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(966 posts)As someone who was raised for a little while by a single mother, I love this!
marshall
(6,665 posts)We should also honor those men who step in to help raise the children of other men, and in many cases adopt those children as their own.
PatSeg
(47,390 posts)was an abusive drunk.
I don't think Obama's step father was in his life for very long.
marshall
(6,665 posts)Clinton's mother was married to Roger Clinton from 1950 to 1967, with a divorce and quick remarriage in 1962. That's 17 years, no insignia ant amount of time.
Likewise, Ann Dunham was married to Lolo Soetero from 1965 to 1980. That's 15 years, from the time Obama was a baby until he was a man.
Whatever the circumstances of the marriage, these two men played much more significant roles in their step sons' lives than the birth fathers, and they were there for significant parts of their young lives.
JDPriestly
(57,936 posts)important years. His stepfather was educated in the US.
Obama did not stay in Indonesia with his step-father for very many years before he came back to go to school in the US.
Obama was born in 1961. His mother married Obama''s stepfather in 1963 and moved with Obama to Indonesia in 1967. Obama would have been two when his mother remarried and about 6 years old when they moved to Indonesia.
Obama attended school in Indonesia from 6 to 10 and returned to the US. He was with his stepfather a total of maybe eight years with his stepfather.
PennsylvaniaMatt
(966 posts)malaise
(268,904 posts)They were very important in his life
marshall
(6,665 posts)Both grandmothers were really second mothers to their grandsons.
malaise
(268,904 posts)Horse with no Name
(33,956 posts)She just got invited to spend next summer at Harvard. She is in 4th grade.
Straight A's. Exceptionally bright.
I am proud. Of both of them.
silverweb
(16,402 posts)[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]ReTHUGs have been trying to blame the country's ills on single moms since the '60s, but these guys blow that argument to hell -- and I've got two of my own to add to the "To Be Insanely Proud Of" list!
ReRe
(10,597 posts)Do you remember what Dan Quale said about single Mom's? I think it was a reaction to TV show "Murphy Brown," (Candice Bergan) wasn't it? I can't remember exactly what he said, but it raised a giant hullabaloo.
raccoon
(31,110 posts)that is not the case.
ReRe
(10,597 posts)... was how he derided all "single Moms". Didn't matter that her fictional character was well off. Functional families come in all sizes and shapes, all socio-economic levels, where there is only one parent, two parents, or two parents of the same sex. As long as there is love and encouragement, and critical needs are met, including an education, those kids are going to be fine.
Melinda
(5,465 posts)Had to add this since there is another thread wherein someone is upset that their tax dollars are being used to fund Medicaid for those who are apparently able bodied and able enough to find a job, dammit!!
The things that chap this liberal ass anyway!!
Great thread, thanks madokie - ya old fart
progressoid
(49,971 posts)Single moms are failures.
Arkansas Granny
(31,514 posts)They are all grown now and every one of them makes me proud.
sheshe2
(83,729 posts)To single mothers everywhere....
lastlib
(23,208 posts). . .
sheshe2
(83,729 posts)Thanks lastlib!
freshwest
(53,661 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)They divorced when I was three.
Circa 1944.
We were 'a casualty of the war'.
Never saw or had any contact with him since.
They're both dead now.
She at 50 with breast cancer.
I learned a few years ago that he died in his mid 50s.
Cause unknown.
She instilled in me a concern for my fellow human beings.
The Golden Rule was her guide.
We were liberals before I knew what that was.
In Birmingham, Alabama.
In the 40s and 50s. and 60s.
I owe her a lot.
After her death I went on to make a career as an airline pilot, married a wonderful woman, had a magnificent daughter, who married a great guy, and now we have two really amazing grandchildren. He's 10 and she is 5.
Life is good.
Thanks, Mom.
totodeinhere
(13,058 posts)statically children from single parent households are more likely to grow up in poverty.
raccoon
(31,110 posts)having to do everything and no spouse to help---KEEP READING--And I realize that sometimes, even if you have a spouse, they are no help and/or are actually a liability, especially if they are an active alcoholic/drug user, etc.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Flora
(126 posts)and still a "single mom" by choice! I decided years ago that it was too hard to try and "date", run a small business, and concentrate on raising my children. My oldest just started grad school while keeping his job within our Louisiana state capitol, and my youngest is making his way through junior high on the honor roll.
Nevernose
(13,081 posts)marshall
(6,665 posts)As Michelle Obama pointed out when she referred to herself as a "busy single mother," oftentimes fathers are drawn away from the family by high powered jobs or other personal reasons, and mothers carry the brunt of raising children. Thanks heaven for those strong mothers!