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CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 05:37 PM Apr 2013

Uh oh, Tweety just ran a clip where Michelle O. calls herself a "single mother."

She corrected it quickly, tho.

Michelle DOES have a big burden of the childraising right now. As much help as she has, it is still a difficult job. Bless her for doing it...

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Uh oh, Tweety just ran a clip where Michelle O. calls herself a "single mother." (Original Post) CTyankee Apr 2013 OP
It's not far off Tempest Apr 2013 #1
Not dissimilar to families with a spouse serving in combat. KittyWampus Apr 2013 #14
Except with maids, nannies , personal chefs ... Sharpie Apr 2013 #19
+1 and good luck. cali Apr 2013 #22
I gotta wtf this too. cali Apr 2013 #23
Between that and the Kamala Harris flub yesterday BeyondGeography Apr 2013 #2
Front page on the National Enquirer LeftInTX Apr 2013 #3
They have all but married off Kamala to Obama HipChick Apr 2013 #4
Well then I get first dibs on Michelle! Scuba Apr 2013 #5
according to Freepers the Harris comment was meant to cover up him being gay JI7 Apr 2013 #6
They are desperate to find anything. onpatrol98 Apr 2013 #27
the reason she probably made the mistake is because she has talked to many JI7 Apr 2013 #7
She talks to a lot of women whose husbands are away in the armed services... CTyankee Apr 2013 #8
with all due respect dsc Apr 2013 #9
well, I think it was a Freudian slip on her part. I think she feels a lot like a "single parent." CTyankee Apr 2013 #11
she corrected the mistake so that is fine dsc Apr 2013 #12
I can forgive her feelings as a human being... CTyankee Apr 2013 #15
I agree onpatrol98 Apr 2013 #28
do you think she is in a similar situation as women w/spouses in active combat? KittyWampus Apr 2013 #16
no dsc Apr 2013 #17
I can anticipate the creative nuttery from the conservative conspiracy psychopaths aint_no_life_nowhere Apr 2013 #10
Oh no. This is PROOF that a person elected President is replaced with a biological robot. Matariki Apr 2013 #13
Oh geez...C'mon. I'm a married woman with 3 kids... FourScore Apr 2013 #18
Oh, I agree completely with you! I just think she was feeling the lack of having him CTyankee Apr 2013 #20
I don't know how women like you do it. FourScore Apr 2013 #29
I'm jealous of you! You obviously had better luck than I did choosing that particular mate. CTyankee Apr 2013 #30
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2013 #21
Ann Romney Haas had that her entire life, and her husband was never a president. Ikonoklast Apr 2013 #24
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2013 #25
Really. Ikonoklast Apr 2013 #26

Tempest

(14,591 posts)
1. It's not far off
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 05:50 PM
Apr 2013

Considering how often her husband is working or out traveling, especially weeks long trips overseas.

 

Sharpie

(64 posts)
19. Except with maids, nannies , personal chefs ...
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 08:03 PM
Apr 2013

WTF...

Sincerely a guy literally taking off to Afghanistan this very moment.

BeyondGeography

(39,369 posts)
2. Between that and the Kamala Harris flub yesterday
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 05:53 PM
Apr 2013

We should be seeing speculative pieces in the Daily Mail any moment.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
7. the reason she probably made the mistake is because she has talked to many
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 06:27 PM
Apr 2013

who have talked about how it was tough being a single mother. so the term "single mother" came easily to her.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
8. She talks to a lot of women whose husbands are away in the armed services...
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:01 PM
Apr 2013

maybe she sympathasizes with them more than we know...

dsc

(52,155 posts)
9. with all due respect
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:33 PM
Apr 2013

she lives in a house with servants, she has her own mother there too, she isn't anything like the single mothers that I work with who teach all day and come home to take care of a child or children with no help at all. I am glad she corrected it.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
11. well, I think it was a Freudian slip on her part. I think she feels a lot like a "single parent."
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:37 PM
Apr 2013

Hey, it is what it is and how can we deny what she feels herself? She wants him back co-parenting but knows it is not possible. She is a human being.

I will cut her some slack here...

onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
28. I agree
Sat Apr 6, 2013, 09:48 AM
Apr 2013

If you have an ultra busy spouse, it can definitely feel like that. Although I have no doubt household help...helps, you really want to be all in with your mate.

dsc

(52,155 posts)
17. no
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:50 PM
Apr 2013

she has servants which i bet most active duty spouses don't have and she also has the ability to call him home immediately if something horrible happens which they also don't. There are some similarities but there are also alot of differences.

aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
10. I can anticipate the creative nuttery from the conservative conspiracy psychopaths
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:36 PM
Apr 2013

who will now demand to see the birth certificates of Obama's kids or other even crazier notions.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
13. Oh no. This is PROOF that a person elected President is replaced with a biological robot.
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:45 PM
Apr 2013

Which explains *everything*.

FourScore

(9,704 posts)
18. Oh geez...C'mon. I'm a married woman with 3 kids...
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 07:57 PM
Apr 2013

My friends and I always say things like, "I'm a single mother this week." Or "I'm basically a single Mom." It's also usually followed up with, "I don't know how real single Moms do it."

My mother was a single, working Mom with 5 kids ranging in ages 1-12 when she became single. She knows EXACTLY what I mean when I say that and never takes offense.

This is a non-issue. It makes her sound like all the other Moms who carry the primary burden of raising the kids. In case no one noticed, Michelle O's husband is a little busy right now. Just as mine is. That doesn't mean he's not a great Dad. He's contributing in a different way. I'm the taxi, he makes the money.

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
20. Oh, I agree completely with you! I just think she was feeling the lack of having him
Fri Apr 5, 2013, 08:05 PM
Apr 2013

around and it slipped out. She did correct it quickly, tho.

I wish that my problem with my children's dad had been that "he makes the money." He didn't and I had to do that and everything else...which is why I usually get a bit grouchy with moms who say that their hubbies are away "making money" and not being home.

I had a hubby who was home, not working and NOT making money, while I was out grubbing away. I would have preferred the former to the latter.

FourScore

(9,704 posts)
29. I don't know how women like you do it.
Mon Apr 8, 2013, 10:21 AM
Apr 2013

I'm not worthy!!! Seriously. (DU needs a bowing-down-to "I'm not worthy" emoticon!)

CTyankee

(63,903 posts)
30. I'm jealous of you! You obviously had better luck than I did choosing that particular mate.
Mon Apr 8, 2013, 01:41 PM
Apr 2013

But I was young when I married him and besides, who knows what's going tohappen in the future. I put up with it for as long as I could for the sake of the kids but finally just decided to get a lawyer, figure out a strategy to get him to pay his fair share of the child support and back it up in the divorce agreement and go on with my life. I had a career at that point and was sadder but wiser. He married later (as did I) and has made her life miserable and she wound up supporting him. Some people never change.

That's life, I guess

Response to CTyankee (Original post)

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
24. Ann Romney Haas had that her entire life, and her husband was never a president.
Sat Apr 6, 2013, 09:22 AM
Apr 2013

Bet that didn't bother you one bit.

Response to Ikonoklast (Reply #24)

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