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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsUh oh, Tweety just ran a clip where Michelle O. calls herself a "single mother."
She corrected it quickly, tho.
Michelle DOES have a big burden of the childraising right now. As much help as she has, it is still a difficult job. Bless her for doing it...
Tempest
(14,591 posts)Considering how often her husband is working or out traveling, especially weeks long trips overseas.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)Sharpie
(64 posts)WTF...
Sincerely a guy literally taking off to Afghanistan this very moment.
cali
(114,904 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)c'mon. It's nothing like it.
BeyondGeography
(39,369 posts)We should be seeing speculative pieces in the Daily Mail any moment.
LeftInTX
(25,258 posts)HipChick
(25,485 posts)already...
Scuba
(53,475 posts)JI7
(89,247 posts)onpatrol98
(1,989 posts)JI7
(89,247 posts)who have talked about how it was tough being a single mother. so the term "single mother" came easily to her.
CTyankee
(63,903 posts)maybe she sympathasizes with them more than we know...
dsc
(52,155 posts)she lives in a house with servants, she has her own mother there too, she isn't anything like the single mothers that I work with who teach all day and come home to take care of a child or children with no help at all. I am glad she corrected it.
CTyankee
(63,903 posts)Hey, it is what it is and how can we deny what she feels herself? She wants him back co-parenting but knows it is not possible. She is a human being.
I will cut her some slack here...
dsc
(52,155 posts)CTyankee
(63,903 posts)I think we should be kind towards her...
onpatrol98
(1,989 posts)If you have an ultra busy spouse, it can definitely feel like that. Although I have no doubt household help...helps, you really want to be all in with your mate.
KittyWampus
(55,894 posts)she has servants which i bet most active duty spouses don't have and she also has the ability to call him home immediately if something horrible happens which they also don't. There are some similarities but there are also alot of differences.
aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)who will now demand to see the birth certificates of Obama's kids or other even crazier notions.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)Which explains *everything*.
FourScore
(9,704 posts)My friends and I always say things like, "I'm a single mother this week." Or "I'm basically a single Mom." It's also usually followed up with, "I don't know how real single Moms do it."
My mother was a single, working Mom with 5 kids ranging in ages 1-12 when she became single. She knows EXACTLY what I mean when I say that and never takes offense.
This is a non-issue. It makes her sound like all the other Moms who carry the primary burden of raising the kids. In case no one noticed, Michelle O's husband is a little busy right now. Just as mine is. That doesn't mean he's not a great Dad. He's contributing in a different way. I'm the taxi, he makes the money.
CTyankee
(63,903 posts)around and it slipped out. She did correct it quickly, tho.
I wish that my problem with my children's dad had been that "he makes the money." He didn't and I had to do that and everything else...which is why I usually get a bit grouchy with moms who say that their hubbies are away "making money" and not being home.
I had a hubby who was home, not working and NOT making money, while I was out grubbing away. I would have preferred the former to the latter.
FourScore
(9,704 posts)I'm not worthy!!! Seriously. (DU needs a bowing-down-to "I'm not worthy" emoticon!)
CTyankee
(63,903 posts)But I was young when I married him and besides, who knows what's going tohappen in the future. I put up with it for as long as I could for the sake of the kids but finally just decided to get a lawyer, figure out a strategy to get him to pay his fair share of the child support and back it up in the divorce agreement and go on with my life. I had a career at that point and was sadder but wiser. He married later (as did I) and has made her life miserable and she wound up supporting him. Some people never change.
That's life, I guess
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Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)Bet that didn't bother you one bit.
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Ikonoklast
(23,973 posts)Enjoy your stay.