage and have to rely on tips...
NoGOPZone
(2,971 posts)and I'm thinking it's the Hooters of the shoe shine world because it offers a subpar product at a high price.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)MattBaggins
(7,897 posts)would have been followed with the word "broads".
Will it ever change?
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zappaman
(20,606 posts)is scantily clad.
tammywammy
(26,582 posts)Suffice to say, I don't think a tank top and shorts that aren't showing butt cheek are all that "scantily".
I think the local sports bar I went to with bikini tops and barely there "shorts" was scantily clad, I never went back the food wasn't even that great.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)But I didn't choose the adjective 'scantily'. It's in the headline at the link.
athenasatanjesus
(859 posts)Every business that uses women workers like this has found a legal loophole to discriminate against workers,use them up in their prime then throw them away,and yet there are some liberals that will defend this business model.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)Ilsa
(61,690 posts)Can't we shine our shoes without looking for something (and someone) else to publicly fantasize about?
What's next? Speedo-clad butchers in the meat market for the gals?
redqueen
(115,103 posts)That's why it's so popular and used in so many types of businesses.
edbermac
(15,933 posts)Why not?
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)Orrex
(63,173 posts)Skittles
(153,122 posts)badtoworse
(5,957 posts)In 19 years, I've never seen my wife shine her shoes. I've never seen a women at a shoe shine stand either.
WinniSkipper
(363 posts)...but 15 years and never a shine.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Despite the food being shit, they're still popular somehow. We have a dozen bikini coffee stands around here.
Sexing up an ordinary service is a successful business strategy and always has been.
olddots
(10,237 posts)JI7
(89,241 posts)available to them it's an issue.
i'm sure many guys would like to think the women who do this type of work enjoy it and enjoy the attention given by these guys but most don't .
and there are people who are wealthy or well off who do work that doesn't pay as well or not much. doctors, musicians, teachers etc. people who don't need to work often do things because they want to.
but it's never things like in the OP .
when we talk about people who work at walmart, mcdonalds etc we don't pretend "it's their choice" and how they must love the job . so why is it when it comes to things like the OP people turn into libertarians.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Say this shoe-shine shuts its doors. Okay, now these women have fewer options. It's Walmart or McDonald's for less pay.
The problem isn't that they are wearing skimpy outfits shining shoes, the problem is the pay at the alternatives. The responses to this thread indicate offense at the sexual implications of the job, not the pay.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)who cares? say the business shuts its doors and goes elsewhere. now they have fewer options. somewhere that pays 1 buck a day.
women have to smile at the sexist bullshit the men will throw their way. ya, i know all you men think you are really cute and the woman is really enjoying your sexist banter as she is on her knees shining your shoes. but she takes the bullshit, that she would not have to take elsewhere because men get that this is set up for them to have free will at being creeps and jerks and the women get to "pretend" they are all into it for a male ego. now that the men have had their morning of being entertained by reducing a woman to his sexual objectification, he can go off and concur the world.
skimpy outfit?
you do not read much reducing it to skimpy outfit. it is the reason and the message for that skinpy outfit that is the issue, not what the women are wearing.
any kind of understanding on your part? no
Avalux
(35,015 posts)Only pretty ones, I'm sure.
HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)99Forever
(14,524 posts)... at as they shine the shoes, who the heck are we to question them?
We aren't supposed to say anything as they steal our tiny safety net for the most vulnerable, why should the 1% objectifying and degrading women be open for discussion?
(think before you kneejerk, okay?)
octothorpe
(962 posts)Assuming you'd be hired for the same reasons and get the same pay and tips? Would you take it? If so, would you feel demeaned by it?
I'm thinking I would take it if I didn't have other skills or couldn't find anything else (college student). I don't know if I'd feel demeaned though. I'm kind of an ugly bastard now, but back a few years ago I was slightly less ugly and I was in situations where one might say I was objectified (I think?). I didn't find it demeaning or offensive. Although, it might be different for guys since we don't usually get bombarded with such things constantly. Although, I do know if I was able to use my looks to my advantage, I would exploit them as long as I could. I mean, I'd hope I'd also develop other traits/skills/talents, but I wouldn't totally use them as much as I could.